Singles & Dating - 8 March 2007

Well, the scenario goes like this...I met this guy at a gym club I attend.I wasn't really attracted to him, but he seemed really nice and comforting.Everytime I would see him, he's always come up to me and see how i was doing.I notice there was a ltlle flirting action going on, he gave me his cell number and when I called him he told me he found me to be VERY Attractive, and that if I ever wanted to hang out ot go to a movie call him, so i finally did three weeks ago..and all I can say is that he hasn't been positive.I told him that we should hang out, he tells me in a couple of weeks because he has no money, then i call hima few weeks later and he tells me that he's busy, maybe next week, I text message him to see if we were going out still, he tells me that some things came up, and he was suppossed to hang out with a few people, and he'll let me know he was free...so I'm feeling very rejected.,and I don't know why all the distance from him, when he intiated the "hanging out

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He text messaged saying he was sorry..and his bad" Should I give him a chance or better yet should I call or text him back?

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Also..this guy has in the past called me and hung...and when I see him he's blushing and smiling..so I don't know what to think?

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First of all...I text messaged him a few times...probably once week i would say...and yes I am lonley

2007-03-08 15:35:58 · 14 answers · asked by Velinda S 1

ok heres the deal there is this guy and he has known i like him since the begining of the school year and he looks at me alot and his friends nudge him when im around...but the other day this girl (my friend)who he doesnt know started teasing him about me like she told him i wanted to talk to him after school and he was like ooook like ur weird kind of ok and i never got the chence to talk to him to him so yea and now he is acting kind of weird like he wont look at me and he is kind of avoiding me....buttt today the same girrrl told this guy thats in his class that i liked him and he said he was gonna tell him ...he didnt avoid me as much today he looked at me a couple times...cause i dont think there really that great of friends so idk...what should i do???do u think he thinks im telling ppl to tell him all this stuff???oh and what are some ways i could build up his confidence to ask me out???like look more or sumthin any ideas would be awesome

2007-03-08 15:35:27 · 1 answers · asked by yellowpolka_dots 1

there is a gal I love truly and I really wanna get back up with her and I know she loves me... she said she would call me tonight but never did (thurs)... I tried calling but no answer but I love her she is an ex but i have only dated one gal after her she is with someone though honestly another girl but my heart and my feelings are strong for her i just love her and I cant bring myself to ask someone else out because either it fails or i dont feel comfortable but i love this girl deeply she has no idea.. i do bodybuilding alot yes i am single for the love of the sport and i want her in my life so bad any advice

2007-03-08 15:33:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am taking a gap year and I am from south africa,my girlfriend too. I am spending 1 year in england,I shall return in november this year. will it be possible for us to still continue with this relationship considering I am only 19 years old and have my whole life ahead of me,also bearing in mind that I love her so much and she loves me too, and life without her would be dull?

2007-03-08 15:33:44 · 4 answers · asked by J-Bone 2

My girl loves it from the back...says she likes when the sack hits the cl.it....

how bout you?

2007-03-08 15:32:52 · 3 answers · asked by d_miano81 3

Do u think it's ok for me to buy shoes and jewelery for my gf's feet and pamper her feet and adore her feet, because that is how i show my affection to her, and she finds it very cute and attractive. Please be honest what would think and would u like it.

2007-03-08 15:32:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf recently shuts off his cell phone for a week, then finally show up and explained to me that he did it bcos he's having some problems. I was worried sick about him, and somehow I didn't tell him about that.
Then, yesterday, I sent him some text messages, asking how is he doing and stuff. He didn't reply it, and to my surprise, last nite for the second time he shuts off his cell phone until now. I am really hurt by this. We are actually very far from each other, and the cell phone is one of the ways we communicate to each other.
We've been together for two years, and I know that he's a bit secretive about his problems. And I know that he's NOT cheating on me, his best buddy told me that.
Should I tell him that I am hurt by all this? I won't force him to tell me everything, but I just wanted him to know that I really hated it when he shuts off his cell phone. What am I supposed to do..??

2007-03-08 15:31:22 · 22 answers · asked by Callisto 1

...and you just don't know how to go about it?

2007-03-08 15:30:06 · 15 answers · asked by art_girlt 3

why are there so many complantes abut not being able to find the perfit guy and you guys have ten women to chose from, what is the problem.

2007-03-08 15:30:02 · 7 answers · asked by Sonya K 4

2007-03-08 15:29:59 · 1 answers · asked by J-Bone 2

Any virgins out there?...Are you really happy being a virgin when everyone seems to be doing it nowadays.

2007-03-08 15:29:22 · 8 answers · asked by Bibi 5

I want to know, just a little curious, how can a girl, mmmmmmm, let's say, 15 or so, be sexy for her boyfriend? What does she have to do to turn sexy? Turn slutty or stupid, or can you still be smart and cute and put on the sexiness? I just want to know..............

2007-03-08 15:29:18 · 1 answers · asked by honey 1

i whant him to tuck in his shirt in whenever he is with me as of now he only tucks sumtimes

2007-03-08 15:28:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

There are three hallways..two halls meet and become one, well, I came out of gym and saw my ex boyfriend coming from the opposite direction and he said hi, how are you to me and I said good you..than the hallways met and so did we, well, he started walking so fast, almost running away from me.. I can tell he was a little nervous and maybe sensed that I wanted to talk to him. Why would he do that?

We just started talking after the break up 2 years ago. I first initiated the communication and than he would ignore when I would say hi so I stopped and 2 months after I stopped saying hi he started saying hi..

2007-03-08 15:28:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

It really seems to be true. Sure, guys like "nice girls" at first but eventually get bored and the excitement leaves. It seems like the bitchier you are to a guy, the more he wants you.

2007-03-08 15:28:19 · 4 answers · asked by Miss D 7

okay, he doesn't know i know he likes me. but i like him and he likes me. he doesn't know i know....anyway, so if some friends and us go out to eat, would you want the girl you like to sit by you (so she can gently tough your leg with hers or touch arms, ect.) or sit across from her so you can stare at her?

2007-03-08 15:27:06 · 3 answers · asked by ThinkPink 3

2007-03-08 15:27:01 · 3 answers · asked by hassana h 1

This happened last Tuesday… She called and said her school work is piling up, her family life is bad, she's got college ahead of her (graduating a year early), the ACT's, and she has a pap exam coming up that will determine if her HPV has cleared up or not. (It’s all the truth…I know she’s not lying) She said she’s having a crisis right now and doesn’t know what to do. She told me that she needs to take a break and get her life sorted out before she can have any sort of serious relationship. She told me it's nothing I did but it's everything going on in her life right now. That she really likes me and doesn't want to do it, but felt like she had to. She wants to try and do it single. She then said that after her stuff is sorted out, then she can think about a relationship again. Then she said she had to get off the phone to go do something, but to call her back later if I want. She'd understand if I didn't want to.

I told her I understand where she's coming from and everything, but I'm completely bummed out. I later called her back because she wanted me to do and we talked for a little bit but I was really quiet. I told her that I’m still here to talk if you want in the future. She said okay and about 5 minutes later she had to go do some homework. She then said “I’ll talk to you tomorrow if you want”…and I haven’t talked to her since Tuesday.

Should I continue going no contact or should I talk to her? I want to help her through her problems but I also don’t want it to hinder a future relationship. Maybe no contact is the best option? It’s just so tough. I don’t know if she still wants me to be there for her for support or not.

I mean, she still likes me…but she’s so busy right now.

Btw...it's been 2 months.

Also...she has had a terrible past. She was raped (when she was 13), got pregnant before by her ex bf and he beat her until she had a miscarriage (when she was 16), did drugs, alcohol, all that. She's 17 and I'm 18 now.I told her that I'd still be there for her and accept her for who she is now...which is a great person. She told me I was the greatest guy in the world for that.

I think she still has feelings for me, but she really just needs to get some stuff in her life done. I'm not sure if I should still be there for her or not for the time being.

2007-03-08 15:25:29 · 8 answers · asked by Clarence J 1

I used to date a jerk but I have since moved on and in November..sort of got together with a really good looking guy . He asked me out for a date during my lowest time (with my ex) and I did not expect us to hit it off. he kissed me (caught me completely off guard) at the end of the date but it was really nice. I admit I'm extremely attracted to him coz' he's hot and charming.As I got to know him more, I find that we share a lot in common. Problem is,he's a really popular guy,travels a lot (work related) and has a lot of friends.We hardly meet but spoke on the phone. In January, I expressed my feelings for him.Surprsingly,he said he felt the same way for me. He was overseas that time and only came back last Feb.When he came back, i was excited and we met. (we're sexually involved).But during then,we hardly met up coz' he's busy with his other friends (as usual). I feel that prob' he's just a player.Yet, at times, he treats me like he likes me. Is my intuition right abt him, a player?

2007-03-08 15:25:27 · 6 answers · asked by BunnyBunz 2

At a party, this girl's strap fell down and she didn't notice for a long time. It wasn't until some jerk started making a lot of crude comments that she finally figured it out.

2007-03-08 15:25:14 · 4 answers · asked by Reo 5

if Im gonna be homeschooled

2007-03-08 15:24:17 · 15 answers · asked by Socrates 3

bald, partially bald, or trimmed?

2007-03-08 15:23:56 · 3 answers · asked by curiousin08 3

There's been some akward silences since he admits that he likes you. However, things got back to normal and you guys communicated well enough. (were good friends) A year later, he went back to his country to be with his new girlfriend. You regard him as a friend. But after so long of non- corresponding, you think i should send him a birthday greeting? his birthday's coming up soon. Please advise

2007-03-08 15:22:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-08 15:22:45 · 7 answers · asked by goodness 3

Ok, so there is this shy guy that likes me and I like him back. We always say hi and talk a lil bit, but he's so shy and so am I to make a move. Any advises what should I do?

2007-03-08 15:21:17 · 10 answers · asked by ania 1

2007-03-08 15:20:31 · 8 answers · asked by nickeyphontain1 1

Met this girl online and had a nice chat on YM. Before saying goodbye, she asked for my phone number and gave me hers. I thought she was sweet but it was the first time we YM. What do I do next since I have her phone number? Or maybe we should chat some more? Guys & girls, what's the next step?

2007-03-08 15:20:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I cant make him dinner, cause he's taking me to my fav sandwhich place, I was thinking of treating us with a icecream, anything else, and please no rude things.

2007-03-08 15:20:11 · 4 answers · asked by kitty 6

2007-03-08 15:20:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this isn't too much detail, but here it is anyways. I was being a gentleman. I was standing right by the door and holding the door for the ladies. They didn't even know me and said thank you. And this girl I like comes by me and she knows me. And I hold the door open for her and she just looks at me and didn't say thank you. Is that a good sign or bad sign?

2007-03-08 15:19:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous