Well, the scenario goes like this...I met this guy at a gym club I attend.I wasn't really attracted to him, but he seemed really nice and comforting.Everytime I would see him, he's always come up to me and see how i was doing.I notice there was a ltlle flirting action going on, he gave me his cell number and when I called him he told me he found me to be VERY Attractive, and that if I ever wanted to hang out ot go to a movie call him, so i finally did three weeks ago..and all I can say is that he hasn't been positive.I told him that we should hang out, he tells me in a couple of weeks because he has no money, then i call hima few weeks later and he tells me that he's busy, maybe next week, I text message him to see if we were going out still, he tells me that some things came up, and he was suppossed to hang out with a few people, and he'll let me know he was free...so I'm feeling very rejected.,and I don't know why all the distance from him, when he intiated the "hanging out
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He text messaged saying he was sorry..and his bad" Should I give him a chance or better yet should I call or text him back?
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Also..this guy has in the past called me and hung...and when I see him he's blushing and smiling..so I don't know what to think?
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First of all...I text messaged him a few times...probably once week i would say...and yes I am lonley
2007-03-08 15:35:58 · 14 answers · asked by Velinda S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
On his myspace page..it says he's single..and there's like no woman on there saying anything..
2007-03-08 15:50:20 · update #1
He is enjoying all the attention you are giving him from the calls, text messages, etc.
Leave him alone for a while and stop playing his game. If he likes you he'll straighten up and take you out.
2007-03-08 15:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by Kristine R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things happen that cant be helped but if it happens alot & especially often then you need to cut him loose. Either way dont sit & wait but you dont have to just give up either especially if you were in his spot would you want him to give up just because of one or two things. The response is bad & should have been better even if he didnt have a good excuse as to why he flaked but again either way it happens to us all at some time & has hard as we try we can't always be perfect...
2007-03-08 15:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by mas8baller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh. I wish i would get that much attention! i better start going to the gym and give some girl my phone number! lol. Anyway, only bring up hanging out at the gym, and try and plan something that day, so you can try to flexible, and maybe hook up after you both are done inthe gym. Try that. if it doesn't work, then stop returning his phone calls as much, and possibly only talk to him at the gym, men love the chase!
2007-03-08 15:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, u need to be strait up with him! Just say that you like hanging out with him and would like it to keep going on. Then tell him to be strait up with you and reassure him that if he says he doesnt want to hang out anymore thats totally fine with you, u just dont want this confusion anymore. Tell him your getting mixed signals and you just want to know what he wants from this friendship.
2007-03-08 15:40:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlie...find someone else....this guy sounds like a loser, if this is a sign as to what your future holds with him I would say run the other way! Good luck to you!
2007-03-08 15:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by lolita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to spend this time looking for someone else. This clown is playing with you.
2007-03-08 15:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best way to deal with that is to walk away, quick! he doesnt have any money girl! a lot of other men do have money, go find one that does!
2007-03-08 16:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by selina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's married, and the time he called you his wife walked in the room so he had to hang up.
2007-03-08 15:40:28 · answer #8 · answered by butterfly_grl74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd give up....I don't trust people who don't come through on promises...(no matter how slight the promises are...) I'd find someone else...
2007-03-08 15:39:48 · answer #9 · answered by Chrys 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOOK when your rejected you move on. AND do not get bitter because it happens to all of us.HANG in there. star
2007-03-08 15:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋