Just been dumped for the first time in my left. It really hurts and I feel used and worthless. Whats the best thing I can do right now?
2007-03-08 15:46:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry to hear that.. just keep ur head up .. it not the end of the world .. at least u learn something out of it all i guess .. we all been hurt and dumped before ... so u see.. dont despair .. there 's someone for everybody.. just wasn't the one for u .. like the saying goes .." if it was meant to be it'll be" .. but if it wasnt dont lose hope .. u know what im sayin.. but hey .. keep ur head up..
2007-03-08 15:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by sweetdumplin10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really nothing much you could do but to give yourself the time to heal emotionally. How you do this is entirely up to you. Some guys just jump into dating many women and continuously just do it out of spite. Others take up some hobbies and allow themselves to be distracted.
Whatever you choose, be safe. Don't be wreckless. It's only temporary. Life continues. Do not do anything that will leave you regretting your actions for the rest of your life.
You are beginning to experience what life is about dating. Dating is something that you try to find someone that will fit your life just right. Don't let it get you down for too long. If you hold any reminders of your relationship, throw them away. The last thing you need is to have pictures, messages, letters, and every reminder of her thrown out and removed from your life permanantly. You won't begin the healing and forgetting until you do this. It will do you no good to keep reminders of her. She's moved on. You should too. In the end, you'll come to realize that the pain eventually fades with time, as long as you give yourself space from feeling anything about her; that's where removing all reminders of her come into play.
Best wishes
2007-03-09 01:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by s_p_u_d_n_i_k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay. Really. I'm a girl, and I understand. Usually, it's becuase she doesn't like you like that anymore and likes you as a friend.
For right now, just hang in there, and have some SELF-CONFIDENCE!!!!!!!!
it's really the best thing that you can do, and if you ever think of getting a new girlfriend, then GO FOR IT!!!!! After all, the good thing about her breaking up with you is that you won't have to feel guilty about dating right after the break-up.
Hang in there and I hope this helps!!!!
2007-03-08 23:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by iluvpink1456 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling, when I got unceremoniously dumped...I just got the hell away from the scene of the event. Unfortunately the one who hurt mefell ill and passed on, I still live with the pain...so, my advice to you...don't go looking for a mate...you'll end up right back where you are now...let love find you.
2007-03-08 23:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by Blue Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you do is first cry it out until u cant cry anymore!! then forgive yourself for anything you did wrong and next time dont do it..this is how you grow as a better person. If you didnt do anything wrong, just remember what goes aroung comes around and way wa or another at some point in their life they will feel the pain too or worse. when you are really depressed and are crying your balls out.....pray this and i promise u feel better..but you have to say it like u mean it (put your hand on your chest and say.."god this is to difficult for me to handle right now and i need your help , i leave it all in your hands"
2007-03-08 23:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by amor_dove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take it personally. Thats just life. Buck Up and go on with life. I'm 59 yrs old, been dumped many a time and I'm still alive and KICKEN'. As the old sayin' goes, "there are more fish in the sea" Just don"t let it get to you. You've got the rest of your life to live. Live it Well!!!!
Grandma (tee-hee)
2007-03-08 23:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by Nevermore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, join the party. WE all get dumped once in a while. JUSt move on. THINK positive. KNOW that there is some one else. AND pray 4 her.
2007-03-08 23:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just surround yourself with friends and you'll see! Everything gray and dismal will turn colorful again in no time! Laughing is the best medicine to cure a broken heart! =) cheer up!!
2007-03-08 23:49:43 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do right now is realize that it wil pass and theres more women out there dont worry. Go out and get you some pussy.
2007-03-08 23:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by DT4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejoice man!! This is the best thing that could happen!! Get with a bunch of friends, go bar hopping, clubbing, workout etc...There is something better for you out there. "F that Biatch"
2007-03-08 23:48:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋