i have been talking to this guy for a year now. we both really like each other but hes just really busy with three jobs. the other day he called me up and told me that he didnt like me waithing for him and he just wanted me to be happy but not with him. so i asked him if he ever really liked me. he told me yes but he just wants to be friends because he has so much stuff going on right now and he dont want me to wait for him to get his life straight. do you think that i still have a chance with him and that hes just saying that because im waithing around and he just cant give me the attention he thinks i deserve right now. or do you think that he never even liked me and he was just scared to tell me. but he also told me that he would consider a relationship with me right now if he had his life straight and wasnt working all the time. im so confused. help.
2007-03-08 15:51:07 · 9 answers · asked by sunshine24 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think hes a pretty cool guy, not wanting you to waste you time waiting for him...but I think that if you really like him, and are willing to wait for him then tell him that u dont care, and that u want to wait for him. And if he really likes you and all that he will say ok and just let you wait.
2007-03-08 15:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
liking somebody does not conflict with whether one is SO busy with something - 1, ,2, 3 or even a zillionn jobs, for that matter! commiting with somebody for a relationship is entirely another thing. having so many other things in one's life could affect that relationship.
you asked him if he liked you, he answered and he added a BUT clause. he already gave an aswer to something which you haven't even asked yet.
he may have answered the "liking" part positively, but he took a step further and gave you an answer right away in the "commiting" part, long before he's supposed to decide on it. don't waste your time thinking of the what ifs; you were already given the answer long before you asked about it.
2007-03-09 00:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by weng. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i undrstand how you feel ryt nw.but here is my opinion about your situation......since he told you that he does like you as well and would consider havng relationship with you, then i thnk he like you and have this feeling speciall for you...but the thing is,maybe he is just confuse ryt nw on how to handle his life and unsure of what he really wants because a person who really knws what he wants should take all the risk to have someone with him even if how busy life is.....loving is surpassing all the inequities that we have in our life,so having 3 jobs is not an excuse not to have any relationships
2007-03-09 03:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by magica_buds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rare would be the person that found someone they were deeply interested in and they couldn't find "some" time for them. Sounds like he could be wanting an out and doesn't want to hurt you. Don't hang on, you do deserve to find someone that has time for you!
2007-03-08 23:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its simple...he doesn't want a relationship with you, but he doesn't want to hurt you. Let him alone. And MOVE ON!!! When a man really wants to be with a woman, he can have 10 jobs, and still find time for you.
2007-03-08 23:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by PRLadyDama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if you want to wait fot him, you should, and dont just wait, tell him that you are going to. maybe if he hears that he might try to get it together faster, or at least make some time for you. if some one told me that he was going to wait for me i would be with that person anyway. even if i didnt have time, i would make time.
2007-03-08 23:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to what he says, don't try to figure him out. If he says don't wait, he means it. Men say what they mean. Move on.
2007-03-08 23:54:58 · answer #7 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you have a chance
you just need courage
2007-03-09 00:10:15 · answer #8 · answered by HULK 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take his advice dont wait.. muv on.
2007-03-08 23:55:33 · answer #9 · answered by masku darling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋