Singles & Dating - 7 March 2007

The man I was dating thought I wanted something a lot more serious than him, so I was "dumped." Because I am not a chaser, I accepted it, stopped calling and making an effort to see or speak to him. I see him often (at work), and act normal as though nothing bugs me. Now, he acts as though he is back to being 'flirty', i.e., rubbing my back, saying flirty things, being extremely nice. I act as though it doesn' t phase me..But I'm wondering, why the mixed signals? Don't you think if he 'got rid' of me, he'd stop making an effort to be around me at least? Perhaps because I didn't chase him, he is curious again? What do you think? Thanks :)

2007-03-07 18:00:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 18 years old and I never got laid, I am still a vergin as we speak. And I am a normal straight guy that loves women but I have zerro luck with women. It seems to me that i would never get laid! I tired of being a vergin! All my friends got laid at 13-14, but never past 18! I feel so ashamed of myself that I am a vergin that I might get desperate eniugh to pay a hooker. But the only reason I would not do that is because I don't want it to fall off a year later!. So anyone have any seggestion to an unsuccesfull dude like me?

2007-03-07 18:00:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today a girl I know pretty well from school but never hang out with asked me if I wanted to babysit with her on Saturday. She's never asked me anything like this before and honestly, I think it's a little strange to ask someone this. I would be going over to someone else's house and hanging with her and the kid she looks after.

2007-03-07 17:59:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

y are females so materialistic ,my freinds gf dichted him becos he wasnt tht rich n he wasnt tht very attractive n good looking .....tht sux , y do they look at external appearances
tht guy is allmost on the verg of death ... saddd

2007-03-07 17:59:28 · 10 answers · asked by (omplExity _|_ 1

2007-03-07 17:58:13 · 16 answers · asked by ashaarani 1

I thought that we were pretty obvious and that girls are the real mystery.

2007-03-07 17:56:29 · 5 answers · asked by TheSilverBeetles 4

It seems like when they ARE interested, they eventually end up liking me as a friend. I was sort of just hanging out w/this one guy and we got along SO well. We totally clicked and now all of a sudden, he likes some other girl. This keeps happening to me. I go from guys liking me to the same guys seeing me as their best friend.

2007-03-07 17:55:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a really sweet gentleman (or that's what I'm thinking at this point) and I like him a lot. We have some things in common. I'm a little afraid to take him seriously (relationship-wise). Should I take a chance and believe that he really doesn't have a problem with me being older?

2007-03-07 17:55:26 · 19 answers · asked by Try You 2

2007-03-07 17:53:55 · 14 answers · asked by Mukesh C 1

He doesn't want her. But they are friends. He tries to get it across to her that she doen't have his attention. I do. This girl seems to enjoy trying to embarrass me about him!

2007-03-07 17:52:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

when we first started dating she was pretty fit but she has put on about 100 pounds since then. I love her but i dont want to marry someone that doesnt care about herself. She has basically told me she didnt care about being in shape anymore. What should i do?

2007-03-07 17:52:21 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

and not in a good way?

2007-03-07 17:51:48 · 16 answers · asked by chris t 1

My best friend (for a few years) and I have recently fallen head over heels for each other - we were not expecting this at all - we truly care and adore each other but we decided that right now is not a good time in our lives to have that serious relationships we long from each other. He's been STRESSED with financial/schoo/work - as for me too but we're still great friends.

I heard that SOME guys will play hard to get with the girl so that the next time the girl sees them, she'll "miss him" and want him more - flirtier. I notice with this guy is that he'll say "you need to get over me" yet he'll initiate the moves and his actions show that he REALLY wants to be with me. Then after we'll "get close", he'll "limit" himself but not completely avoid me. I'm confused - i thought he didn't want a relationship right now - i thought he wanted something serious for later? and why did he say that we needed to get over each other?

WHY????????????????

2007-03-07 17:50:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay. I'm in high school and there is this cool girl in one of my classes. This girl DOES have a boyfriend which is why I am extremely confused.

1. She is always with me in this class.
2. When there is a missing chair or something, we share one chair.
3. She leans her head on my shoulder, tickles me, or finds any possible way to touch me.
4. She blushes when I stare at her.
5. She always smiles and laughs when I say something.
6. We always hug when we leave each other.
7. I drink out of her water bottle sometimes and she's fine with it.

I think she likes me and I like her back. She is definatly forward and I would be to with her, but in the back of my head there is always "She has a boyfriend, don't go too far!"
Today she was standing in front of me, I put my arms around her waist and she loved it.
I am extremely confused! Is she teasing me? Is she messing with my feelings? It's getting to a point where I can't stop thinking about her, but I don't wanna get heart broken.

2007-03-07 17:44:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is always on myspace and whenever he is on, this chick is on also. He wont let me view his messages so how can I get in?

2007-03-07 17:41:18 · 25 answers · asked by mscluckey 1

2007-03-07 17:40:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this guy and i dont want him to think that im that easy and that ill say yes to him no matter what if he were to ask me out..do you have any tips on different things to say making it harder for him yet still have him interested ..

2007-03-07 17:37:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I have been dating this girl for about 6 months now and it has defintely been a rocky road. However lately, as the days go by, I am finding myself more and more unattracted to the drama that goes on in her life as well as physically. I feel like I am trapped. The REAL issue is breaking this to her..she has had alot of issues recently and I really don't want to be the person that sends her over the edge. Also whenever I have communicated to her ANYTHING that remotely involves me going anywhere(such as college, vacation, etc.) she immediately becomes sad and a bit pouty. In my own mind, I think she needs me to be a friend instead of her boyfriend. I feel like if I dump her now, she will breakdown. But if I don't do this something soon I feel like I will go downhill along with her. So what should I do?

Thanks!

2007-03-07 17:35:48 · 14 answers · asked by fuetbol_lover_4_life 1

well there is this guy i used like then liked again, his name is aaron, he is red head, and he treats me like crap, he called me names, and he thinks i am a stalker coz i stole his number out of his friends phone i checked with his friend first, wat should i do about him, he driving me insane, and plus i used to cut but i have stopped so i dont no how to deal with my problem someone please help me

2007-03-07 17:34:32 · 3 answers · asked by EmZy 2

of 39 and tell him what you think!!!!!!! for me!!!!

2007-03-07 17:33:37 · 2 answers · asked by kathleen h 2

ed me and come to find out he was a player that was using women for sex and dumping them, how can I stop him from hurting innocent women he is on myspace through the glass, he is 39

2007-03-07 17:30:19 · 18 answers · asked by kathleen h 2

theres this guy i met online, hes a friend of a friend but he doesnt know ik his friend, so ik hes not a creep, and i like him a lot and we talk all the time and he always tells me he misses me and he thinks bout me and wants to see me, and he just told me he loved me and i told him i loved him too, but idk if he means like friendly or more than friends but i love him more than friends...idk wut i should do like tell him or meet him somewhere and im scared to do anything
ive talked to him for a year already and my friend knows him from church so its safe

2007-03-07 17:29:22 · 12 answers · asked by Hottie w/ a Bottie 1

2007-03-07 17:27:32 · 4 answers · asked by mastan 1

ok we've been together for a year and he was so nice in the beginning a now he's a total conrol freak!!!!! he basically lied about who he was.....he's a ex drug dealer and is jobless spends a lot of time at my place he eats (alot),sleeps, showers
basically run up my bills and cant help me out because he doesnt have a job i should of known because he's 22 and still lives with his mom.....i eventually found out that the only responsiblity he had in his life is a cell phone bill and gas for his car.....so now he's been at my house for the last few months and then want to nit pick on me having little smart comments to say when i say i want some space...wtf! he act like he cant go home without him sayin....i only want him to go home is because i want to go out and meet ppl and all this other BS. he always blurts out" do whatever you want" he act like i need his approval whats his problem and what should i do???HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-07 17:26:53 · 2 answers · asked by dorothy w 1

What accent do you find the sexiest? What accent do you find the most unattractive?

2007-03-07 17:26:26 · 34 answers · asked by bonni 1

my boy friend loves me so much one day he asks me for sex which i denied as i dnt like since from that day he dnt talk much he looks angry am feeling he is leaving me tell me wot should i do? because its attitaude hurting me soooooooo badly am crying

2007-03-07 17:25:36 · 7 answers · asked by white passion 1

So I like this girl at work, and it seems like for some reason I'm afraid to say anything to her, I can't even look her in the eyes anymore. I don't know why either, I've made things REALLY awkward. How do I damage control this situation?

2007-03-07 17:25:11 · 8 answers · asked by reff 3

i wasworking the other day, and i saw someone open someones locker, i dont think they took anything outta it, but they were looking in it... i thought itwas their own locker until i went to get my bag and i saw that it wasone ofthe girlsbags in the locker... i dont think the person took nething.. but i just dont know if i should tell my manager about it..???? how do i approach this

2007-03-07 17:24:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay there is this girl in one my classes who sits next to me.

She is a nice girl, a little quirky, but nice. I've had the feeling she liked me for a while now but today she practically said it. She kept writing these little notes on slips of papers and giving them to me saying stuff like "You are so cute!" and "I love you", not subtle at all.

I don't find her attractive at all and she gets on my nerves sometimes. She has a cute personality but it's one of those annoying ones. And she holds hands with this girl sometimes. I think she may be bi.

Problem is that I have a feeling she is going to ask me out soon and I don't know what to say. Obviously it's going to be no, but I don't know how to say it nicely.

2007-03-07 17:23:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been in love with the word love, but is it out there? Or is it easer, just being in love with money?

2007-03-07 17:22:53 · 4 answers · asked by geegee_0420 1