theres this guy i met online, hes a friend of a friend but he doesnt know ik his friend, so ik hes not a creep, and i like him a lot and we talk all the time and he always tells me he misses me and he thinks bout me and wants to see me, and he just told me he loved me and i told him i loved him too, but idk if he means like friendly or more than friends but i love him more than friends...idk wut i should do like tell him or meet him somewhere and im scared to do anything
ive talked to him for a year already and my friend knows him from church so its safe
2007-03-07 17:29:22 · 12 answers · asked by Hottie w/ a Bottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Meet him, why not meet him at church.
2007-03-07 17:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by mundo808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him! He has already indicated he only wants to be friends this means if you want more out of him you will have to give him more. I don't think you need to go there.. Just because he goes to church does not mean he could be evil. And the fact that someone you know, knows him does not mean your safe. Getting to know someone over the Internet is not getting to know someone. There is a lot more to learning about a person than just talk.. What about body language and how he treats other people or his parents and siblings. Don't get into a hurry.. Who you would marry today is not the same person you would marry 5 years from now. I promise you that. Trust me; I've never lied to you!
2007-03-08 01:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by denfasr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he means by his statement next time he tells you he loves you. If it's the same way you feel, you guys could probably get together sometime! My props on checking to make sure he's safe! I hope things work out well for you!
2007-03-08 01:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im always skeptical of online meetings. But if you know for sure that hes a trusted friend of your good and trusted friend, then maybe its safe to just meet in a public area. but have your good gal-pals on speed dial just in case you wanna bail.
2007-03-08 01:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by Noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set up a safe place to meet him. Take the first time real slow and find out if he really is who you think he is. Good luck and let me know how it turns out.
2007-03-08 01:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, ask him if he wants to meet you and your friends somewhere (go in a group just in case) and he will probably say yes. When you meet him you can talk to him about your feelings for him. good luck! <33
2007-03-08 01:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Emily♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not saying since he is from church it is alright but if your friends know him and say he is okay and if you know that he is not a older guy than ya. ask himt o meet you but only if you are sure about this guy.
2007-03-08 01:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by LIlSis K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my fiance online, the best thing that ever happened to me. if u kno its safe then go for it.
2007-03-08 01:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if you can have both date in the sanctuary, and possibly get hammered there while you're at it
2007-03-08 01:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go where your heart told you to do so but be aware of un certainties
2007-03-08 01:32:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋