Okay there is this girl in one my classes who sits next to me.
She is a nice girl, a little quirky, but nice. I've had the feeling she liked me for a while now but today she practically said it. She kept writing these little notes on slips of papers and giving them to me saying stuff like "You are so cute!" and "I love you", not subtle at all.
I don't find her attractive at all and she gets on my nerves sometimes. She has a cute personality but it's one of those annoying ones. And she holds hands with this girl sometimes. I think she may be bi.
Problem is that I have a feeling she is going to ask me out soon and I don't know what to say. Obviously it's going to be no, but I don't know how to say it nicely.
2007-03-07 17:23:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start a rumor that you have genital warts. That will take care her....and probably just about anyone else.
Thats what you call the NUCLEAR option...but hey!...at least you have it.
I am in a weird mood tonight. Sorry.
2007-03-07 17:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by Dan The Answer Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her down as nicely as possible. Not being attracted to someone is a very valid reason for rejecting her but do not say that. Attraction is key in relationships. If the time arrises that she does ask you out just explain to her that you are sorry but that you see her more as a friend than anything (even if you 2 aren't really friends it's a good bluff). She will be hurt and upset but try not to make a scene that will embarrass her and just tell her no gently.
2007-03-08 01:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by sarah c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u have no feelings at all towards her try by all means to avoid her. If she persists well tell her nicely that she is a really nice girl,but that u either are seeing someone right now or that u are not ready for a relationship yet. She might be upset at first but after that I'm sure she wont insist. Good Luck!
2007-03-08 01:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anime Luver! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait and don't beat around the bush. The longer you keep going along with her fowardness- the more you're leading her on which can lead to more hurt feelings down the road. If you're a confident and honest individual you'd just be open and offer the opportunity for friendship- that's what a good guy would do in this situation.
2007-03-08 01:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by actuatedtendancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay this is what you need to do: you need to tell her you are not interested in her in that way. Let her know she is a great girl and a good friend but you just cant make yourself think of her in a romantic kinda way. Or just be frank if she really gets on your nerves and you don't even want to be friends with her just say I'm sorry but you are getting on my nerves I don't like you so please stop.
2007-03-08 01:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by Robin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should set her straight before you might lead her on into something that won't happen.
2007-03-08 01:26:43 · answer #6 · answered by <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better say that straight on her face. and its better you do it soon.
2007-03-08 01:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by Ps N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be polite, but don't pay any attention to her. she may THINK you like her if you act like she exists. just ignore her. you don't have to like anyone you don't want to.
2007-03-08 01:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by green sky means run 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her its not a good time for you. it works beautifully.
2007-03-08 01:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by Nick M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋