Okay. I'm in high school and there is this cool girl in one of my classes. This girl DOES have a boyfriend which is why I am extremely confused.
1. She is always with me in this class.
2. When there is a missing chair or something, we share one chair.
3. She leans her head on my shoulder, tickles me, or finds any possible way to touch me.
4. She blushes when I stare at her.
5. She always smiles and laughs when I say something.
6. We always hug when we leave each other.
7. I drink out of her water bottle sometimes and she's fine with it.
I think she likes me and I like her back. She is definatly forward and I would be to with her, but in the back of my head there is always "She has a boyfriend, don't go too far!"
Today she was standing in front of me, I put my arms around her waist and she loved it.
I am extremely confused! Is she teasing me? Is she messing with my feelings? It's getting to a point where I can't stop thinking about her, but I don't wanna get heart broken.
2007-03-07 17:44:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This probably isn't what you want to hear but, if this girl was your girlfriend, would you want her doing the stuff she'd doing with you with another guy? How would that make you feel? Pretty crappy, right? The bottom line here is, she's got a boyfriend. If she doesn't like him, she needs to end the relationship before you get your a** kicked over some chick that you only have a flirtation with.
Look, it sounds like she likes you. That, or she's just a huge flirt. I'm leaning towards her probably liking you. That's great BUT, she's still got that boyfriend. If she seriously liked you, she'd probably say something to you and end her relationship. She's not doing that so you have to take this stuff with a grain of salt. She could be flirting with you for an ego boost (I'm a chick, I know how our minds work!). Those are always possibilities. If you really like her, take a chance and ask her what's up. Be ready for drama though because of the whole bf thing. Just remember, whatever someone is willing to do with you behind someone else's back, they'll probably do to you with someone else behind YOUR back. She might be a very lovely girl who is just confused but, you need to look at what she's NOT doing. She's not breaking up with the other dude to be with you so, how serious is she?
Have a talk with her. Tell her how you feel and how her actions make you think she feels. Maybe you'll get lucky and you two will be together. Who knows? You need to protect yourself either way and realize that right now, this is a dead end situtation if you want more from her. Good luck and I hope everything works out the way you'd like it to.
2007-03-07 17:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'd agree that she likes you. But, there is also a chance that she likes you as a friend and is flirting with you to try and either get her boyfriend jealous or ease some inner insecurities. I don't mean to get complicated, but teenage girls...heck ALL girls...are complicated. Does she seem happy in her relationship? If not, then you have no reason not to make your feelings known. Go for it. However, if she does seem happy in her relationship with her boyfriend, maybe you should have fun with it, but try not to get too emotionally attached until she is available. Always stay her friend, though, that can someday make the difference between liking you and loving you. Good luck!
2007-03-08 01:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by kimmunism 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is the possibility that this girl is interested in you, but sometimes girls lead guys on because it makes them feel good about themselves (he likes me, therefore I am a likeable girl). Sometimes it isn't even a conscious thing that they are doing. Also, girl guy relationships (friends and boyfriend/girlfriend) are interpreted differently by each person. The girl may be hugging you because she hugs her friends, and the guy takes it as a signal that she wants a little more. BUT she could be doing exactly that: sending a signal. Relationships are complicated.
2007-03-08 01:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately sounds like she likes you. Or maybe she's just a big flirt. Either way, you need to talk to her and get one of your friends to talk to her for you. Maybe she likes you more then her bf and is just waiting for you to make a move which at that point she'd break up with her current bf and get with you. Just do some talking, it will get you farther then just sitting there wondering if she really likes you or not.
2007-03-08 01:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by xkimmimonstarx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't lose your head over something that is just a boy girl friendship..you have a lot of time to get serious when you finish your studies..learn you lessons as this is what is going to put food on the table
2007-03-08 01:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, tell her about how ur feeling and that you would like to have a relationship. Try not to break up her and her bf thats something she has to decide by herself
2007-03-08 01:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by msX 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you but she has a boyfriend which means she's a player and you need to steer clear.
2007-03-08 01:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just give it time and let her make the first move so you don't end up getting hurt.
2007-03-08 01:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Emily♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a playa man. Git r done
2007-03-08 02:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by willynaked 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is her boyfriend tough or a pushover. If you can beat up her boyfriend, then go for her. If her boyfriend can be you up, then back off.
2007-03-08 01:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by TheSilverBeetles 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋