Singles & Dating - 7 March 2007

i have a boyfriend whos 3 years older than me and im a freshman in high school. Originally i relaly tohught he liked me and we messed around a bit. when i finally got fed up with it i told him i wanted a more serious reltionship and that i was saving myself for the guy i wanted to marry. He said he doesn't know what to tihnk because that isn't what he wants. Every time we talk he says "Well there is option A. we have a serious relationship, option B. we break up, and i dont like either of those or option C. i cheat on you"
i feel like he is threatening me to do things or he will cheat or break up with me. I honestly think i love him but how do i deal with this?

2007-03-07 12:39:14 · 11 answers · asked by drummergrrl2004 2

Me and my ex broke up in october, but he lives with me, and were still acting like were together. He has been with one other girl since we broke things off but that was back in december. He always tells me he's trying to get his life together so we can do things right, and he says he wants to build a life with me. He has even referenced marriage. I have never met his family and we've been dating for over a year?????

2007-03-07 12:38:48 · 12 answers · asked by jacqueswifey07 1

we had a wonderful time, and said he loved me, but he lives far away and said he didn't trust me because i went out a lot. i can't forget him, and want to talk to him. it's been 7 months now, and he refuses to talk to me! shall i just give up, and let it be, or shall i keep trying? i love him with all my heart!

2007-03-07 12:37:18 · 18 answers · asked by qk 2

A female friend of my said a quote that women seem to like alot "Men are like parking spaces all the good ones are handicap or taken". My point is do women expect guys to read minds? As a guy I have to agree most men are selfish, all about themselves & sex but at the same time women don't help themselves or help guys especially the good ones try to understand what it is she wants. One minute a woman wants to be self efficent & not rely on anyone especially a man, ok makes sense. The next they want their best friend especially when times get rough as they do. Again I can see that. Still other times they want to cuddle without being sexual, makes sense. Yet other times they want to be sexual without the talking, then they want a guy to work for sex yet if a guy doesn't push for it within a few dates he's not romanticlly interested. One minute she wants the bad boy the next she doesnt. Lastly she often says she wants the good guy yet runs from one simply because he cares & no reason why.

2007-03-07 12:35:09 · 6 answers · asked by bpeter3196 5

this guy who is a grade younger than me likes me, but i dont know wut he wants. does he just want sex, or wut. he keeps tellin his friend that he likes me, but its soo confusing. i want to figure him out b4 i start likeing him. we've hung out and he has put his arms around me in the car, he's soo cute, but i wanna know wut he wants, a relationship or just a friend.

2007-03-07 12:34:07 · 19 answers · asked by cus i forgot my name...? 3

2007-03-07 12:33:57 · 14 answers · asked by Smith 1

2007-03-07 12:32:35 · 1 answers · asked by princess 1

2007-03-07 12:32:27 · 37 answers · asked by vil 1

The first time i am going to go and stay with my boyfriend and i feel so guilty about it , because the last time he visited me , we did a little bit of intimacy and i was so feeling guilty that i had done something wrong . But now i have to go and stay with him in his house for 10 days and i am sure he is going to have sex with me and i am going to feel very bad after that , i love him a lot and cannot tell him that i dont want to have sex with him for he will think i dont like him , why do i feel guilty , can someone explain that there is nothing wrong with that , i met him on shaadi .com and we both decided that we are for each other , and due to some issues cannot marry him for 5 months

2007-03-07 12:31:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-07 12:31:37 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1

im going to kiss my girl but will the hiv/aids be put into affect

2007-03-07 12:30:43 · 7 answers · asked by Bass 3

think it is gross if a girl bups somtimes in front of u or somtimes curses

2007-03-07 12:30:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friends have told me that he cheats on all his gf and i like him and he might ask me out on his bday and i dont no if i should go out with him. cuz he says all this stuff thats so sweet and i love it but then when hes with other girls hes all over them touching them and flirting and he says he likes me but i dont think he means it. I need help please im not good with boys lol

2007-03-07 12:30:24 · 10 answers · asked by jc h 1

Theres this guy that rides my bus. I really like him and he really likes me but hes to scared to ask me out cuze this other girl that likes him thinks shes going out wit him and there not and she would kill me. Well since he haz tried to tell her that there not going out and never were. So should i ask him out or tell her she ain't going out wit him and that he hates he cuze he does and she hates me anyways. She really ticks me off to.. HELP!! PLZ&THX

2007-03-07 12:29:39 · 1 answers · asked by jonlova_23 3

Ok there's this girl and I don't like her at all...but she likes me. every day she stares at me and says hi in the hallway her friends are always saying Kelly likes you, i have even got my friends to tell her i don't like her and that doesn't seem to work i have also tried ignoring her. what do i do!?

2007-03-07 12:29:27 · 1 answers · asked by mirrorcoin 3

He totally sucks! i love him a lot, but he doesn't know how to :( first off he's really lazy he always wants me in the top, he doesn't like doing it in other positions.... he's boring and when he's on top he doesn't move right! ah!! I don't know what to do! He moves all his body except the right part.. it's even funny to think about it because i've never known anyone to be this bad... So guys or anyone? any tips on how to make him better... He's younger than I am by the way i'm like his first real gf... i've tried teaching him, he learned a bit but he needs more help!!

2007-03-07 12:28:37 · 6 answers · asked by andrea p 1

just started seeing this guy. we met online thru personals last fall. he contacted me first and we corresponded thru emails a couple of times.. finally we met up back in january. At first i thought he wasnt all that interested - the way he was quick to leave after our first meeting and the way he talked about himself, about his work the whole time. A few days later he wanted to see me. I was at a friend's. He visited me there, briefly. We went out for drinks days later - made out at the bar. He gave me a pre-valentine's gift but it looked like he rounded up some stuff around his house & gave them to me. Saw each other couple times after that. We started having sex since the 4th time seeing each other. He travels a lot bc of his work. I dont see him much. But whenever he is here in town, he doesnt do much with me - no dinner, no outing. Seems like he just wants sex.

I'd like to get to know him better & see if he is the one. How? Sex is great but i want to get to know him more. Help!

2007-03-07 12:27:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't believe in hitting a woman... but it comes a time when they yell at you for no reason, for like the 10th time. Shouldn't there be a limit?

2007-03-07 12:27:04 · 8 answers · asked by BabyDuckSoup 2

i BROKE UP WITH MY BOYFRIEND OF A YR AND I HAVEN'T CALLED HIM OR ANYTHING. WE'VE GOTTEN BACK TOGETHER SO MANY TIMES WE'VE BOTH JUST HAD ENOUGH AND NOW THAT i'M GOING ON A MONTH WITHOUT ANY COMMUNICATION WITH HIM i AM PROUD. AND i WILL REMAIN SINGLE FOR A LONG WHILE. i'VE GOT SOME THINKING i HAVE TO DO ABOUT MEN BEFORE I START DATING AGAIN. NEXT WEEKEND IS THE FIRST WEEKEND i'LL BE GOING OUT WITH MY GIRLS WITHOUT HAVING TO FEEL GUILTY, i'VE BEEN DOING SOME SHOPPING TO BE CUTE FOR THE SPRING/SUMMER AND i'VE LOST 10 LBS. WOULDN'T YOU BE PROUD IF YOU WERE ME?? WHOO- HOOO FOR ME!!

2007-03-07 12:26:15 · 7 answers · asked by Marianita 2

2007-03-07 12:26:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a really great guy friend and of course the usual, i really like him. He is a really flirtatious guy so i asked him if he liked me or what, he said he just wanted to be friends and sorry he led me on. I was ok with that. I don't understand why he continues flirting and when i asked him who he likes he told me he couldn't tell me when he usually would since we are close. I asked him why and he responded with many excuses such as why do you care, i just can't tell you, you don't know her (why wouldn't he tell me when i "wouldn't know her") and many more. It finally came down to it when i told him to stop making up stuff and i could tell this is the truth, finally, "its not the right time" or something like that and "its a complicated relationship." so after a bit he blurted out a name who i knew it wasn't bc i previously asked that and then blurted out another name and im wondering if he just made that up to cover up

2007-03-07 12:25:44 · 5 answers · asked by apples_and_bananas! 2

im having sex with 3 girls at job corp but i feel bad casue they dont knjow im being with others.should i tell them or just be with one girl? what should i do?

2007-03-07 12:23:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont know her that well. But she gives me massages for about 10mins for free. Why is she trying to do?

2007-03-07 12:22:17 · 7 answers · asked by gaylord 1

2007-03-07 12:21:59 · 6 answers · asked by *Living a {{ღяøM@N!Cღ}} Tragity* 5

Ok i haven't heard nor seen him in 3 weeks and like 5 days and i really miss him and hes like my biggest crush and hes been homeschooled and i cant call him cause i aint got his # and hes my friend and i really miss him like really really bad and i would do anything just to c him again so what should i do to get over him?

2007-03-07 12:21:55 · 7 answers · asked by ҉Single Chick~a~Dee҉ 2

like when they always step on your feet or take things from u to get u mad and then give then back and always talk to u and smile at u. and then they say they dont like u when someone asks

2007-03-07 12:20:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

mk so he might be moving out of state and that means i wont get to see him for 2 1/2 years so what do i do? i mean i love him to death but i wont ever get to see him

2007-03-07 12:19:54 · 11 answers · asked by i ♥ him with all of my heart!! 1

I recently met a guy from a mutual friend. We totally hit it off and got along very well. I called him and invited him to a party at our friends house (kind of knowing he would go anyway). My friend said he was into me, but when he arrived at the party we were at, he didn't pay any attention to me, and walked away anytime I talked to him. He was just talking to his male roommate. He was not trying to talk to other girls. I have written him off, but am just courious as to why he would be so cold all of a sudden. Any thoughts????

2007-03-07 12:19:31 · 10 answers · asked by Sara Girl 2

I met this guy who is 29 years old on a reputable dating site . I'll call him "Aaron." Aaron and I have been talking everyday for the last couple weeks and talking on the phone. He seems like a genuine guy. He even told me he was arrested for a minor infraction. Nothing to raise alarm. I'm very interested in him and he is very interested in me. Though I am 18 years old. Do you think this is wrong? What would you do? Do you think age matters?

He also has a 4 year old son.

*Mature answers only please*

2007-03-07 12:19:29 · 10 answers · asked by Brynne 1

my girlfriend, the love of my life. --one of her friends said i was wierd (i wasnt there) and my girlfriend got mad, and now she hasnt talked to her since, (about a week ago) my girlfriend says im not wierd. but anyways, i makes me so happy that she would avoid someone that was saying stuff about me. (and i know my girlfriend, it was stopp talking to her, or beat the crap out of her) i am so glad i found my girlfriend. i love her so much

2007-03-07 12:19:19 · 4 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5