this guy who is a grade younger than me likes me, but i dont know wut he wants. does he just want sex, or wut. he keeps tellin his friend that he likes me, but its soo confusing. i want to figure him out b4 i start likeing him. we've hung out and he has put his arms around me in the car, he's soo cute, but i wanna know wut he wants, a relationship or just a friend.
2007-03-07 12:34:07 · 19 answers · asked by cus i forgot my name...? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because they don't mature as fast as girls.....whew
2007-03-07 12:36:02 · answer #1 · answered by Daughter of a Coma Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing confusing about that whatsoever. it all has to do with the way that you perceive the guy though; it's self edifying, if you think he's one way, he is, or will be once you subtly direct him towards being that way. you'd be amazed at what some guys will do for the relationship, girls aren't' the only ones who change.
honestly, if you don't think the relationship will work, and that all he wants is that, then that is exactly what will end up happening. relationships are rarely any better than the negativity that goes into them. ask him how he feels. figure how you feel about that after he tells you, if it changes anything or just reaffirms where you're at. you'll have your answer in time ...
2007-03-07 20:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can usually tell how a boy asks if they are trying to get in your pants or if they actually want a relationship. Start hanging out with him more, and if he tried to go "all" the way with you right off the bat well then theres your answer but if he holds off and doesnt try anything then he is more a relationship kind of guy. Well good luck <3
2007-03-07 20:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by girlofyourdreams_6905 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To hear them talk we are confusing, it takes them a few years longer than we gals, and who has time to wait for that? You sound in a rush, take it slow. NO WAY sex sure they always want that if your inclined they aren't going to say no, but love yourself more and wait for mr Right. not a mr Wrong. lots of guys are cute don't let that get in the way...be smart.....
2007-03-07 20:41:59 · answer #4 · answered by brown eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's told his friend, more than likely he wants a relationship. I wouldn't be able to tell you if he's only in it for sex, though.
2007-03-07 20:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by King John dragon-slayer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him... or if your willing to see if he just wants to have sex go along with his "moves" and if he starts getting roudy tell him he is "A JERK WITH A WEIRD EGG-SHAPED HEAD"
ive recieved that one myself LOL
2007-03-07 20:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by linkin_brandon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should date him. He prob doesnt want what u think he just wants you. Who u r not for sex
2007-03-07 20:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him do what he wants, and when he crosses the line, all the things that confuses you ends with an answer
2007-03-07 20:44:16 · answer #8 · answered by jhust b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
agh i don`t know either.
but the only way to really find out the answer
is to ask him yourself. =]
you won`t regret it.<3
2007-03-07 20:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by Taylor. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't delay, ask him frankly what he wants from you. I think you are confused yourself so please be honest & true in relationship
Ask him what you want from him otherwise you will have to repent.
2007-03-07 20:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come out and ask him.
2007-03-07 20:40:41 · answer #11 · answered by melody g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋