we had a wonderful time, and said he loved me, but he lives far away and said he didn't trust me because i went out a lot. i can't forget him, and want to talk to him. it's been 7 months now, and he refuses to talk to me! shall i just give up, and let it be, or shall i keep trying? i love him with all my heart!
2007-03-07 12:37:18 · 18 answers · asked by qk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in short, you are a stalker.
he does not want to talk to you.. stop calling or face some jail time if he decides to persue charging you.
2007-03-07 12:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's inevitable that at some stage in our lives we will lose someone we love but you need to let him go. If you continue with this obsessive behaviour you will only get yourself into trouble. You cannot be happy with things the way they are and I can see no chance of a reconciliation. You definately need to move on. If you cannot do it by yourself then seek counselling. There's no shame in asking for help. I'm sorry if that's not what you wanted to hear.
2007-03-07 12:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by Miss La La 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no, don't give up. First, you should run your phone bill up by wasting time trying to get him to talk. Then you should completely give up your dignity and beg.
Men love that.
Or, you could realize the being "madly in love" with someone who doesn't want to talk to you is a waste of time, and move on.
Me -- I'd vote for the "moving on" option.
2007-03-07 12:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by kelannde 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uai gente, que brincadeira é está? Porque todos estão escrevendo inglês?
Você são americanos mesmo? HAuahuahuahu
Ahhhh vou tentar responder em inglês, no idioma de vocês.
I am Brazilian. I don't speank English very well. How I make to go in Yahoo Brazilian. I don't know aswer the question, sorry.
2007-03-07 12:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by Feiticeiro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him frankly what you want from him but keep in mind that you can never compel someone to love you as this is a matter of heart & mind. Wait & watch if he loves you, he will call you himself otherwise forget him.
2007-03-07 12:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there, well ever think if you two were ment to be he would love you. He would talk to you if he cared. Sorry but i dont think he cares anymore, its been 7 months already. Maybe one more chance but write a love letter and tell him to write back only if he wants to work things out, if not please do yourself a favor and move on. :} good luck
2007-03-07 12:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. you can find someone who you love that loves you just as much back. Find someone who will trust you too!! If a guy cant trust you when you tell the truth then nothing good will happen!!
2007-03-07 12:43:45 · answer #7 · answered by drummergrrl2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 months is way too long to be playing that game. Move on...try to keep yourself busy so you don't think about him. Take his phone number out of your cell phone so you are less likely to call him and get hurt more.
2007-03-07 12:41:55 · answer #8 · answered by Amie C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOu need to just let it go. God it will be hard and you will hurt so bad. But in the long run you will start lookin again. BUt one good thing ......you will always have memories because no one can take that away from you.
2007-03-07 12:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by alonnasmeme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Throwing yourself at him is not working, write him a letter telling him about your feelings, tell him his mistrust of you is unfounded and you relly want to be with him, but if he can look you straight in the eye and tells you to your face that he does not love you, then you will try to move on, but you feel you want to give it one more chance to be with the man you love ( him)
2007-03-07 12:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by Confucious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋