Me and my ex broke up in october, but he lives with me, and were still acting like were together. He has been with one other girl since we broke things off but that was back in december. He always tells me he's trying to get his life together so we can do things right, and he says he wants to build a life with me. He has even referenced marriage. I have never met his family and we've been dating for over a year?????
2007-03-07 12:38:48 · 12 answers · asked by jacqueswifey07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys like a chase, and sometimes no matter how much he may or may not like you, when he knows he has you, he will naturally get somewhat bored and will wish he could be with someone else. I am against pre-marrital sex for this reason. It complicates things too much. Think about how much simpler it would be if you never slept with him in the first place. but since that bridge has already been crossed, don't let him play you like that. He is a guy and has needs and thats all you r doing right now. Fullfilling his needs. I know its prab hard for you to grasp, but he is just using you for the sex. And the thing is that bet you already know that but for some reason you are allowing it. Either bc you want your physical needs met ot you emotional needs. He makes you feel needed when you have sex with him or he lets some sexual tension out that you had built up. Try moving out for 3-4 wks and definately don't sleep with him. I even suggest going out with a couple outher good guys and see how that goes. DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH ANYONE FOR 3-4 weeks AT LEAST.....you need to sort things out without dealing with the added confusion sex brings. Always here for future advice @ bigdm_56@yahoo.com
2007-03-07 12:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan H 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Gf is u haven't met his parents in over a yr. he is not goin to marry u... how can u let him keep u a secret this long?? and as for still sleepin togethr ur makin it easy ans accessible y would he take things farther or faster than he wants to?
I supose ur still FAITHFUL although u really aren't officially TOGETHER?? easy Pu$$y that isn't goin anywhere according to him he is using u to the tee, put ur FOOT down demand what u WANT and meet his parents!
if u broke up in October he sure didn't waste tiem hookin up w/ someone else in Dec. did he?
Think long and hard b4 u LEAP
2007-03-07 21:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't want to be with him for the right reasons. it's more about the convenience of being with him and the fact that he's still around. it wouldn't be healthy at this time; try it out with him or you moving out of the house for a while. see how it changes, then take it from there. not seeing his family isn't that unusual though, but if he is referencing marriage, that much should change within the next few months ...
2007-03-07 20:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's playing you.
Sorry. :-(
He's staying in your house, sleeping w/ other women, even if it was a while ago, and still sleeping w/ you, but saying you're 'not together'.
I think you already knew this answer. He's getting everything he wants with no commitment.
I realize you must love him, but he's a complete jackass loser.
2007-03-07 20:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by kdfirekat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
later he wants to be with u? he is with her, may just be using u for a place to stay. if u have not net his family i would ask why not. your just not the priority in his life, she is. he needs to decide between u and her, if not i would not allow him to stay under those circumstances.
2007-03-07 20:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's using you.
2007-03-07 20:42:09 · answer #6 · answered by BitterSweet 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he wants to have sex with you
he is going to say whatever he thinks you want to hear so he can get in your pants
he isnt going to marry you.
if he were truly interested, you would have met his family and have been included in his life.
2007-03-07 20:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah am not going to lie it doesnt look good. you should be with someone that is going to make you his number and only. I think one of you should move out and keep it moving. find somebody else and be happy. dont wait on him to make up his mind.
good luck
2007-03-07 20:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by Eyelovme2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he may be just using you right now
2007-03-07 20:41:33 · answer #9 · answered by Peter's_Wifey 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is using you and he does not want you!
2007-03-07 20:52:11 · answer #10 · answered by BooBear345 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋