just started seeing this guy. we met online thru personals last fall. he contacted me first and we corresponded thru emails a couple of times.. finally we met up back in january. At first i thought he wasnt all that interested - the way he was quick to leave after our first meeting and the way he talked about himself, about his work the whole time. A few days later he wanted to see me. I was at a friend's. He visited me there, briefly. We went out for drinks days later - made out at the bar. He gave me a pre-valentine's gift but it looked like he rounded up some stuff around his house & gave them to me. Saw each other couple times after that. We started having sex since the 4th time seeing each other. He travels a lot bc of his work. I dont see him much. But whenever he is here in town, he doesnt do much with me - no dinner, no outing. Seems like he just wants sex.
I'd like to get to know him better & see if he is the one. How? Sex is great but i want to get to know him more. Help!
2007-03-07 12:27:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's not the one, shouldn't be and doesn't need to be. enjoy your fun while you have it because you don't want to get caught up in a relationship with him. so this is the type of guy that goes to the petrol station and buys you road maps and flashlights at 1 in the morning for a valentines day gift? and then you showed him how to get there in spite of that, what a shame; if it's great then it is, but i wouldn't pursue anything with him ...
2007-03-07 12:32:06 · answer #1 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to get to know him better? I doubt he's the one if all he wants is sex and gives you his unwanted knickknacks for v-day. Anyone who travels for a job can afford better....v-day is over-rated anyway. It doesn't sound like there is much there that is worth getting to know better, unless you just want to get to the depths of his selfishness.
2007-03-07 12:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he isn't taking u out, or doing much with u except sex, than he is only interested in sex, and u deserve better than that. he may be married too, or in a relationship and just doesn't want to be seen out with u.
2007-03-07 12:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋