How can my boyfriend get better at sex?

Question

He totally sucks! i love him a lot, but he doesn't know how to :( first off he's really lazy he always wants me in the top, he doesn't like doing it in other positions.... he's boring and when he's on top he doesn't move right! ah!! I don't know what to do! He moves all his body except the right part.. it's even funny to think about it because i've never known anyone to be this bad... So guys or anyone? any tips on how to make him better... He's younger than I am by the way i'm like his first real gf... i've tried teaching him, he learned a bit but he needs more help!!

Answer 1

Communication, tell him what you want, show him. Practice, Practice and please use BC.

Answer 2

be a little more assertive and talk with him about doing other positions.. try to run the game a little more and tell him what you two are doing just isnt enough for ya.. tell him to trry other stuff out and kind of set some high standards for him, dont let him win by bein a lazy bum on the bottom, make him work it in positions that YOU like .. and if hes not "down" with this, do things to make him want it

Answer 3

Tell him that you love him, but sex with him is really bad because he puts nothing in to it, ask him to at least try or to get some advice from someone. Do you know a man who is not interested in at least trying to please a woman, is selfish, thinks only of himself. Tell him you will not be having any further sexual relations with him till he tries to contribute, or your relationship will not last very long.

Answer 4

It sounds like his primary problem is laziness. He's got to WANT to do better! If you can get him to put in the effort then you should be able to teach/guide him. I can't imagine why he's being like this though.

Answer 5

make something that will make him
want to do it and he will go on top

Answer 6

buy a porn video watch it and i dont know act it out then