Singles & Dating - 27 February 2007

how can i ask a girl out on a date, been texting her and she said whenever your free which is fine. but i was wondering should i txt her and ask her out or should i pick up the phone and call her?
which one would you pick and why??

2007-02-27 20:56:10 · 11 answers · asked by scott h 1

My boyfriend and I have been together 6 months, we met each other at work (my old job). We had not been on a proper date, just the two of us, until last night, we went to the cinema and for a meal. I had to pay for this which did'nt bother me as he had no money till he got paid and said he will take me out when he does.

He smokes a lot of cannabis and this makes him lazy and he never wants to go anywhere or do anything . He also has a 5 year old daughter and takes her 3 days a week which limits the time I get with him.

He didnt even thank me last night for the meal and said the film was rubbish! This made me feel as if all my efforts to get him to go out were for nothing!

Despite all this he is a lovely guy and I do love him, should I put up with this or dump him? Or give him a chance? I get the feeling I could do better.

Any advice would be welcome!

Thanks xxxxxxx

2007-02-27 20:56:05 · 26 answers · asked by Lolly 1

It seems like it has become "American culture" for young people to go out, dirty dancing and get intoxicated or high.

2007-02-27 20:55:30 · 5 answers · asked by 21questions 4

My ex-girlfriend keeps playing around…putting my head in certain places… is she playing around in a s e x u a l manner or is this something that girls do?

2007-02-27 20:54:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friends from my last school have been in the same highschool now for a couple years, two of them are Junior's like me and one of my other friends is a Senior. A girl that's been sitting at our table likes him and has been flirting with him etc. for a while, it's evident she likes him. When he's not here, she's always asking my friends and I why he doesn't make a move or something, and just a few days ago he showed up at the table with his new girlfriend... the other girl was crushed.

The other girl has been in at least one of my classes ever since I was a Freshman, and I've always noticed how amazing she looks and how nice her smile is, every little thing like that. The thing is, though, I have a hard time talking... with girls especially, and I always know what to say, I just can't say it. I always stutter or something. I don't know what to do, though... I'm not the best-looking guy in school, and I don't have the best smile or anything like that. Any suggestions?

2007-02-27 20:52:54 · 8 answers · asked by David J 1

when you walk down the steet and see a nice girl or guy walk passed you do you think to yourself if they turn around and look at you that means they fancy you.

2007-02-27 20:48:54 · 7 answers · asked by Trev23 3

I met this wonderful woman 6 months ago, and everything went well from day one. i had feelings for her and she also made it clear that she needs someone to fill her emotional gap and show a real interest and take a good care of her, which encouraged me to go further with my feelings and i fell in love with her, and am trying my best to make her happy.

Now am deeply in love with her, but she is always busy( work & college), and always confused about her feelings that i started to feel am giving her more attention than she can handle, and am afraid that this will have a negative effect on the relation. seriously am feeling that am expressing my love more than i should, and that am loosing my image or respect.

This is against my nature, but what should i do? Should i stop calling her or stop showing how much i care, am really confusing

Sorry for the long explanation

2007-02-27 20:43:36 · 12 answers · asked by Sami 1

I kindda like this guy but don't know how to tell him i miss him. he says he is intrested in me but i'm asshamed. i don't know why i'm so embarassed to tell but he keep on joking wether i miss him or not

2007-02-27 20:41:38 · 18 answers · asked by CuTe BaBy 3

2007-02-27 20:41:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my husband to play with my breast and he does when he is in mood but how can i show him up when im in mood? not communication any signs?? please dont delete it!

2007-02-27 20:40:43 · 23 answers · asked by Classy 1

I've been dating a woman for about two weeks. We talked Sunday, I think. We talked about maybe going out Friday night. She said she'd call me on Tuesday, she didn't. I wound up calling her and she wasn't home. I didn't leave a message.

Any ladies care to opine on the situation?

2007-02-27 20:40:13 · 9 answers · asked by Wisdom Guru 3

I mean, have females lost all respect for themself?
i'm 22, and I can tell you girls have become A LOT more whorish even since ive been in high school
Do girls not understand that if you sleep with a guys fast, or if you sleep with him before 6 months of dating that he thinks youre a whore and nothing more? not date worthy.. and we know if you slept with us you've slept with every other guy you've known for 3 days...
What happened to a lil chase, its not even fun anymore..it's actually kind of disgusting

2007-02-27 20:39:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex ended it with me stared seeing someone else, however now where trying to rekindle what we had, he's trying so hard to prove its me that he wants and he made a big mistake, emailing and txting everyday, sent me flowers to work, takes me out, he even called this girl and ended it infront of me (not horribly but just so i know he had definatly done it) saying he wanted to retry things with me. however im just so scared he's lyin to me, i know there is going to be lack of trust and hes been really good about it but how long till you started to trust again??

2007-02-27 20:37:21 · 7 answers · asked by sweetness 3

ok i know this guy for about 4 months now....and he really seems to like me...he flirts with me a lot...n he tells me everything abt his life..he really trusts me as a friend...yesterday he called me up in the night and told me that he had a breakup with his gf..he also said that i dont need a gf anymore all i need is a loving friend like you...what does this mean?????? i really love him and i want to ask him out..but i feel this will affect our friendship what should i do???????

2007-02-27 20:35:53 · 8 answers · asked by cool girl 1

If you haven't yet slept with a black men women I tell you DO IT!! You will love it. I have my own drama with it but dont hesitate!!

2007-02-27 20:35:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean on dates
basically you're paying for her time
isn't that what an escort does?

2007-02-27 20:33:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-27 20:30:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

or what should u NOT do,when u are in a relationship with a girl,to avoid that..

2007-02-27 20:29:50 · 4 answers · asked by razza 3

Girls: when you first meet a guy, what do you notice? Is it his smile? eyes? height? way he is dressed? shoes?

What makes a hot guy hot? If a guy already is good-looking and dresses well, what else can he do to attract a girl?

2007-02-27 20:28:55 · 22 answers · asked by paulhendricksonuofc 1

There's this girl at my gym. She shows up almost everyday at the same time and she is really hot. I know she is way out of my league because I'm kinda ugly but it would make me feel really good if I could just say hi to her. It's kinda like shaking a celebrities hand. You know they are only doing it to be polite but it made your day anyway. I'm afraid if I talk to her, she'll laugh in my face because I am kinda ugly as I stated earlier, but nobody else in the gym seem to talk to her. I guess they are intimidated with her beauty.

2007-02-27 20:28:30 · 3 answers · asked by gambitleblanc 1

Im 5'0 and i weigh 97 and im 17 ok i have this cousin of mine who puts me down all the time soooo i want u to tell me which girl is prettier my cousin or me?
Im the first pic this one is me!!!!!!!i m going to put 2 so tell me ok!http://i68.photobucket.com/albums/i21/vanillaskydream/cardpics005.jpg
another one of me!http://i68.photobucket.com/albums/i21/vanillaskydream/cardpics078.jpg

and this one is my cousin well step cousin!!!!!http://i68.photobucket.com/albums/i21/vanillaskydream/Edith1.jpg
and another of herhttp://i68.photobucket.com/albums/i21/vanillaskydream/Edith2.jpg

be honest ok and no rude answers not in no mood ok!

2007-02-27 20:24:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

the birth control is so that i don't wind up gettting pregnant! we been using condoms but one broke and i don't want to take chances like that anymore, i have niever uesd birth control of any kind except condoms. so my question is with my relationship in limbo should i just go ahead and get the scrip from my gyno and start using it, or should i wait to star t using it unilt about a week or so before i know we will be getting togehter so that i am not putting the chems into my body unessacaliy? if were not gonna be having sex what is the point to my starting myself on birth control until i know we will be having ssex?

2007-02-27 20:22:57 · 3 answers · asked by Babygirl20 1

Well, if they were they would be hanging off my arm.

Maybe I should just talk about motor mechanics on dates.

2007-02-27 20:22:35 · 14 answers · asked by Mardy 4

tell which 1 ur frm also..ok?

2007-02-27 20:17:45 · 26 answers · asked by amazed !!! 4

yo check it my ex ladee was like yo u is like bilt like horse yo and u totallee is a player

what exactly dose horse and player mean?

2007-02-27 20:15:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

We split up recently and Im not sure that getting in touch with him right now will make things better or worse between us, but I really want him back. After 45 yrs I thought I had finally found the right man for me.

2007-02-27 20:15:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

we are both in our 30s, so it surprises me that I am having problems of this nature. Even though he is a recent acquaintance I would say he is my best friend in this city. I should mention that there is sexual tension between us which we avoid adressing because of his messy personal situation (breaking up with one girl, while one ex may be reappearing on the scene). Often we are genuinely ok as friends, sharing secrets, helping each other out, etc. But we quarrelled on Friday (he told me I was too blunt and always said what was on my mind; I said i thought he was being mean and that it didn't seem that he liked me much). He has ignored me since, despite my sms saying "i'm sorry I'm so bitchy." The last few msgs he wrote ended with "regards" instead of the usu. "kisses." Is he doing this because (1) he is just fed up; (2) this happens when ppl get frustrated over sexual tension; (3) he doesn't care at all and just found someone else to torture? I miss him.

2007-02-27 20:13:40 · 5 answers · asked by beatrice 2

any ideas that i can give my bf for when he meets my parents as he wants to make a good impression ive told him to be himself and polite and ask them a few questions any more ideas?

2007-02-27 20:13:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have this problem of stammering way too much whenever i speak to anybody..
this makes me think that i ll never be able to find a job because many people say "if u dont have communication skills ur useless"..
now wht should i do?
pls be serious..

2007-02-27 20:13:27 · 28 answers · asked by amazed !!! 4

This guy who is interested in me lied to me twice that he has a girlfren when i sort of asked him weter he likes me. i am 100% sure that he got no girlfren. i guess he's pretty insecure. i'm very angry at him and din talk to him for two weeks till now. i know he's waitint for me to cool off. i wonder why he lied to me?

2007-02-27 20:12:10 · 10 answers · asked by libby 2