Well, if they were they would be hanging off my arm.
Maybe I should just talk about motor mechanics on dates.
2007-02-27 20:22:35 · 14 answers · asked by Mardy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-27 20:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by The Burninator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are that aware of how youre acting then your problem is that you arent acting natural. Some girls like those things, but generally those that do are much better at reading your actions and body language than you think. Those same girls generally are big into honesty and if they pick up that you're playing games or doing things just to patronize them by telling them what they want to hear, then you are going to be shot down.
You're not living in a sitcom, and there are no TV cameras following you around. Dont worry about a script or impressing people. Act like who you want to be, talk about what you want to talk about not what other people want to hear. If you do that, some girl will take notice because that is what they are looking for. You never want to start a relationship based on an act you put on to get into it. Eventually the real you comes out and if she doesnt like that real you, you are done.
You also have to be patient, meeting someone that is special could take years. You cant go hang out at a party or a bar with your friends, stand there and wrinkle your eyebrows and flex your forearm and expect to find your dream girl in 3 days. You might find one that wants to play a game of nekid twister right now and be done with you but dream girl will take some work, and thats if she ever shows up.
2007-02-28 04:36:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the point here is, other than being funny, sensitive and articulate, you need something called maturity. you don't have to talk about motor mechanics but you need to connect with them mentally.. get it?
2007-02-28 04:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by pee_bag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're just looking in the wrong place?
my partner is all those things and would far rather have him then a motor head!
i know this sounds cliched but either wait for the right girls or go out and find them, try new bars, clubs and stuff, get to know girls you wouldnt normally look at, maybe its the same sort of thing for them?
have fun trying and dont give up!
good luck!xx
2007-02-28 04:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by pinkjessie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. Be a good person for yourself. That's the point of it. There aren't too many great women out there, so finding one will take a while. Keep being a great guy, and you'll attract a great girl in time.
2007-02-28 04:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by Canadian Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls do like that kinda guy, i love sensative guys, with a good sence of humoure that can be rough if they choose to be, quite a lot of grls like the bad boys but sum are the lovey dovey typ, keep trying and dont giv up, you will find some 1 soon, a guy like you can get grls easy if they pik the rite 1,
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2007-02-28 04:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by love_me_im_sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny and articulate is good, but sensitive is an automatic "hell, no." We don't want a "nice guy." They treat women like delicate flowers, and we want to be treated like equals.
2007-02-28 09:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to be funny but not goofy funny and DONT ACT SOFT.Dont believe with women say.nice guys finish last.act a bit cocky but not too cocky..i repeat dont act soft bcuz thats when u would be put in the malegirlfriend list
2007-02-28 04:39:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all about seduction my friend. You migh be the best guy in the world, if you dont have seduction skill, the results can be quite random.
You got to make them feel like you are all they need
And thats called seduction.
2007-02-28 04:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are you just haven't met the right girl. Many girls are out there, they outnumber males and chances are there's at least one for you.
2007-02-28 04:34:42 · answer #10 · answered by josey_maverick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋