should i commit suicide or not?

Question

i have this problem of stammering way too much whenever i speak to anybody..
this makes me think that i ll never be able to find a job because many people say "if u dont have communication skills ur useless"..
now wht should i do?
pls be serious..

Answer 1

Suicide is a permanent mistake to a temporal problem! Did you know there's an in-plant you can get that causes you to hear your own voice a Milli-second after you speak? I don't remember the name of it, but I'm sure you can investigate on line! It will cause you to speak perfect . When I saw it on TV, people who stuttered severely, instantly spoke like anyone who has zero problems talking. In the mean time there's speech therapy. Never let your feelings and emotions dictate foolish, or destructive responses like that. Don't be taken captive by a lie. You have authority over your emotions, in Jesus name. My friend you need to get your mind translated! Cast down all those evil imaginations and high things that exalt themselves against the knowledge of God, bring those thoughts into captivity, reign them in, harness those run away horses, OK? How? Set your mind on things above, and not below. Think upon things that are True,noble,right,pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from Me, or seen in Me --put into practice. And The God of PEACE will be with you.(Phil.4:8-9).....Trust in The Lord with all your heart,lean not to your own understanding, but, in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your path straight...Prov.3:5-6, Dear one your in need of Wisdom, read, Proverbs chapts.2&3, to start, and, John all of it, get an NIV or easy to read Bible, & Christian CDs, ok? Start planting good seed and watch it flourish and move your emotions into Joy, confident assurance, peace and contentment..... And isn't that what you really want, desire, and need?.................

Answer 2

This is a very serious question. You should know that there is ALWAYS someone there for you. Even though there are several avenues you could try in order to eliminate or lessen your stammering, you should realize that this one little thing does not make you useless in anyway. Tons of people have stammering problems. Many people are mute or deaf, and they are not useless! I suggest you first talk to someone, if you are feeling desperate, call 1-800-SUICIDE, or any of the others to talk to someone. If things are bad, and you hang in there, they WILL get better. Please, please, please don't kill yourself! My friend just committed suicide a couple of weeks ago, and if he had just talked to someone before, he would have realized how much hope there is in the world. You haven't yet made the mistake he did. You can still hold on to hope. You can still strive to make circumstances better. Heck, I can't tell you stammer from your writing, perhaps you have a bright future in that!

Answer 3

Have you ever been to a speech therapist? There has been tremendous steps forward made in the treatment of speech disorders in the last few years and I think that there might be new ways of dealing with stammering too. Why don't you at least check into this before you even consider such an irrevocable step as suicide. Suicide doesn't solve anything and usually causes more problems then it solves. You have a life worth living! Don't throw it away because of a problem that you might be able to correct.

Answer 4

This is not uncommon. Many people have this problem. Personally, it was the problem with me, though still I am not completely confident, i mean a little bit of shyness still exist in me. but it doesn't mean that i should commit suicide. If everybody start thinking of suicide, with such kind of problems, than i am sure more than half of the world is gone.

No doubt communication skill is an asset, but weak communication skill is not an unsolvable problem at all. Try to meet with the friends, mix with the people, share your ideas, no matter people except it or not, but surely it will improve your skill.
The proof of this is me, because currently, by the Grace of Allah almighty, i am manager at my organization, despite that stammering problem that was one of my problem.
Cheer up & find your success door :-)

Answer 5

I'm sorry that you feel this way. Just to let you know, there are a lot of people out there who stammer or stutter too. They are very successful in their careers and jobs. If you would like some help, you can contact a speech therapist who can teach you skills to help you cope with your stammering.

Hope this helps! Don't give up!

Answer 6

No dear NEVER!See you have read the reaction of all the strangers who have just one reply NO to it.Know what buddy even if I have a certain health problem which happens to one in a thousand and it has no cure.Your are still lucky that you can improve and even if not why worry.Expertise yourself in written skills,dance , painting or you can take help of a counseller too.One more thing,people in this world have serious problems still they look so beautiful...how?With their wonderful hearts.Try to be so good to people around that they will start looking at you way ahead to speech.Just accept it and dont ever think of what were before posting this question.
If nobody else I think you have these ten genuine friends who have replied you without knowing you dont let us down.Keep posting questions so that we come to know what state you are in.Take care

Answer 7

Actually, all stammerers have periods of fluency when they are emotionally relaxed but revert back to dysfluent speech under stress. Speech is one of our body's strongest habits and stammered speech is also a habit. Stammering is not a disease. You may need some help to develop a new, more fluent manner of speech which focuses on modifying your physical manner of talking as well as changing your mental attitude towards stammering. What do you think is the problem? Do you stammer when you sing? I believe you can overcome this. Please write back to me.YOU DONT HAVE TO COMMIT SUICIDE AT ALL
Thank you,
Deva

Answer 8

There could be much worse problems. I would hold off on the suicide. Like many people who have bad habits (smoking, drug use, overeating, nail biting) you should look at this as a challenge to improve yourself. Take small steps. Each week try a new approach to your problem and try to spend time with people who have overcome the problem.

Remeber, Moses had a stuttering problem.

Answer 9

I do not no if you remember a man named Mel till is a great country singer who also had a bad stuttering problem. who ever says if you can not communicate your useless is an idiot.just talk slow think about what you are going to say.practice in front of a mirror.so take the suicide off the table.your going to be OK.

Answer 10

Are u an idiot
Why the hell are you thinking about commiting suicide for this stupid reason that people say you may not become successful due to your stammering problem..
It doesn't matter what you are but what you think about yourself that makes you sucessful in LIFE