Singles & Dating - 27 February 2007

OK, so I want to message a couple of seemingly nice Christian girls from Myspace. The problem is that I don't think that they will appreciate being messaged for dating purposes on myspace, even from another Christian guy. I was wondering, what would a guy have to write in his message to get her to RESPOND? That is the main question I guess. What should I write to get a response from her? Please be as specific as possible. What would you respond to?

2007-02-27 15:46:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you don't like a guy, how do turn down a date with him without hurting his feelings?

2007-02-27 15:45:46 · 5 answers · asked by flowerz 2

whenever i see him i get so nervous and can barely even look at him. He probably thinks i am the biggest loser because i can barely hold a conversation with him. how embaressing. I really do like this guy but he has a girlfriend and of course i have my boyfriend. I honesly have fantasys about this guy though. i feel as though i am in jr high even though i am in college. I have never felt this way about a guy before. What the heck do i do

2007-02-27 15:45:02 · 5 answers · asked by Lynne. 2

None of my friends are getting married and if me and my boyfriend do talk about it, its always in the future one day far, far away.
I'm 28 holy cow!

2007-02-27 15:44:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-27 15:43:44 · 15 answers · asked by LostMyMind 3

is that considered a lot of money?? I mean...I know it is, but am I secure with this amount?? I am single so am curious if a woman would be comfortable with this. be superficial here...I know a woman should love me for me, but I am asking youto answer superficially.

2007-02-27 15:42:23 · 13 answers · asked by micg70 1

Not sure what to get him I wanna get him this watch the link below and an I.D. bracelet. Is the watch nice? Any other ideas on what I should get him would be greatly appreciated!

http://guess.com/PopupLargerView.aspx?name=Silver+Prism+Watch&image=12557L-NC

2007-02-27 15:41:58 · 8 answers · asked by laura m 1

we are both in high school i really like him and today on the instant messenger i told him
"good luck and god bless :P hahaha"
he replied
"not so much ;-) "
what does that mean?
thank you!!!

2007-02-27 15:41:41 · 3 answers · asked by Hummus! 1

2007-02-27 15:40:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

There was this guy who liked me, but for the past week, he's been ignoring me. I try to find opportunities to talk to him, but they are so few and far in between. I think he's given up, I've missed my chance. Is there any way I can turn this around? I never realized just how much I liked him until this moment, I feel empty inside when he's not around, it hurts me so much when he just ignores me like this. :(

I mean, we never even went out, I was just about to ask him out.

2007-02-27 15:39:46 · 37 answers · asked by Katie 3

2007-02-27 15:39:01 · 12 answers · asked by chisholm18 1

This guy looks at me quite often when he walks by me or i walk by him and today he pointed at me and i saw so he hid behind a tree. Do you think he likes me or not? And why did he point at me??

2007-02-27 15:37:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was out at the bar last night with this guy I have been talking to for about 3 weeks now. While he was in the bathroom an old fling of mine was in there too. He told him that I have herpes!!! (Wich I don't!)

My guy asked me about it and I set the record straight with him but now I am worried he will always have that in his head. I am scared he will fall off the radar.

What do I do about this?!?!

2007-02-27 15:36:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a great boyfriend he is sweet, smart, and funny, and cute, i love him very much, but sometime he choses a friend over ME! i understand him hanging out but he will even aviod my calls if hes on the othe line with his friends, what do i do?

2007-02-27 15:36:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-27 15:35:43 · 11 answers · asked by alan s 2

This question was posted by someone else a couple days ago but no one answered. I've been wondering this too... If you see a girl that you find attractive, do you look at her ring finger? If you do, and she has a ring on it but it is NOT a wedding ring or engagement ring, do you automatically assume she's taken?

2007-02-27 15:34:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

he says that he likes you a lot, where are you suppose to go from there? He didn't seem freaked out by what i said and doesn't act weird around me, so I don't know what to think...

2007-02-27 15:32:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems like the less attention he gives me, the more I obsess.
We had some "hang out" dates, but he got scared off when I got mad that he did'nt call me one night like he said he would.

It's tough cause we work together. I know it's also the same for many of you that have to go to high school with the person, etc.

What are some of the best ways you can keep the silly "obsessing" in check?!? (besides the most practical: to find someone new).

It hurts me when I see him talking more to other people at work than he does to me, etc........

Plus I keep beating myself up over the fact that I got a little too upset with the fact that he did'nt call me that night. I sounded too needy, he said

2007-02-27 15:31:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please tell me your story or just give some general advice on this topic.

Thank you.

2007-02-27 15:31:18 · 10 answers · asked by What gives? 5

Well, I have a new problem ...

You can read the original info here: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070227184229AAU3vZ2&pa=FYd1D2bwHTHwI7hgF.o.RcP44o6Gz8r1WP7.X5rZFr9ukQ--&paid=asked&msgr_status=

Basically, I want to know if this is a good idea:

1. Before I pick her up, should I pick up a red or white rose and place it on the passenger seat where she can see it when she gets in the car?

2. Is this too much for a first date?

3. What does a single rose symbolize?

4. Will this make me look romantic?

5. What would you think if I guy did this? I don't want things to move too fast, but I want her to know that I like her.

Thanks for the help!!!

2007-02-27 15:30:29 · 5 answers · asked by BlueEyez84 1

i never see a hot tamale talkin to a taco bell cook

i dunno but on the real looks count these days more than aything, but thats just wrong, cuz yr jujin a book by it cover and dunt say yr a gurl who dosent care bout look, cuzz u do!!!!

2007-02-27 15:30:14 · 3 answers · asked by TAHOE GUY 2

2007-02-27 15:29:11 · 9 answers · asked by Josh 1

Be honest Ladies... why do you play all these games in dating. I mean, if you don't like someone you should get out of their life and stop wasting their time. But, if you like someone then why not ACT LIKE IT? These games make everyones life harder than it has to be. I just want to know WHY you do it...

2007-02-27 15:26:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well, my bf and i.... he says hes alright with it whenever i check out other guys, and sometimes he does get jealous, but then wenever he tells me that he thinks some grls hot (*we go to diff skools*) but he doesn't "want" them in that way and that he just thinks their hot/cute, i still cnt help but feel jealous each time he tells me this, but he tells me that the only one he wants is me....so since he lets me check out other guys should i just allow him to check out other grls? or should i not? i dnt want to seem like a bitchy gf, help! please and thank you!

2007-02-27 15:25:15 · 21 answers · asked by jEsSnIcKeR`S ♥ 2

I had a one night stand, and he said I was so pretty and interesting, he contacted me and wants to know all about me. we've emailed back and forth, but whatever I tell him, he always wants to know. more. I'm running out of ideas. we might hang out this weekend. What can I talk about and do to keep him intrigued by me?

2007-02-27 15:22:47 · 11 answers · asked by Sammy 5

Mr. "You Are My Valentine" wants a promotion to Mr. "Bedroom".
My crush finally came to visit me tonight...what he said kinda sounds interesting.
He was in my room and we were working on the computer. He saw the cat laying on the bed. He mentioned my pillows. Then he mentioned he would need more pillows for his head. Then he asked if the cat always sleeps there. I said yes. He said something like he couldn't sleep with a cat or there would be no where for him or something. I said "Are you in my bed?" He said "No, I'm just saying if I was..."


So is this bombshell #1?

He's been in my room before but this is the first time the bed came up in conversation.

Remember...the focus of my question is the comments...

I said "Are you in my bed?" He said "No, I'm just saying if I was..."

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What just got said here tonight? Did he throw his feelings out on the line or I'm I over analyzing?

2007-02-27 15:22:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-27 15:22:35 · 12 answers · asked by manoz kakkar 4

Guys can answer if they like too i guess.
Say your in a relationship and your with someone and they treat you awesome and give you everything you could want out of the relationship. Make you feel like your extremely special to them and would do anything for them.... why would someone take it all for granted and treat their significant other like crap? Instead of seeing it for what it really is a good thing. Someone you should be glad you have and actually go out of your way to make the other person happy. Is that a common thing a woman would do?

2007-02-27 15:22:10 · 5 answers · asked by massure4hire 5

The worst idea for a first date, I think, is a movie. You can't get to know a girl at a movie. It never goes well for me. My thought process is that it's too aggressive to "make a move" on a girl at the theater on the first date. But I must be wrong, because the last three times I've done this on a first or even second date, the girls want to call it an early night or won't return calls after that. Am I too old fashioned keeping my hands to myself at a movie?

2007-02-27 15:22:10 · 6 answers · asked by G-Lanz 3

I find myself daydreaming about other women and why? I do talk alot about women but have never acted on it. Is this normal? Guess i may be one of the ones that admit it.

2007-02-27 15:21:50 · 4 answers · asked by melissas69er 3