Be honest Ladies... why do you play all these games in dating. I mean, if you don't like someone you should get out of their life and stop wasting their time. But, if you like someone then why not ACT LIKE IT? These games make everyones life harder than it has to be. I just want to know WHY you do it...
2007-02-27 15:26:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, I don't play games..it all depends on the girl and her maturity level. Maybe, you are going out with the wrong type of girls. Younger girl tend to play more games. If I like someone..they know it. I call them, I want to spend time with them, and I tell them I like them. I think sometimes, girls don't want to come off looking desperate to a guy and then they tend to play a few games..like hard to get. I think they do that to show that they are in high demand and that you are not the only one that is into them. Also, guys want a challenge..admit that! If it's too easy for them..they get bored and stop calling you. Playing games keeps guys on their toes and you don't hear the "yeah, I'm just not into you anymore. If you put it all out on the line you are more likely to get hurt. It's all human nature. Men do the chasing and we try not to get caught...So, when he does catch us he feels like he hit the "jackpot."
2007-02-27 15:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your being played with and not playing back, your an easy victim for the teasy evil style woman to use and abuse. You gotta be a man and start not giving a crap about woman who act like this, either play harder or find a nice chick who's not being immature. Badboys who know what there doing will only win the games, you on the other hand are a nice guy not a bad thing but make sure you get a nice girl its hard but maybe go to church. STOP giving them attention.
2007-02-27 15:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I know that I "play games" because I want to see what I am worth to a guy, and I want to be pursued. I know that if a guy is willing to go out of his way to make me happy and let me know that he is interested in me, then I know that it will be a "sure thing" should I decide I am interested as well. It's basically a test to see how far a guy will go to make his feelings known. Hopefully, Mr.Whomever will pass the test, and if he doesn't, then I know he's NOT even worth dating anyways.
For further advice, I HIGHLY reccomend the book "Captivating" by John and Stasi Eldridge, it's an amazing look inside the heart of women.
2007-02-27 15:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by LIZZYYY 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Having a approach consistent with thoughts may well be perplexing. If 2 human beings like one yet another, have mutual pastimes and an obvious attraction, there are not any good and wrongs. human beings are not suited and as quickly as you're making the alternative to enable your look after down and open up your head & heart to somebody...there are situations whilst issues arise that could look uncomfortable or not the norm yet it is the place you're able to make a call: Do i actually like this individual adequate to bypass during the 'hard days' the place we would possibly not comprehend one yet another consistently? it fairly is as much as you. the point of intensity and reason is what is going to inspire you to make the subsequent pass or enable it bypass.
2016-10-16 22:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's hard to give up attention. Guys that like you are willing to do stuff for you, be there when no one else is, care about you, etc. and its hard to give up that kind of attention. It feeds your ego and its kind of a security blanket.
I don't think it's an intentional "game". More like being selfish.
Yes, I should tell this guy that we will never be more than friends but do i want to give all that attention up? Probably not.
2007-02-27 15:35:17 · answer #5 · answered by kimpetuous 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because they dont want to act like thier IN LOVEE with you and then get dumped or the guy doesnt feel the same way
2007-02-27 15:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most girls play games because they are afraid they are going to get hurt if they commit to a man.they feel that if they get to attached it's all going to just end horribly. thats how i used to feel til i took a chance.
2007-02-27 15:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is.. WHY do guys play games?
2007-02-27 15:31:30 · answer #8 · answered by augustina 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You wont understand till your a woman. Girls play games.
2007-02-27 15:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by SARAH D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we dont play games rather its a sense of being cautious coz u can never really understand and know unless u spend more time with him.
2007-02-27 15:36:37 · answer #10 · answered by mar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋