Mr. "You Are My Valentine" wants a promotion to Mr. "Bedroom".
My crush finally came to visit me tonight...what he said kinda sounds interesting.
He was in my room and we were working on the computer. He saw the cat laying on the bed. He mentioned my pillows. Then he mentioned he would need more pillows for his head. Then he asked if the cat always sleeps there. I said yes. He said something like he couldn't sleep with a cat or there would be no where for him or something. I said "Are you in my bed?" He said "No, I'm just saying if I was..."
So is this bombshell #1?
He's been in my room before but this is the first time the bed came up in conversation.
Remember...the focus of my question is the comments...
I said "Are you in my bed?" He said "No, I'm just saying if I was..."
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What just got said here tonight? Did he throw his feelings out on the line or I'm I over analyzing?
2007-02-27 15:22:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like his planing for the future. Now I'm not sure if he's thinking about living with you, or just having sex. I'm sure you know him well enough to answer that question yourself, but its def one of the two.
2007-02-27 15:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by Advice4U 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are over analyzing it. Don't give it too much importance. Remember that nothing will happened unless the both of you want to. On the other hand... men are easy!!! just a little advice: look out!
You also have to know that is very normal for couples to have a healthy sex life, that is if you are mature enough to handle it, not old enough 'cuz age has nothing to do with it. And take into a count how long have you been together? is the relationship ready for something like that?
Hope it helps
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2007-02-27 23:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by Damn Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To start with yes, your way over analyzing. In less he's gay, he's trying to get you to sleep with him. Married men are always trying to find a way to get their wives. If a man does not want you then he has a problem or your hot enough for him. That's not to say that your not hot, it just means that something about you turns him off. The most honest man in the world will lie to get a woman in bed. That's just the way nature made us.
2007-02-27 23:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by Scooter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope he was definitely telling u that he would like to have a more intimate relationship with u in the future.
Don't panic as yet, the ball is in ur court, but this is a silent decision, don't confront him cause he'll turn it around on u.
2007-02-27 23:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop overanalyzing..all guys want is seX..simple fact, but true. Of course he wants to sleep with you if he is attracted to you. It's up to you if you want to sleep with him or not. Decide that before you let him in your room again because he's more than likely to put the moves on you.
2007-02-27 23:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh good god woman.....quit your rambling. if you have to ask yourself if he wants in your pants with these comments, then you should not even try to breed......i am a little more blunt than you are used to, i bet. so how did he say these comments...it's not so much as what a person says but how one says it.....if the comments made you feel uncomfortable, your heart will never steer you wrong, then you can bet he wants to bed you
2007-02-27 23:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by phishsports 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is Male, and has a heart beat, his hangy downys are still attached.....
Hummmm Yes I would say he would like to bed you....... that is the nature of the beast.....
My # is 555-1234
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2007-02-27 23:30:09 · answer #7 · answered by S h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me he's either one wanting to hump your bed like obsessed with it or two he wants you so to me I'd think he dropped the bomb.
2007-02-27 23:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, he wants to sleep with you. Never met a man that didn't want that eventually. Question is: What do YOU want to do?
2007-02-27 23:26:51 · answer #9 · answered by pookiemct07 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he was triing to bait the hook but you were not biting and for the answer from austin_te...I do not think 99% of men are like that
2007-02-27 23:30:03 · answer #10 · answered by KJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋