Singles & Dating - 20 February 2007

So there is this girl I have never really met... a few of my good friends know her, and we were thinking about all getting together here soon. But I am wondering how should I talk to her and all... I really want to get to know her, but just am not sure how...

2007-02-20 15:59:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have Asperger's syndrome, so I basically have normal intelligence and language capabilities, but I also exhibit autistic-like behaviors and have marked deficiencies in my social and communication skills.

Since I'm not good around people, I decided to give up on human emotion a long time ago. You could say that I recoil from the human "touch." I can't have a normal conversation with other people without seeming a bit "off".

Consequently, this caused me to give up on finding friends, or a soulmate. I never even thought about friends or girlfriends that much, nor tried to have any. Even though it seemed like a good idea at first, I don't really want to be alone for the rest of my life.

Also, I want sex. I'm in my second year of college and I have never been kissed or had a girlfriend. Is there good reason for that? No. Its my fault that I turn down every chance of interacting with others out of fear of the human touch, even though I long for it.

How do I come out of my shell?

2007-02-20 15:59:19 · 4 answers · asked by toosleepy2care 1

A and I have known each other since elementary school, but it wasn't until senior year of high school that we become good friends.

Unexpectedly, he and I wound up at the same out of state university and have had a couple of classes together. Although I've always suspected we'd had chemistry, it wasn't until now that he's made obvious attempts at flirting by going out of his way to tease me or make me laugh.

Despite the fact that we always sit together in class and have gone out to dinner one on one several times, we've continued to remain friends. If it weren't for the fact that A calls me for dumb reasons, can't stop smiling around me, and holds my eye contact confidently, I'd swear he didn't see me as more.

My friends tell me it's because I'm sending mixed signals, but I honestly don't think I could be anymore obvious without hitting him over the head.

Any creative suggestions for helping him out without being the pursuer? Or am I in the friend-zone for good?

2007-02-20 15:58:58 · 12 answers · asked by HallamFoe 4

2007-02-20 15:58:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I show my man that I do love him? And I would never leave him for anyone else in the whole wide world?


P.s.were teens

please help!!!!!!!!! I love him and I know it. Just thinking of someone else beside me makes me sick. but thinking of him beside me makes me smile.!

2007-02-20 15:58:43 · 4 answers · asked by Gabriella R. 2

I saw the HOTTEST blonde girl ever and i just sat beside her and started to make conversation. At the end of class i asked her to get lunch with me and she said no, and after some convincing she finally said "okay 15 mins" lol. We had an amazing time and as we were leaving the restaurant she said "this is good let's do it again." I went to pick up something i left at my house and we ended up watching a movie together. We made out but when i started to make my move (unbutton her jeans) she was REALLY resistant and like TOTALLY changed. We ended up just sitting there and she was like looking out the window a lot. the second time i saw her she was still sitting in the same place we met but when i sat beside her, it seemed like she wasnt giving me any signals. I think she's an amazing girl and we had a great time until that point so how do you think she feels about me now?

2007-02-20 15:57:34 · 20 answers · asked by puathe180man 1

Men are you into a blond beauty with big breast or does an average pretty girl turn your head, which one is going to catch your eye first?
JUST ON LOOKS we are not talking about personality, if you were to pass a women in the mall or gas station

2007-02-20 15:56:07 · 3 answers · asked by LuvnLife 3

i have a serious question. Lets say you suspect the man u love to be cheating on you and you call him out on it and he tells you why and what he did and that he never cheated on u. do you give him the benefit of the doubt everytime? especially if he admits to being suspicious but would never cheat its just the way he is. I see a lot of people break up with people cuz they get this gut feeling and they really strongly think there other half has cheated on them. but what if your wrong? and he could never do that to u ?

did u just lose the best person in ur life? how do u really believe that someone could never do that to u. I have given my bf the benfit of the doubt and am trying to believe him but i find myself doubting and i dont want to doubt no more.

2007-02-20 15:55:45 · 4 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1

2007-02-20 15:55:10 · 6 answers · asked by viru 1

i'm just wondering if yall think if would be safe for me to meet someone off the internet? i work in a bar as a karaoke hostess and i thought maybe it would be safe to have them come to my work.. ia mjust tired of being alone.. and all the chat programs want you to pay to meet someone... i'm just not sure what to do.. i won't date my regulars.. so i see no other outlet for meeting someone.. any suggestions?

2007-02-20 15:53:28 · 11 answers · asked by aleesha4u2see 1

Someone give me tips on how to control, i.e. hold in, my orgasms. My girlfriend always outlasts me and I want it to change.

2007-02-20 15:52:44 · 10 answers · asked by ambrose 1

i just met this girl and were not dating yet but soon will haha... right now were just starting off slow... anyways do you guys know any chill places i can take this girl to have fun? im thinking movies but you know its stupid and you cant really talk to her unless ur *** is like 30 mins early for the movie and just sitting in the chairs.. anyways list some ideas....thanks

2007-02-20 15:52:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

He calls almost every night. He wanted to go out with me every weekend but yet he hardly tell me how he really feels about me. im a little confused

2007-02-20 15:51:11 · 5 answers · asked by kale 1

2007-02-20 15:50:35 · 17 answers · asked by blazq420 1

we are in high school. we both said we like each other.. but want to get to know each other moe before taking this relationship further(also parents are an issue and i wont be able to see her until a few months later).. whats confusing is this..
1.she got mad when her frd rumored that she has a bf(refering to me when i sent her roses on valentines' day)
2.she was very happy to see that i visited her on valentine(since we live very far away)
3.she asked me if she should this online frd of hers(she's just curious what he's like?)
4.i told her maybe she shouldnt wait for me since we all have problems that hinder us... but she said she wants to wait
so i dont really get her... do you think she just wants me as a close friend or sth? any ideas from what i wrote?

2007-02-20 15:48:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating her for a couple of weeks now, and she always smells like an old tarp that's been sitting out in the rain for years. I'm afraid to have sex with her because she might have a little cheese on the taco (you know what I'm saying)......what should I do?

2007-02-20 15:47:45 · 13 answers · asked by Poster_22 1

There's this girl in school I like, she's beautiful and she's in the top class while I'm somewhere in the centre. We've never chatted nor spoke to one another before, cause I'm quite shy when I'm around her. She hangs out with this three girls who are equally charming and always seem so wise and busy when they're together. I keep making eye contact with all three of them, not purposely but accidentally, and this makes me kind of insecure. Now whenever I'm walking along the same corridor as them, I always catch them making snide glimpses of me and looking the other way when I look in their direction. I wanted to give this girl something for Valentine's Day but I couldn't think of anything and ended up not giving anything. I really like this girl but I just don't think that I'm up to her standards, and I hope anyone of you can help me.

2007-02-20 15:46:25 · 7 answers · asked by Soaring 4

this boy i used to like knew that i liked him,at that time, but now i dont like him and he still thinks i like him what do i do?

2007-02-20 15:46:12 · 11 answers · asked by cutie pie 1

I'm sorta in between, wondering which look I should go for. (by really skinny, I don't mean like anorexic, I just mean like model skinny. and by athletic, I just mean like a runners body, not muscular.) Oh, and also, is a 6 pack on a girl attractive? I kinda have one.

2007-02-20 15:45:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you think my girlfriend would mind if i have a ***** while sitting with her or if she touches my cock by accident and its erect? how about just sleeping in the same bed as her, and just a bunch of random situations when she can feel my *****?

do i have to say anything? is it perfectly acceptable? HELP

2007-02-20 15:45:00 · 7 answers · asked by freeman344444444 1

I keep having these dreams... omg this is so embarassing.
In waves of 5 or more nights in a row, I have dreams about kissing or making out with various guys from my past. People I've randomly seein stores, old childhood friends, x-boyfriends.....

By nature I am a good kid! I'm 17 and I've only kissed like 2 boys haha... why am I having these retarded Dawson's Creek kissing scenes for dreams?

Last night I drempt I stole this girl's boyfriend and made out with him right in front of her, just sitting indian-style on the floor.... and in another dream on the same night I kissed a boy I knew from 6th grade upside down like Spiderman.

Ridiculous! Make fun of me all you want, but please give answers!

2007-02-20 15:43:56 · 8 answers · asked by BUD 3

this guy who used to be my best friend in the world recently got into drugs and well...we're no longer friends but im still worried about him....him and my lesser best friend used to date but now hes going out with a (im sorry to say) ugly, lesbian. shes alway sliek omg i love him and everythign but whenever shes with people she tells them shes a lesbian....never bi always homosexual...i just dont know what to think about this and i would liek some other opinions....im mostly just concerned because my odl best friend has totally changed...his birthday is coming up and we havent talked to eachother for close to 8 months.....i try but i guess he just hates me or something..

2007-02-20 15:41:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i have a baby daddy. we are cool with eachother. but lately he's been confusing me. he doesn't call alot, but he does things u know. like today i got a box from him with some things my son had left at his place. well in the box was a gift set from the body shop for me & a jar of my favorite italian sauce!! he mailed it from n.y. i'm confused , can someone help and tell me if this could mean he's only being nice or something else?

2007-02-20 15:41:06 · 14 answers · asked by gracy808 2

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2007-02-20 15:40:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend was wondering if she should tell her boyfriend her family's secret information. Keep in mind that he is a alter boy very hontest never said a bad word in student concil and a good and nice friend and boyfriend. (or at least my friends says so).

2007-02-20 15:38:46 · 4 answers · asked by nuttymunkeyjunkey 3

ok so i have tese guy friends and i have known them for like 7 yrs cuz there dad works with mine and when we were in middle school i was in 6th and chris was in 8th sometimes hed say hi to me. but his brother is a yr older than me and he used to say hi to me when he saw me in middle school but now when i go to the same high school they/he don't say anything to me. I got a hi from tj once and that was all, but sometimes when i see him i will see him looking at me. like today in the libray i was leaving and he looked at me and i guess we kinda caught gazes for like 10 seconds i think but i don't get. and how do you even know if any guy likes you? whats up with them? and when i used to be in middle school with them i felt protected but when i was left alone in middle school they didn't attend anymore thats when everything went bad, i say they are my safe harbor kinda wat do ya say?

2007-02-20 15:36:16 · 14 answers · asked by tink(tinkerbell) 1

ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating since 6th grade(now 8th) and i really like him. he was my first kiss. and i really really like him. i dont think we will ever break up. but his mom absolutley HATES me. what should i do?!!!
she wont let him go to the movies or mall with me and our other friends. should i dump him cuz of his mom? or just ignore her?
please help.
lauren

2007-02-20 15:36:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mine is the movies usually (something to talk about later) or the beach (summer only). What about you?

2007-02-20 15:36:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can i do the tests? like what kind of tests?

2007-02-20 15:34:07 · 16 answers · asked by someone [: 2

2007-02-20 15:32:22 · 11 answers · asked by ^Mi|k^ 1