I saw the HOTTEST blonde girl ever and i just sat beside her and started to make conversation. At the end of class i asked her to get lunch with me and she said no, and after some convincing she finally said "okay 15 mins" lol. We had an amazing time and as we were leaving the restaurant she said "this is good let's do it again." I went to pick up something i left at my house and we ended up watching a movie together. We made out but when i started to make my move (unbutton her jeans) she was REALLY resistant and like TOTALLY changed. We ended up just sitting there and she was like looking out the window a lot. the second time i saw her she was still sitting in the same place we met but when i sat beside her, it seemed like she wasnt giving me any signals. I think she's an amazing girl and we had a great time until that point so how do you think she feels about me now?
2007-02-20 15:57:34 · 20 answers · asked by puathe180man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way im 18 and she's 19
2007-02-20 15:58:02 · update #1
You are a jerk. Do her a favor and leave her alone. You should be ashamed of your self.
2007-02-20 16:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by Selena H 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you f'ked up big-time, Ace. "Making your move" when she was resistant really pissed her off. She gave you a "break" by giving in to lunch and then obviously liked you well enough to TRUST you and do it again and there you went an pulled a dumba-ss immature stunt that told her you were only interested in getting into her pants.
IF you can repair this, it will take much grovelling and sincere apologies. Tell her you really like her and that you are sorry you were such a jerk, IF she let's you back into her life, you better get that "getting into her pants" idea out of your head until SHE "makes the move". I give you a 10% chance it will work.
2007-02-20 16:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by morahastits 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think in her mind you went from being charming and interesting (like a guy usually is when trying to get laid) to being superficical. You went too fast for her and made her uncomfortable. Now you need to suprise her by being more than a horndog. Try getting beyond the akwardness you two feel by not coming on to her until she gives you the signals that she is interested in you again. And then take it SLOW.
Some girls want you to make them feel special before they give you what you want. Remember if she gets pregnant, she's going to need a good mate. So you can't be acting like you just want a piece of tail (even if you do). You have to act like a guy that cares about her and will take care of her (even if you never would).
2007-02-20 16:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey genius, you tried to "get into her pants" on the first date which is a mistake. How do you not get that this would bother her and turn her off? You were WAY TOO AGGRESSIVE!! Just because she wants to go on a date with you doesn't mean that she is ready to hook up with you right away. You totally blew it, dude. She's not going to give you a chance again.
In the future, you might want to wait longer than the first date to "make your move". Also, it sounds like this girl has a good head on her shoulders. I highly doubt that she is the type to just hook up with guys right away. I know, I know, this comes as a surprise to you but more than a few women are like this. Don't think that she "lead you on" because she didn't. You were just too aggressive. If you expect every girl to want to hook up right away, you're going to be disappointed often.
You need to grow up. You're acting like some horny teenager and that's no way to grow into a man.
2007-02-20 16:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you should have apologized. You crossed the line too soon and it was the least you could do. You needed to apologize the moment she resisted. How long has it been now? If you don't apologize, she will think that you don't care and even if you do, it may not seem genuine in that so much time has passed.
2007-02-20 16:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a womans point of view, you moved too fast and probably blew it. If I were in her, shoes, I'd be mad that you that on the 1st date. I would apologize to her in person. And if you truly like her, stick around, but not too close, and slowly prove to her that you can be trusted...Then after some time has passed....Try the romance again
2007-02-20 16:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by Mommy Dearest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE THINKS YOU ARE A DOG!
YOU ARE A DOG!
You finally meet a decent girl who hasn't dicked half the football team and you offend her by trying to hump her like a b i t c h in heat right after you met.
She seems like a decent moral girl, you don't deserve her. Move on and find yourself some loose, immoral wench who will lay down for you on the first date. Then you can use her for a few weeks before you move on to the next VICTIM.....
2007-02-20 16:48:49 · answer #7 · answered by FAT CAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you move WAY TO FAST !! SCARY . Slow the heck down. Wait at least 3 months seriouly!! YOU pushed your selfon her. She didnot like that. You had better apologize quick and let her know you are unexperienced and stupid and got to excited. Dont ever make any moves like that again. REally!!
2007-02-20 16:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by janine 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't know you. You took advantage of her being friendly.
She gave you the message that just because she has the looks, she isn't yours to grab.
Keep your hands to yourself. Take a real interest in getting to know her. Act more mature and not like a giant hormone out of control.
2007-02-20 16:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you might've blown it by making your move too quickly. Chances are she's young and inexperienced (i.e. virgin) and is not ready for that much intimacy considering she only met and knew you for a few hours. You moved too quickly and she is not happy with that so she is probably ignoring you now.
2007-02-20 16:06:02 · answer #10 · answered by bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you moved a bit too fast. Seems like she wanted to get to know you and all... but I think you should give her some time to get comfortable and all...
2007-02-20 16:04:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋