Someone give me tips on how to control, i.e. hold in, my orgasms. My girlfriend always outlasts me and I want it to change.
2007-02-20 15:52:44 · 10 answers · asked by ambrose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont go like a bulll at a gate and chill out a bit.
when it gets to the point, think of big hairy men with zits on their bum.
that should do it not unless you are into that sort of stuff
2007-02-20 15:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make it sound like a competition. I suggest that the two of you look into Tantric sex, It will be an incredible adventure and you will be able to outlast her among other things,
2007-02-20 23:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try slightly squeezing the base or even try gently pulling down on the scrotum. Most men also have "orgasmic inevitability" which means that once they reach their peak it is hard to slow it down so it would also help to pleasure your girlfriend before you actually have intercourse and then she will already be ahead of you. Good luck! ;-)
2007-02-21 00:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always do the O before my husband, so I'm asking him right now...
ok, this is my husband advising now......when you start to feel yourself coming close, take it out.....rub your g/f's organism with yours for a while, then start again. keep your pleasure as second thought and ask her if she has been pleased yet. go down first and love pleasing her first, then go for it....get her in the mood first, it takes 20 mins before she gets excited compred to the 10 secs it takes you.....rub her body, leggs, feet, arms everything, the more she feels is the more time that she is getting warmed up for it.....the more you plaese her, the more she is able to orgasn during sex....its not about control, its about how well you plan her ahead to be with you at the moment, try to let her go first, then do your thing.....
alson if that doenst work then try drinking 2 beers before you have time with her, it does something to keep from doing it right away. hope it helps...good luck man...
2007-02-21 00:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about dead poodles. Works for me. Either that or...TAKE CARE OF HER FIRST, then hop on and grind away. When the pressure of "lasting long enough" is no longer an issue, you'll learn to last long enough, dude. The anxiety about lasting long enough can really work against you and turn you into a minute man.
2007-02-20 23:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are drugs that help keep it up longer. but if you dont want drugs, c0ck rings help. they keep the blood in the penis to keep it hard. or you could try de-sensitising it with extra thick condoms. one last thing to try is exercise the muscle at the base of the penis underneath just above the sacs. you can feel it when you urinate. stimulated correctly, you can hold on instead of ejaculating.
2007-02-21 00:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid dark corners move during the day in open places alll the best
2007-02-20 23:56:27 · answer #7 · answered by titi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with her about your problem. See if she can help. One way is when you or her feels that you are about to blow, take an ice cube and either put it on your penis or have her put it up your butt. It really works.
2007-02-20 23:58:03 · answer #8 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you cant.... unless you go really really slow, so what you need to do is either finger her for awhile and get her going then go in on her, or nothings gonna change... possibly vibrator on her before you start...
2007-02-20 23:56:28 · answer #9 · answered by answer-seeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her get on top of you. Sit her on a desk :)
2007-02-20 23:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by chilledguy27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋