There's this girl in school I like, she's beautiful and she's in the top class while I'm somewhere in the centre. We've never chatted nor spoke to one another before, cause I'm quite shy when I'm around her. She hangs out with this three girls who are equally charming and always seem so wise and busy when they're together. I keep making eye contact with all three of them, not purposely but accidentally, and this makes me kind of insecure. Now whenever I'm walking along the same corridor as them, I always catch them making snide glimpses of me and looking the other way when I look in their direction. I wanted to give this girl something for Valentine's Day but I couldn't think of anything and ended up not giving anything. I really like this girl but I just don't think that I'm up to her standards, and I hope anyone of you can help me.
2007-02-20 15:46:25 · 7 answers · asked by Soaring 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm at the top of my class and what I NEED is some normal guy who isn't so anal about school and just wants to take me out and have fun. Don't do anything with her friends there. It's like... the secret service. Try and catch her alone.
Who cares about standards? You still break up with girls who are up to your standards right?
Just make her laugh. It's (just about)everything.
2007-02-20 16:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by BUD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello brother, just some friendly advice. You got to play it cool. Don't feel inferior. You are just as good as anybody else. First try to get this girl to be a friend. Someone you can regularly talk to. Ask her a question about any subject. Break the ice. Let her get to know you as an individual. Don't feel overpowered by her friends. Remember she must know you exist. If you really want to show you mean business, challenge her academically. You would have definitely made your presence felt if u can do that
2007-02-20 23:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello me! lol, same thing happened to me a while back. But, I remember having a conversation with the girl and she mentioned really loving soy sauce and talked about her favorite shirt, so for her birthday, I got her a bottle of soy sauce and a shirt that looked like her favorite shirt and made her a card with a little comic thing filled with a bunch of inside jokes, lol. She loved it and we became really close friends. Just go make convo with the girls, man. Have courage, lol.
2007-02-20 23:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by The12thMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just going to work on your confidence and go up and talk to her. You are worried way to much about social status, which if she is a decent person, shouldn't matter to her at all - if it does, then she isn't worth it anyway. If it doesn't work out, at least you tried and you can move on. If she likes you, then you win!
2007-02-20 23:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen u just start with little steps at a time. like maby just look at her every once in a while then mabye try putting a note in her locker or somewhere where she will see it then try talking to her. once u do that u can do anything!
2007-02-20 23:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by cutie pie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok u said shes in your class right?? dude just try to talk to her.. cuz if u dont shes just gonna ignore you... and she wont know that u like her.. so step up ur game.. play it right.. feel meh? haha
2007-02-20 23:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by SOwatB!TCH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it's not about being up to the girl's standards, it's about how well you can charm her!
2007-02-20 23:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋