ok so i have tese guy friends and i have known them for like 7 yrs cuz there dad works with mine and when we were in middle school i was in 6th and chris was in 8th sometimes hed say hi to me. but his brother is a yr older than me and he used to say hi to me when he saw me in middle school but now when i go to the same high school they/he don't say anything to me. I got a hi from tj once and that was all, but sometimes when i see him i will see him looking at me. like today in the libray i was leaving and he looked at me and i guess we kinda caught gazes for like 10 seconds i think but i don't get. and how do you even know if any guy likes you? whats up with them? and when i used to be in middle school with them i felt protected but when i was left alone in middle school they didn't attend anymore thats when everything went bad, i say they are my safe harbor kinda wat do ya say?
2007-02-20 15:36:16 · 14 answers · asked by tink(tinkerbell) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you cant tell if he likes you...try talking to him....start off saying hi how u been?? see how he responds..if he continues with the convo then hes into you ( doesnt necessarily mean hes into you romanticaly) however if he is quick to get away meaning he talks fast is quick to say bye and walk away then hes def not into you and doesnt want to even talk to u
2007-02-20 15:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you don't even know these boys anymore.
No offense, but I say they want nothing to do with you.. That's what happens when people get older and go into HS.. Old friends, ESPECIALLY friends of the family, no longer want anything to do with people younger.. You may seem like a burden to them.
I don't think you should mix this up with that kid liking you, I doubt it's possible.
2007-02-20 15:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by xoemo_loveox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should be the one to go up and talk to them first instead of expecting them to do everything for you. You're just as capable as they are. As for the "caught gazes" in the library...just because someone looks at you it doesnt mean they like you, sometimes you just look familiar or something.
2007-02-20 15:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by 17*mezzo*17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably thought of you as a little girl before. Now you may have noticed you are rounder and starting to look like a woman. I suspect they are really scared of you the woman. Just say hello and smile at them, then they might calm down and start chatting again
2007-02-20 15:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 10:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try approaching him and talk to him more often. Find him and keep in touch. If you really feel something for him and you want it to grow, nurture it. Love is like a plant, if you don't feed it, it dies. Good luck.
2007-02-20 15:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya he probably likes u if u had a 10sec gaze. and btw ur profile looks like a guy, u rn't "gazes" r u lmao. jk
2007-02-20 15:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got boarded reading this drible after the first sentence, I dont think its guys with the problem but your boaring rantings
2007-02-20 15:40:07 · answer #8 · answered by toymod 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
it certainly doesn't sound like you know them well at all, so i would not think of them as a "safe harbor."
i mean it, unless you know a guy really well, always be on your guard.
2007-02-20 15:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol one of u has to be the bigger person and start a convo... ask for his AIM s/n, or myspace, ect.
strike up sum convo and see were it goes
2007-02-20 15:43:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋