Singles & Dating - 16 February 2007

well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and looks away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me?i've also been ignoring her lately. what should i do now?

2007-02-16 18:31:58 · 15 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2

Okay. So in my school ALL the girls have boyfriends,
and I don't! This makes me feel left out and worse, ugly.
People are always telling me im pretty, and im not fat.
Im nice too. But i haven't gotten asked out in a year!
Also, I did, once. but im my school you can't tell
when the guys are just joking with you or not!
HELP?

2007-02-16 18:31:51 · 13 answers · asked by audrey 2

2007-02-16 18:31:24 · 12 answers · asked by angel 1

In your opinion, what makes a woman sexy?

2007-02-16 18:30:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Suga Daddy, Sugar Daddy or whatever you want to call it
Current mood: confused
Category: Romance and Relationships

By: A. Adams

I was talking to this lady the other day and the more she talked the more she aggravated and pissed me off (sorry for the words but speaking the truth ). I got this same vibe from a lot of other females too and it's crazy and disturbing to me. She went on to say how she wants a man that takes care of everything and her. She shouldn't have to do anything with any substance like working, taking care of the house, helping with the bills, etc. I went on to say and i kept it real, "You are a fool" Why do you want a man to take care of everything? Don't you want some say in what to do? You aren't a kid, but with those type of actions, you must want to be a kid if you are giving a man complete control like your parents had over you when you were little.

Never give a man that much power over you, even if he excepts to take care of you. Make sure that you contribute something back! Here are some things why you wouldn't want a man to take care of you ( In no order):

1. He will not respect you over time.

2. You're giving him too much power.

3. When he is tired, he will put you out.

4. Where are you going when he puts you out? Remember you have nothing! Because you don't work!

5. You will have to do whatever he wants to do. Remember you don't have the right to say anything because you gave up that right when you wanted to be taken care of.( sex whenever he wants, go where ever he wants etc.)

6. You sound and would come off as a user to others.

7. It's up to him when you can and what you can and cannot buy. You have no money! You get an allowance like a kid!

8. He will never listen to you. Your opinion will never matter especially after time.

9. He will always feel that you owe him something especially when he is upset. He will always throw it back into your face in what he does and what he did for you. And you can't argue because you're not contributing.

10. You're crazy if you believe that's a good relationship to be in, and any man that would agree to that is crazy too! A relationship is 50/50 it shouldn't be all one sided. I must say if you find that type of relationship, you better hope that he never wakes up and smells the coffee

So trust me ladies...Never want to depend on a man to buy and do things for you. Be better than that because you are better than that. Once he gets tired of you he will just drop you and that's being serious and real and you have absolutely nothing to fall back on because you were depended on him! Make sure that you control some of the power and your own life.

2007-02-16 18:29:33 · 1 answers · asked by SexyBlackFasho 3

2007-02-16 18:27:31 · 14 answers · asked by mwc_girl87 1

I have a friend who has tons of game - the guy has everything - looks, flair, money, etc... but this girl that he really likes tells him she'd rather be friends first. I keep warning him not to fall into this trap... Once you are in the "friend zone" there is no way back and pretty soon he'll be listening to the stories of her screwing other guys. I tell him to turn on all the charm he's got and keep pushing for a romantic relationship... Am I right?

2007-02-16 18:27:16 · 15 answers · asked by Rona9 2

I've noticed that white men are most often seen with more diverse nationalities of women than non-white men. They're seen with black women, Asian women, Hispanic women, ect. How often do you see an Asian man with a black woman? It seems that every woman in the world is attracted to the image of the American man in Hollywood movies. (Sigh) I'm so jealous...

The question is do you believe most women are attracted to white men versus non-white men?

2007-02-16 18:27:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

SO do guys get "excited" at the drop of a hat...or have I accomplished something? He said I "started a fire." I told him "No, I didn't start a fire!" He said, "YES, YOU DID!"
So what do you think? Have I got him where I want him?
I AM SEVERLY INTERESTED IN HIM...so I hope I have turned his head.

2007-02-16 18:24:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

hes married but seperated: he claims hes going to get a divorce but i have yet to see any action. i tell him all the time that its not fair to me because he has the best of two worlds: sometimes i wonder if i overract: but i feel like im being strung along. he says he loves me and that im his world. i care alot about him but im not sure about the relationship anymore. i dont want to lose him but i think i need to let go until the divorce is final: staying with him is like me saying its ok to stay married: isnt it? this is the most confusing relationship ive ever been in: i need outsider help.

2007-02-16 18:24:26 · 3 answers · asked by TiMe To LeT gO 1

My bf always asks me questions, but not in a bad way. I dont mind it when he does. But, lately he is keeps saying "I know you have questions for me" he will not take no for an answer. And I can not think of anything to ask him. He has a 2 year old daughter and he lives with his grandparents (his mom died a few years ago). Help me please?

2007-02-16 18:23:18 · 12 answers · asked by Alexia K 1

From experience, which zodiac signs have been least loyal to you? Most likely to play you or use you?

p.s. Please don't answer if you don't believe in astrology.. thanks

2007-02-16 18:22:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-16 18:19:22 · 2 answers · asked by ohioguy4jc 4

I really like the natural smell of the armpits epecially if she's pretty and deodorant takes that away and it's yucking to be licking deodorant don't you think? Do you think I should wait until second and ask her?

2007-02-16 18:18:53 · 13 answers · asked by Believe me 3

what does that mean...he raised his right hand and held his fingers out as if it symbolized or spelled something out right after he said it...anyone got a clue what he was talking about?

2007-02-16 18:18:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want to ruin the relationship that we have worked so hard to build but I care alot about him and he cares about me. But his job recently took him out of state and with us being so far away from one another he wants us to be just friends. I am just wondering if someone could help me. What should I do? What should I say? I don't want to put to much pressure on the relationship either. I just want to figure out how to be his friend for as long as it takes to help with the situation. I was wondering if someone could help me figure out a way to give him space long enough until the time is right.

2007-02-16 18:17:28 · 6 answers · asked by tigger72879 2

This morning I asked my ex if we could be friends in the future and he replied with a 'nope'. I asked him y and he just said that 'having anythin to do with u is no help to me'....what is that supposed to mean? He wouldnt give me an explanation....any ideas?

2007-02-16 18:16:58 · 3 answers · asked by Onie 4

when i go out with this girl, hmmm she always wants me to decide where to go. but sometimes im running out of ideas... can you people help me think of what we can do when we go out? by the way, we are teenagers... so please give me suggestions on where we can go and stuff. thanks

2007-02-16 18:15:36 · 7 answers · asked by tmackun135 1

Is it possible to be close friends with a guy if you have crossed the 'only friends' line with and done more?
Does he want to be friends just to be friends or doe he like me and wants to be friends in hope of a better shot in the future?

2007-02-16 18:14:38 · 10 answers · asked by chick16 1

a big problem

2007-02-16 18:13:44 · 5 answers · asked by EasyPeasyLemonSqueezy 2

OKay the guy i like Arman.well I said hi to him and he said "hey whats up?" looking straight at me, then kinda past me and said ''do i know you?'' What does that mean? It makes no sence,..My friend asked him earlier "do you know Medina?'' and he said Yes? Why was he asked if he knew me? i dont get it...Anyway After that. he hasnt been really staring at me anymore..On Vday He was really quiet like he was ignoring me. then Today I was go to 5th period and he got in trouble so he was sitting outside,And i was gonna say hi but his friend talkedto him first so i walked past them and then i looked back at he was staring at me,Directly so i turned around quikley..then later he was in a big crowd and he was staring at me..so i`m kinda confused...again

2007-02-16 18:11:41 · 3 answers · asked by WHUDAFXUP!? 2

I just want to here from people who are or have dated sagittarius women. What was the good and the bad?

I'm curious because I know 7 sag women and 6 or them are single. They seem to be major teases.

2007-02-16 18:11:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is the correct term for rubbing up against your partner (With or without clothes) without actually having actual sex.

2007-02-16 18:10:17 · 6 answers · asked by X bot 1

I met my guy friend in school, it turned out we go to church together. Over the next 2years we became SUPER close. Everyday we called each other on the phone, walked to classes together eat breakfast together. I knew he liked me at the time but my feelings for him were not the same.For my last years of school i decided to be homeschooled so i could finish schooling earlier. He didnt like that. My guess is that he thought that i was abandoning him. Its been 3years now, and our friendship has come to a standstill... we still see each other in church and i still talk to him, but its not like it was. And i feel as though my feeling for him have changed and i like him. We recently started talking like old times again...but there are ALOT of times when at church he ignores me and wont say hi...but we are ALWAYS doing that smile the look away thing, but hardly anything else.He will talk to me for awhile then the next week competely ignore me (except for the smiling) What do i do?

2007-02-16 18:09:56 · 3 answers · asked by Confused 2

she always kept her eyes down while crossing me.
what does it mean?
is it mean that she is not interested?
i know she is shy.what are the signal or behaviour that girls are doing if they are not inerested?

2007-02-16 18:08:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok heres a little about me

Job: Student/Pro Paintballer
Hair: A fist above my shoulder (Light Blonde Naturally)
Height: Tall for my age
IQ: 180
Build: Somewhat Atheletic
Funny: Yes

So yes or no?

2007-02-16 18:07:47 · 9 answers · asked by darrkadlubowski 3

I've known this girl for about 5 months and we have hung out many times. She seemed to be interested in more than friendship. We went out for Valentines Day and had a lot of fun. Then at the end of the date I went to kiss her goodnight and she gave me her cheek. Then she says "call me sometime" and leaves.

I'm confused. Does she just want to be friends?

2007-02-16 18:05:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-16 18:03:46 · 7 answers · asked by your wonderwall 5

I know some of you may think this sounds stupid and immediately will think I'm trying to take advantage of the guy I know.

Well..

Let me explain:

I'm 18 years old, almost 19 years old and I've known this guy since the age of 13, but now, since I'm 18, I'm now living with him. I moved from Indiana to Texas to live with him. He's helped me through it all - when my dad lost his job, got laid off, and we needed money for food. He is now helping me get on my feet and until then, offered for me to live with him. I feel like I owe him a lot in return. He's very kind to me. I don't want him to think I'm taking advantage of him at all. I really do love him ALOT. I wish I could just explain to him in words how much, but I cannot do that, I'd just have to do that by my actions.

In return, I want to make love to him :

Kiss, cuddle, hug, and eventually have sex.

I'm not sure if he really wants to have sex with me and I'm a little scared to push it.

How do I convince him? Sighs

2007-02-16 18:01:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok...for valentines day..i gave this girl a really nice handmade card..i think she really liked the card...anyways..when i see her in class she starts to look at me and when i look back she looks away.....i know this is a good sign but she never tries to talk to me..i mean cmon i pretty much did everything i could to let her know so how come she hasnt said anything back? she didnt even say thnx the next day or like "the card was really nice" or anything like that...i feel really depressed
what do u think this means? ...shes the very conservative type...

2007-02-16 17:58:33 · 10 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1