hes married but seperated: he claims hes going to get a divorce but i have yet to see any action. i tell him all the time that its not fair to me because he has the best of two worlds: sometimes i wonder if i overract: but i feel like im being strung along. he says he loves me and that im his world. i care alot about him but im not sure about the relationship anymore. i dont want to lose him but i think i need to let go until the divorce is final: staying with him is like me saying its ok to stay married: isnt it? this is the most confusing relationship ive ever been in: i need outsider help.
2007-02-16 18:24:26 · 3 answers · asked by TiMe To LeT gO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leaving him until he's divorced will force him to act, or if he does nothing, it will prove he was stringing you along.
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2007-02-16 18:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and tell him to call u when he's divorced. Im not sure that he has the best of 2 worlds...u say he's seperated so he's not gettin any from the wife is he? That would b gettin the best of 2 worlds. If he hasnt started divorce proceedings when hes already started another relationship then there is a chance he's hoping to reconcille with his wife...
2007-02-16 18:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, i think you should let him go untill you know the divorce is final. If he sees you leaving, and he really loves you he wont want to loose you and will really make this divorce thing happen.
2007-02-16 18:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋