My bf always asks me questions, but not in a bad way. I dont mind it when he does. But, lately he is keeps saying "I know you have questions for me" he will not take no for an answer. And I can not think of anything to ask him. He has a 2 year old daughter and he lives with his grandparents (his mom died a few years ago). Help me please?
2007-02-16 18:23:18 · 12 answers · asked by Alexia K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him what he wants to do his dream job
ask him what kind of house does he want to purchase in life
ask him where he would like to live what state
dream vacation
ask him opinion on the war abortion and drugs crime
ask him what he remembers about his mom
ask him how many more kids he wants
ask him his favorite cartoon and favorite candy
2007-02-16 18:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by ♥queen b♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How are you ever going to learn anything about him if you never ask him anything. What are his goals in life? What does he believe about God.? What are his future plans. Is he serious about you?
What interests do you have in common? Does he plan to move out on his own eventually? How does he plan to do that? Is he finished with his education? What does he expect in a future wife? Does he have integrity? Would he protect you if you were in danger?
Are you both on the same track in your plans for the future?
Do you think alike about things? How are you going to know unless you try to find out. What is he like under stress? Does he get violent...angry...is he a patient person? How is he with kids?]
Does he like them. Does he want more. Does he believe in sharing the responsibilities of a household? etc....
Does that help? You don't marry a stranger....you learn about everything first. That is why he is asking you to communicate. If you can't now....how will you later on?
Also think about what you want in a husband. Make a list ...then think about....how many of these things does he fit. Better to think now!
2007-02-16 18:35:28 · answer #2 · answered by samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he means questions he means that if you have any doubts and questions to ask regarding his first marriage ,his daughter ,are you going to be a mom to her. and so on .maybe you have not thought of these things as yet .but later you might. that is what he means by questions. If you dont have any dont ask him.This is not a big issue to worry over
2007-02-16 18:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by Shahzadi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same with all guys and not just boyfriends.. I never know what to ask them and they'll always be asking me a bunch of quesions... lol I hate it because I want to ask them stuff, but I just don't know what to ask... sooo whatever, lol. I'll learn eventually and it's not weird... but I guess for me it's because I'm just really shy.... soo yeah.
♥ Christina
2007-02-16 18:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be one of three things: 1) He is needy and wants to feel important to you, he wants to tell you more about himself but does not want to give unwanted info. 2) There is something he needs to tell you but doesn't know where or how to start 3) He has a very outgoing communicative temperament, and you are a more reserved, fewer words temperament (this happened between me and my husband when we were dating).
I don't know if this helps, but when he is on a roll talking to you about something, use the phrase "tell me more" (try to mean it)
2007-02-16 18:32:33 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 05:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to dump this kat. Look it is not you job to entertain him. He is the one previlaged to have you accompaly him.
It's not your fault he doesn't speak the language of woman. Look 95% of all man on this earth don't understand the language of women. He's just insecure because he's a boring tool.
Look sister leave the garbage behind, what does this guy do anyways drive a truck? fix toilets? work at home depot?
2007-02-16 18:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by danielsonrg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Strange to hear a guy wanting to be asked q's...most get sick of girls asking q's lol, maybe just ask him about his day, how his daughter is, maybe he wants to open up to u but wants u to sort of initiate that kind of conversation...
2007-02-16 18:27:11 · answer #8 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some questions my boy friend asks is like whats up with me and you and how was your day, do you really like me or are you just saying it to say it so like ask your boyfriend some of those and mabey he will get off your case.
2007-02-16 18:39:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is retarded also, and he is having a memory relapse of a previous conversation or something.
2007-02-16 18:28:30 · answer #10 · answered by Adam S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋