Anybody got a sugar daddy, like using men or anything similar read this?

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Suga Daddy, Sugar Daddy or whatever you want to call it
Current mood: confused
Category: Romance and Relationships

By: A. Adams

I was talking to this lady the other day and the more she talked the more she aggravated and pissed me off (sorry for the words but speaking the truth ). I got this same vibe from a lot of other females too and it's crazy and disturbing to me. She went on to say how she wants a man that takes care of everything and her. She shouldn't have to do anything with any substance like working, taking care of the house, helping with the bills, etc. I went on to say and i kept it real, "You are a fool" Why do you want a man to take care of everything? Don't you want some say in what to do? You aren't a kid, but with those type of actions, you must want to be a kid if you are giving a man complete control like your parents had over you when you were little.

Never give a man that much power over you, even if he excepts to take care of you. Make sure that you contribute something back! Here are some things why you wouldn't want a man to take care of you ( In no order):

1. He will not respect you over time.

2. You're giving him too much power.

3. When he is tired, he will put you out.

4. Where are you going when he puts you out? Remember you have nothing! Because you don't work!

5. You will have to do whatever he wants to do. Remember you don't have the right to say anything because you gave up that right when you wanted to be taken care of.( sex whenever he wants, go where ever he wants etc.)

6. You sound and would come off as a user to others.

7. It's up to him when you can and what you can and cannot buy. You have no money! You get an allowance like a kid!

8. He will never listen to you. Your opinion will never matter especially after time.

9. He will always feel that you owe him something especially when he is upset. He will always throw it back into your face in what he does and what he did for you. And you can't argue because you're not contributing.

10. You're crazy if you believe that's a good relationship to be in, and any man that would agree to that is crazy too! A relationship is 50/50 it shouldn't be all one sided. I must say if you find that type of relationship, you better hope that he never wakes up and smells the coffee

So trust me ladies...Never want to depend on a man to buy and do things for you. Be better than that because you are better than that. Once he gets tired of you he will just drop you and that's being serious and real and you have absolutely nothing to fall back on because you were depended on him! Make sure that you control some of the power and your own life.

Answer 1

Whoever A. Adams is, they are brilliant. However, he/she forgot to add the importance of a woman's career. This is how she can break her dependence on any man. Thanks for the insight.