Okay. So in my school ALL the girls have boyfriends,
and I don't! This makes me feel left out and worse, ugly.
People are always telling me im pretty, and im not fat.
Im nice too. But i haven't gotten asked out in a year!
Also, I did, once. but im my school you can't tell
when the guys are just joking with you or not!
HELP?
2007-02-16 18:31:51 · 13 answers · asked by audrey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really like the guy who asked me out, but,
I cant tell if hes serious or not..
its soo annoying!
and he'll ask me in the middle of class and
of course I say no, cause Im in class!,
and then he says "good cause Im going out with somone"
boys are... so weird!
2007-02-16 18:46:17 · update #1
uh go ask someone out that you like?
2007-02-16 18:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by I LOVE BEING A NORTHERN YANK! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, i wouldn't worry about having a boyfriend or not. Don't want a boyfriend because your friends have one. If you really want a boyfriend and you find a guy you do like, try to hang out with him, have him hang with your friends, go out to movies, parties, and just do fun teenage stuff. Bowling and pool fun things ppl do. Be around a guy of interest around your friends, see how he interacts with them and you. If you want a boyfriend just because everyone else has one.. then i would wait and let them come to you. School is so important, having a life is too i know. But sometimes you have to do the more important things first to have a good life later on. I hope i helped a little bit.
2007-02-16 18:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by Foxy20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to calm down. I am telling you it is not a big deal that you do not have a bf. When the right guy comes along you will know. Are you so desperate that you would go out with anyone? You have to stop worrying soo much and just live your life. Some day you will find the right guy, until then enjoy your freedom, guys aren't everything.
2007-02-16 18:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by dandanthecranman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not such a big deal to worry about. I am in college and one thing I know is that MOST of the girls here are single. That means that any relationships they had before are over. Relationships come and they go. Just sit back and relax about it since, for you right now, they are simply a learning experience and you probably have plenty of time in your life to get better at them. No need to rush things as life is the longest thing you will ever do.
2007-02-16 18:37:14 · answer #4 · answered by AppleCard! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u really wanna be like everyone else...u have it better then they do cause u can do what u want, when u want without having to consider anyone else. Dont worry about it, there are more important things in life than boyfriends, most of em are pigs anyway, so while all the girls are having their hearts broken u will be out there havin fun
2007-02-16 18:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly fine to be single, nothing wrong with that. I was single most of my high school career and to tell you the truth I had more fun than what a lot of my taken friends did. Think as being single as the time to do whatever you want and not to be tied down. Someday you'll miss being able to just run free. There's nothing wrong with you, don't let others influence you. Remember there's someone out there waiting for you somewhere, and it's ok to take your time finding them.
2007-02-16 18:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by techfan_jen_10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i really wish i could tell you all this teen emotion crap will stop but it wont i know exactly how you feel i had not even been kissed my sophomore year and all my friends had they also had boyfriends it was sooo frustrating! so i settled for a guy.... please whatever you do dont settle just because you want to fit in its not worth it at all trust me! you are great in your own way you will find a GREAT guy and while your friends complain about their bad boyfriends you will be happy you have one that really cares for you and respects you not some guy who just wants sex and that stuff you will find your guy when its time and trust me it will be at the most unexpected time just give it time dont keep tract of how long its been since someone has asked you out just go with the flow i promise you will be just fine! dont let ur friends get to you
2007-02-16 18:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by browneyedchick679 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Audry, I think you are just fine. Have patience. School is retarted anyway . My guess is the guys are intimidated by your good looks. Also, if you realize this now it will help. The quarterback that marries the cutest cheerleader usually end up as losers with retarted children. It has been proven time after time. Life is very interesting. Just relax.
2007-02-16 18:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dnt worry and wait for the right guy who can come and ask you out.
we gals are like apples, there are apples that have fallen onto the ground, these are the rotten apples meanin the gals who are like sluts and would do anything to have boys on them, then there are the ones right at the bottom of the tree, they are the ones again that can be easily plucked, then there are the ones that are in the middle, a little effort is needed to get them and then there are the ones right at the top, its hard to get them and that is why boys opt for whatever is easier. wait for the one who is willing to climb the tree to get you!!!
2007-02-16 18:43:41 · answer #9 · answered by cookiecracker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it sounds like the pot is talking for most of the boys in your school so I exclude them from the conversation. If you want a boyfriend find a guy in your postion and get to know them, not the popular a$$hole who you seem to like
2007-02-16 20:37:41 · answer #10 · answered by Legal Eagle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋