I hired this man to work on my house last year after my husband passed away. I was always nice to him but have not encouraged him in any way. Last year, he called me once a week. The he asked me out, I was gracious but firm in my decline. I am not going to date.
Now, he will not stop calling! He has invited himself over to my house, I don't have it in me to be mean and say No!
For the last 3 days, he has called my house an average of 10 times. I have let the phone ring or answer machine pick up. I have told him we really don't have much to say or I will call him if I need anything but HE STILL CALLS!
He says he"worries about me and cares about us" and that's why he calls.I don't want to alienate him as a neighbor, because there are times that I have asked him to do things for me (clean my chimney, start a car etc.), he will not take any pay, but I usually bake something for him as payment.
I want to gently let him know that this is just way overboard. HELP!
2007-02-13
10:42:28
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