my husband have been beating me and I just want to know if there is a good man out there for me because every time I meet a man they beat me and I just can't leave cuzz i fall in love to easily
2007-02-13 10:36:06 · 8 answers · asked by Lady2pac 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES!!! God will get you through this but you have to want to get through it and never go back. There are some great men out there. You have to know your worth. He is insecure and down right crazy. If you don't any kids it will be easy to leave.
2007-02-13 10:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by nobodybetta_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man lays a hand on you ever to hurt you, then he's not a 'good man' and I'd say he's not even a man. A real man who loves you would sooner cut off his own hands than hit the woman he loves. Don't give up hope, there's someone out there who'll treat you with the respect and love you deserve, you just have to be willing to look for him, and sometimes not in the obvious places.
2007-02-13 18:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by Katasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then leave before he kills you I know that's easier said than done because I lived the life for 23yrs,I was mentally ill with it ,hed beat me up for nothing when hed been drinking and my poor children saw too much cause I was too terrified to leave,but I did manage to go and went in a refuge with a bin bag full of clothes. I always said I would never meet anyone again but eventually did and he doesn't hit women or drink too much so please dont give up hope, but you also dont need a man to be happy
2007-02-13 18:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby I feel for you. I think the problem is that you get what give. A woman only falls in love with a MAN for treating her like WOMAN, not like a man!Straight-up!
2007-02-13 18:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by robbdeep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know , I can't figure out why any woman would stay in a relationship like that anyway , , oh ,and by the way ,I would never hit a woman , thats abuse, and I would rather love them .
2007-02-13 18:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course there are guys that wouldn't beat you! You need to leave your husband b/c he's trash and doesn't deserve you... and you're going to get hurt even worse if you don't do something about it... and don't think you can change him because you can't... but you need to leave.
2007-02-13 18:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, don't put up with that crap! Take some self defense classes and kick boxing and learn how to defend yourself too. That never hurts. And while your at it leave his sorry butt.
2007-02-13 18:41:44 · answer #7 · answered by AmandaHugNKiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why r u blaming yourself the difference between men and boys are the toys i don't know if i could be your man but i do know that i woud'nt hit you
2007-02-13 18:40:33 · answer #8 · answered by dvdknffn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋