Is it really that bad to have sex on the first date?
I'm 35, been there, done that. So is it still bad to let yourself go and have fun?? What would you do??
2007-02-13 10:30:25 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends where you want the relationship to go. If you sleep with someone on the first date, he will surmise that you probably do it regularly and get around a lot. Personally, that's not what I look for in a woman.
2007-02-13 10:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by Aquaman 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
depends on what you want from him. If you only want to have fun go for it; as long as you are emotionally stable to deal with he fact that that is all it is.
If you want more, I wouldn't. All you're telling a guy when you sleep with him on the first date is that is all you want and he has no obligation to you at all.
Have fun, but be wary of your emotions. There is nothing wrong with causal s*x. The only problem is, someone always wants more eventually.
2007-02-13 18:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by bornalib 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the date, and depends on the guy. Having fun once in a while is fine, but if you actually like the guy, wait and see if he's willing to wait too or if he's just seeing you as a booty-call.
2007-02-13 18:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 57 now and single. One of the ironies of aging and dating is that is usually what both parties want. Let go and enjoy but always protect yourself, of course.
2007-02-13 18:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've just never thought it a good idea. after all you have to look at yourself in the mirror afterwards and are you going to like what you see?
on top of that how about all the diseases out there? no way is that few minutes of satisfaction worth the risk.
have some ice cream ........ that usually works.
2007-02-13 18:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by tess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion I find it pretty trashy to give yourself up on the first date. Men find you easy. But if your going to have "fun" like that be prepared to use protection in case he has STD's or AIDS.
2007-02-13 18:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by AmandaHugNKiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't care if you never see the guy again, go for it. But keep in mind that it's not healthy on any level to have this kind of experience.
2007-02-13 18:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by Waiting and Wishing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't want to judge you since I've been there & done that also.....but it's still not right. I felt like I had done something wrong because I had! It disnt say alot for my character...or yours.
2007-02-13 18:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds OK
2007-02-13 18:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF he's serious about you, it doesn't matter when he gets it. forget what everyone else thinks. unles you're going out with some 16 year old virgin, he's probably been there done that too. so you'r eboth in the same boat. w/e, right? so yea.. bang on...
2007-02-13 18:39:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋