when asked about what personality trait they are turned on by, almost all girls say confidence. but are they really just talking about guys who are confortable with themselves? if that was the case, a lot more guys would be considered attractive. the truth is, girls are attracted to those guys who have an extremely high level of confidence.the level where they feel they are not obligated to respect other people.and the fact that they look for those traits make them as shallow as guys who only look for sexy bodies on women.i mean, lets face it, not any guy can have that level of confidence.usually those are the good looking, talented and popular guys.if i'm not very confident,its not because i woke up one day and decided i wasn't going to be, but because i'm not popular, i'm not a trophy winner at anything, and i'm not really good looking. so when women say they're attracted to 'confidence',they're really saying they're attracted to those things.my question is, how is that not shallow?
2007-02-13
10:04:47
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