I was with this girl for a month. She said she wanted to take things slow, so I was super cool and confident but erotic at the same time. All this up until she started saying how she loved the sound of my voice, the way I touched her and stuff like that. I felt I was in a safe place to love.Then I slowly let my defences slide and started showing affection, telling her over the phone that I miss her and finally admitting in bed, after 20 days or so, that I was in love with her. 5 days later she said "I guess I see you as a friend" ????. I know that girl was melting in my hands when we were together. What on earth went wrong? Her best friend said afterwards that she got scared and had second thoughts about ending it. Now it hurts like hell and I just don't want to repeat the same mistakes. Is it wrong to express such strong feelings so soon? Does it scare people ? Is love forbidden before a certain point?
2007-02-13
23:15:09
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Dennis K
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