Singles & Dating - 11 February 2007

Usually whenever I see an interacial couple, it is a black male and a white female. I've also noticed the most of the white females are usually blonde, fat, and unattractive.

Why is this? Is it because black men like bigger women? Is it because the fat white women can't get a white guy so they date a black guy? Also, how come the black guys parade their fat white girlfriends around as if she is a prize? Because she is white and therefore better then even an attractive black women?

Please don't pretend that these couples don't exist because you would be lying through you teeth.

2007-02-11 11:36:05 · 3 answers · asked by agnosticaatheistica 2

We have been "dating" for about 3.5 years. I met her right after my wife and I split up. We've had a lot of fun together and GREAT SEX. but I don't feel like I'm in love with her and she is, although she won't say it. She had a bad marriage a while back and another bad relationship since. She refers to me as her boyfriend, but I have never acknowledged this or called her my girlfriend. I did go out with another woman during this time and now she won't trust me even tho' I have not done anything to make her think I've done anything qith anyone else since then. I can't seem to win. We "broke up" Saturday night, but she still calls me asking me to give her a reason to hate me since it would be easier. I don't hate her. What is this? Do I stay or is this a dead end? If I call her I'll end up telling her what she wants to hear just so I won't feel so bad. I will miss some things, but i won't miss the 20 questions. What do I do??

2007-02-11 11:35:37 · 12 answers · asked by Idunnowhy 1

I was talking to Matt and when I was about to leave he said "see ya later" in a soft smooth way. Is that a sign that he likes me? And he also said that my G1 picture couldn't look that bad.

2007-02-11 11:35:28 · 3 answers · asked by Steph1490 4

is there any way for a 16 year old girl to have an abortion without her mother or fathwer having to find out????? My cousin 's in desperate need and we don't know what the hell to do. Oh and will the guy go to jail since he's 18???

2007-02-11 11:35:23 · 6 answers · asked by la locita 1

the guy i've been crushing on all year has fallen for another girl...but the worst part is that the girl has everything!! class president, completely athletic, tons of friends, bright blue eyes, long blonde hair...u get the picture. it's not fair! i thought that me and him were actually starting 2 get somewhere. why is it that you always want what you can't have?

2007-02-11 11:35:22 · 2 answers · asked by Surfergirl 4

2007-02-11 11:34:44 · 2 answers · asked by HOT SINGLE BACHELOR 2

2007-02-11 11:33:57 · 10 answers · asked by indracyao 1

I really like this guy & our school is doing a fundraiser where you can send cards to people for Valentine's day & you can send the anonamausly if you want.
Should I send him a 'secret admirer' one?


Please answer both questions

2007-02-11 11:33:29 · 3 answers · asked by Talk-A-Holic 1

2007-02-11 11:32:41 · 3 answers · asked by jesse james 5

I've always been attracted to fat girls. The main trouble is, it's more than just a preference, I'm completely obsessed with the thought of them getting fatter, outgrowing clothes, getting stuck, breaking chairs etc.

I've dated a few girls who are on the plump side and I'm sure they'd be horrified if they knew that I'd fantasized about them getting fatter, to the extent that I feel really guilty about me being with them.

Is there any way of losing a fetish, such as hypnosis or some other kind of therapy, or if not, what do you think I should do about my problem, which is stunting my lovelife?

2007-02-11 11:32:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am very fussy when it comes to what guys I like... And I feel this is limiting my chances of meeting them... how can I stop being so fussy.. I want to open up and give people a go but I am quiet particular when it comes to what guys I like.. how can I stop this train of thought and let myself go?? Is this a bad thing?

2007-02-11 11:29:15 · 8 answers · asked by channille 3

i tend to like guys that i just can't have (are taken) but now i like this boy who is single. (to my knowledge) and its just another hopless situation. i relly don't know him all tht well and i know i ahve to talk to him... but whta about? how could i possible have a conversation with him. he really quiet, and like is super smart and has alot of money. but i just fell 2ft tall when i'm around him and eery thing i say sounds stupid. and i wish it could just be perfect and we could just sit down and have a conversation.
i also don't know if hes shy or just thinks i'm revolting. becasue he knows i like him, but i think he thinks i'm just another hoodrat black girl. but i don't know how to show him the real me. i need help! this is a hopeless situation but i really want to go out with him. what do i do?

2007-02-11 11:28:56 · 10 answers · asked by corie j 3

Alright..At this moment in time, I don't quite like anyone. I'm looking for a serious relationship and willing to wait it out until the right guy comes. That is not my problem. My problem is as follows:

There are a few guys that come to mind which seem to fancy me. No outright like me as in they want to date me but fancy me. I don't like any of them back.

However, I still find it interesting to lead them on. I'll play nice and see if they do something for me and then be rude if they say a comment that I would normally wouldn't take offence to. I do this just for the heck of it - to see their reactions. To see how much I can manipulate them.

Sometimes I'll even be really flirty with a random guy cashier to see how he reacts. See if I can make him blush.

Is this a really bad thing? I do not do it often - it is not an every day thing. However, it is slightly addicting. It's nice when I'm "successful", as it were and manage to get my way.

If it's bad, how do I stop?

2007-02-11 11:28:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I DONT KNOW WHAT TO GIVE MY BOYFRIEND FOR VALINTINES DAY.AND I DONT KNOW IF HES GETTING ME SOMETHING.WEVE BEEN GOING OUT FOR ONLY 2 WEEKS AND IVE ONLY SEEN HIM ONE TIME.WHAT SHOULD I GET HIM.OO AND IM 13

2007-02-11 11:25:35 · 6 answers · asked by Priscilla 1

My boyfriend doesnt call me for times upon times and I always do the calling because he doesn't by credit. When I call him, I would think that because we don't see each other for long and all, he'll be glad that I called. He always seem distracted and not interested. I love him and I think he's playing on that. He doesn't tell me anything anymore and I'm tired of it. I'm going to leave him before Valentines Day. What do you think of the situation?

2007-02-11 11:24:46 · 9 answers · asked by Girl-In-Blue 3

i know like 7 postions but i dont think thell work they say shes a freak in bed

2007-02-11 11:24:04 · 7 answers · asked by TE LEGEND IN THE MAKING 3

I am in a semi new relationship and I was wondering which one of us is better looking? My bf has no intrest in this girl and she has none in him, but I am still a bit jealous because when I saw her pictures, I automatically realized how gorgeous she is. I won't say which one is who but pick girl A or B and why please.

http://s155.photobucket.com/albums/s317/amiugly/

2007-02-11 11:22:56 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Look im a 20 year old virgin, and i've had a couple "dating" runs here and there with women, and actually am pretty good looking. With that included I've taken note I got the nice guy curse; you know old school charm, but I now I live with two roommates off campus in college and transferred here so I really dont know people and have taken a few shots with girls; but in the end I keep getting frustrated? Is my problem possibly im close minded or im putting too much emphasis and worry about gettin laid. (my buddies poke me daily about it..) I guess in the end maybe im venting but I'm just looking for some kind of advice... thanks.

2007-02-11 11:21:53 · 7 answers · asked by bill 1

2007-02-11 11:19:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know most of us look back at past relationships and try to remember the good things about them. I'm curious what others miss the most about being involved in a monogamous relationship.

2007-02-11 11:19:06 · 7 answers · asked by cinsingl83 3

I am Vietnamese and the girl of my dream is Caucasian. She is in some of my classes and I talk to her sometimes and she loves my jokes. I think i fell in love with her because she have that bliss classic beauty that every guy wants in a wife and when i say that she is not hott but she is beautiful. I know she's too good for me and only another caucasian can date her and marry her but I want to change that. She lives five houses down from me and own a beagle dog and I brought the same dog (My dog name is Oliver) just last month I purposely walked my dog by her and she bought her dog out and they began to play like boyfriend and girlfriend dog. We are both 17 years old and love our dogs. Her ex-boyfriend cheated on her because she wanted to wait til marriage to have sex and I told him to dump her and he did because he doesn't deserve her now she is vulnerable but I don't want to take advantage of that because I respect her too much. I want to be her boyfriend, what should i do?

2007-02-11 11:18:18 · 8 answers · asked by Live&Learn 2

Isn't one year enough? Sometimes it feels like I'm not who she wants to lose it to.

2007-02-11 11:16:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not to good at understanding these relationship things but what would be some signs that he's ready to break up with me? Please help.

2007-02-11 11:16:01 · 11 answers · asked by Danae 1

well it all started in 2004dec , someone introduced me to this guy, we spoke to eachother a little ,since after that i only saw twice , the person that introduced always tell me that guy said he want to go out with .Imagine every saturday since we last met in 05 feb he keep on asking about me . having seen the person that introduce us since ,06june . well yesterday i saw that person and they said he wanted to spend xmas with me . but the person that introduce us did not get any contact to tell me . please help i'm confused

2007-02-11 11:15:47 · 4 answers · asked by Regina 1

and how can i start talking to him! I want his phone number, but i dont wanna ask for it, unless he gives it to me. I'm going to tell him hes cute tomarrow..is that a good idea? Will he get the idea that i like him, cuz i want him to. How can he get the idea i like him without me actually saying 'i like you'?

should i flirt? tell me what to say to him!

2007-02-11 11:13:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

inside and out

2007-02-11 11:13:16 · 7 answers · asked by .: Brunette Beauty :. 1

I have been going out with my boyfriend for about two months, and for Valentines Day I was thinking about doing something like making him cupcakes and spelling out "I love you" or "Be mine" on the top...feedback? Thanks :) I'm 15, by the way. And I'm not sure what he's getting me but he said he'd get me a "little gift" and I may have heard something about roses from other people...:) Thanks!

2007-02-11 11:12:20 · 12 answers · asked by sarah 2

I dont even think he could be mad about anything,its strange and im worried what should I do..he doesnt answer phone at all..or email or text message...no response. he is the one usually getting in touch with me all the time....

2007-02-11 11:11:20 · 23 answers · asked by safarlsun33 4

well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me?and should i ask her out again or let her come to me?

2007-02-11 11:10:58 · 30 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2

Personally, it's nice and all, but a little pathetic. I like the creative type, but hey, thats just me. What about you guys?

2007-02-11 11:09:12 · 11 answers · asked by qtpie16707 3