Singles & Dating - 5 February 2007

that there are no sparks and that she wants to break up but wants to remain friends does that mean that she will never feel the sparks or is she trying to tell me that she just needs time? I even got her saying "if you arent friends with me you will never know." Although she told me that i shouldnt wait, and that i "shouldnt settle for less," i feel like she is afraid. She has been through a lot over the past fews years (2 brain surgeries and a real jerk for a boyfriend), and prior to dating she told me that "she kind of swore off men before i came around and that she doesnt know how she feels about me." according to her, i am "everything she wants in a boyfriend, and she has a lot of fun when shes with me." she just doesnt get the butterflies. Am I doomed? should i just move on? Or is she trying to tell me that things will change if i stick around? SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE!

2007-02-05 00:35:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok guys... would u choose a beautiful curvy curl with ummm lets say not a very "amazing" personality.. or a cute, petite girl with a nice personality-- (which is not curvvyyy!)

2007-02-05 00:35:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this girl that im attracted to that goes to my bus stop in the morning. I've seen her in the morning loads and loads of times now. But i can never get the courage to talk to her! what's wrong with me? Instinctively, i think she likes me. She keeps looking at me. Stands near me. Wiggles her hips when she walks etc.

How do i talk to her? what do i say? what if she runs away when i try and talk to her?

2007-02-05 00:35:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-05 00:31:12 · 12 answers · asked by madgal 3

I LOVE a girl more than anything in the whole world and i don't know how to make her my girlfriend or how to make her love me!PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE I REALY NEED THEM BECAUSE IF I LOSE HER I WILL DIE!!!

2007-02-05 00:31:10 · 9 answers · asked by mikenanadakis 1

A coworker sent me an email that I was too weird for him to be friends with because I was sending him mixed signals. We had been close for awhile and I told him it was best that we ignore each other so I can get over my crush on him since he already has a gf. Anyway during all of this, he suggested that the best way to get over him was to sleep with him. I thought he really wanted me because he kept asking if I wanted to do it. Then he told me that I should do it with someone else since he already has a gf. Of course, I felt hurt ,angry, and embarrassed since I told him things that I wanted him to do to me. A few days later I called him a dog via text since he jerked my feelings around, then I felt bad about it and wrote a letter apologizing to him. This is what provoked him to ignore me for the past month. A few days ago, he looked at me like he wanted to say hello and I emailed him asking him if we could just treat each other like coworkers and say hi. He told me I was too werd.

2007-02-05 00:30:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

whats the best way of getting rid of hair downstairs!
On a bloke.

2007-02-05 00:29:58 · 13 answers · asked by loadsofgoesatthis 2

Ladies im sure you can relate when i say my boyfriend thinks hes always right. After three years now of listening to how right and perfect he thinks he is, i want some practical joke ideas to annoy him. Childish i know, but it will just make my life better!!!

2007-02-05 00:29:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I thought I had a boyfriend, but yet he would get up in the middle of the night to write someone else a email and tell me not to be offended, we do not live together, thank goodness, then the IM's stopped, the phone calls came late at night, the emails stopped, then I get a email telling me he only loved me as a sister, not as a lover.

2007-02-05 00:29:26 · 18 answers · asked by Karen L 1

cuz i feel like talking to them about hobbies and music and all that is kinda.. ummm.. i dunno like thats what most ppl talk about... so dont they find it kinda boring talking about tht over and over?:S

2007-02-05 00:29:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My b/f is always messin with his belt, like resting his hand on it etc.
My friend says it means he wants se.x or is thinking about it.
Is she right??

2007-02-05 00:28:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-05 00:28:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am practically in-love with my best friend. I have only known him for about seven months but we are really close. Everyone likes him. I am just the new American girl in a sea of Tuscan middle schoolers. He likes my friend and a load of other hott girls. I am not excactley hott but im really nice. I flirt with him and always hang out. How do I get him to fall for me??????

2007-02-05 00:28:03 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3

If I get accepted in university i will join him in 6 months....do u tthink that we should stop the relationship because things are not so good between us anymore....and he once cheated on me!u have any advice?

2007-02-05 00:26:06 · 3 answers · asked by cawer 1

It's the first time I will be celebrating Valentine's Day alone. To make matters worse I just moved to a new country and I'n completely alone. What should I do ALONE on the day of Love?
HELP!

2007-02-05 00:25:37 · 10 answers · asked by Olivia-Joan 2

its back to school time (here in our country) and i had promised to get somethin 4 mi sweetie (probably money), bt nw time is up i have failed to get money in time to sort dis out.she is calling me every other minute and i ignore her calls coz i know she wants the promise.i am in a total dillema and i fear to tell her how broke i am for lest she'll chuck me and mi dreams of marrying her will hit a snag.she is a real goatie and i dont want to lose her just like dat. give me yo views and i move on! thanks

2007-02-05 00:25:14 · 7 answers · asked by solot 1

I'm awful when it comes to this sort of thing. I really like this girl and have been getting to know her for awhile. I thought maybe she had some interest in me, but I dont know for sure. What should I say?

2007-02-05 00:24:26 · 8 answers · asked by mauiman240 2

2007-02-05 00:23:39 · 10 answers · asked by Ma 1

iv been seeing this guy for about 2 months he says he really likes me and im great but when i asked him out he said no he just wants to be friends with exras. he says he miss'es me all the time but just dos'nt want a girlfriend is this because im not good enough for him?

2007-02-05 00:22:28 · 9 answers · asked by SHY1 2

My Girlfriend says its me that gets to her at the PMS Time, Nobody else. I see differently, she gets on everybody but holds it in. WIth me, she lets it out.

2007-02-05 00:22:17 · 2 answers · asked by Terry 1

My Girlfriend says its me that gets to her at the PMS Time, Nobody else. I see differently, she gets on everybody but holds it in. WIth me, she lets it out.

2007-02-05 00:21:27 · 7 answers · asked by Terry 1

2007-02-05 00:21:11 · 4 answers · asked by jano 1

2007-02-05 00:20:11 · 1 answers · asked by V JAYASREE K 2

My boyfriend wont invite me and asks like he does not want me to come with him and his family to celbrate his birthday but he says that if I want to do something for him to do it on the weekend. I have spent time with his whole family before sisters, mother and father numerous times and on the holidays too. Why would he not invite me to share in HIS birthday?....(dating almost a year, mid 20's)

2007-02-05 00:20:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf is 3 yrs younger, And we been together for 1 year now, he is working in another country and not met him for few months, we always keep in touch on phone. Now he says he need 8 more years to marry me, and asking me to wait, i know he is young and always will be away from me, should i wait for him, after 8 years i will be in my30's. And I am worried he may change his mind. help me

2007-02-05 00:19:39 · 4 answers · asked by wendy w 1

2007-02-05 00:19:24 · 20 answers · asked by kennyboy 6

i have known this guy since 6months... we both love each other alot and we both are committed to each other but the only thing that scares the hell out of him is his ultra orthodox n strict parents.it will b really hard to please them .... we also know that with this commitment we should give each other atleast 3years more cuz then we both will b settled career wise n will grow mature too. but what after that? he does not want to marry anyother girl but how should i boost his strength to b positive.what should i do? we cant leave each other cuz of family problems but he is always scared to go against his parents. i become unstable cuz of his problems.i am ready to face probs coming in our relations but still what should i do? how can i help him to gain strength n wateva thats required.?

2007-02-05 00:18:41 · 5 answers · asked by natalie 1

2007-02-05 00:18:30 · 5 answers · asked by V JAYASREE K 2

iv been seeing this guy for a couple of months now i can tell he likes me but when i asked him out he said no, he's always saying he miss'es me and really likes me but just wants to be friends with exras is he just using me?

2007-02-05 00:17:04 · 18 answers · asked by SHY1 2

ok this my plan for v day got the flowers box of choco's teddy anything else??
but this is what im going to do under each chocolate im going to write a note explaining y i love her, on the teddy there is going to be a poem that i wrote nd another note saying sumfing lyk ''this teddy is for u to hold wen im not there at night'' and im going to get her fav song nd dvd nd spend the rest of the night with her in my arms.
do u lot think this will be a v day she wont eva forget??
is it a gd idea??
did i miss anything??

2007-02-05 00:16:45 · 5 answers · asked by kezz247 2