iv been seeing this guy for about 2 months he says he really likes me and im great but when i asked him out he said no he just wants to be friends with exras. he says he miss'es me all the time but just dos'nt want a girlfriend is this because im not good enough for him?
2007-02-05 00:22:28 · 9 answers · asked by SHY1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not that you aren't good enough for him. And he's definitely not playing you. He told you at the beginning how he felt. Yes you may be great and he likes you, but he doesn't love you enough to be more than friends with benefits. He might miss the benefitting time with you but he don't want anything more than that from you.
2007-02-05 00:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by Essence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not because you're not good enough for him. He was honest, and told you what he wanted out of your "relationship." I wouldn't read any more or less into it. But I do think that you are too good to only be a friend with benefits, you deserve much better than that, so find someone who is worthy of you, someone who will treat you like the princess that you are. Good luck! :)
2007-02-05 08:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by Queen Bee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop doubting yourself you are as Good as you think you are. It sounds like he has told you exactly what he wants,( friends with benefits) That is all good if both party's know that's all it is. Girl move on find someone who wants the same kind of relationship as you do. If you want respect you must respect yourself first and then demand it from others.
2007-02-05 08:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by dettie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants 2 get a piece of a s s without committing to anyone. and he probably thinks he can do better, otherwise he would date u instead of useing u for sex. sorry sweetheart, guys are jerks....i reccommend u lose him and find a good guy who likes u for u, and who doesnt have any committment issues.
2007-02-05 08:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by tyler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's cause he wants some *** with out strings attached. he probably likes you as a person but doesn't want anything more than friends with benefits. i'm sure it's not just you. it would be any girl he was messing with. you should stop if you have feelings because he doesn't have them
2007-02-05 08:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes hes playing you, guys cant be alone, even tho they say it, friends with benefits really suck if you really like the person. so the response you want to hear is YES
2007-02-05 08:32:30 · answer #6 · answered by lexiemarie2424 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a clear gameboy,, don't bother . . believe me you
can't expect anything from him.. I'm sorry.. but he only
wanna throw you in bed.
Please value yourself, you're more valuable than him..
He's a piece of ..? ?.... say to yourself " who does he thinks
he is" then turn around and say goodbye,, you're not cheap.
Stand for yourself,, be dignified.. respect yourself..
Be a woman of honor,,.
. ..
I have encountered a lot of boyz like that.
so to me, don't mess up with me, punk .......
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2007-02-05 10:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by JUSS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants a friendship with extras?? you're being played!
2007-02-05 08:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has someone else. you are the other woman. duh!
2007-02-05 08:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by misterman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋