Singles & Dating - 24 January 2007

Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 2 years, the last two years have kinda been bumpy ( off and on) the big problem is one of the times i broke up with him was because he had lied to me about alot of stuff like drugs and going out to his friends houses and choosing to lie to me when he knows i don't care if he goes and see's and hangs out with his friends. Well the day i broke up with him he he tryed screwing my best friend who he had already slept with way before we started dating,Could this mean something? Iv takin him back because i do love him and im willing to work any thing out to be with him, but could that mean any thing? And does it sound like im fighting a loosing battle or trying to hard or what Does that mean maby he wants his old fling.... Im so lost some advice please....

2007-01-24 15:23:56 · 5 answers · asked by Sweetie 1

at the same time?

2007-01-24 15:22:27 · 6 answers · asked by fallin64 1

It's like they want the man to continue doing all the things he did to sweep them off their feet. (occasionally get flowers, rub her feet, go out to get her favorite midnight snack, EVEN watch lifetime with her,etc.) But then they stop keeping up their appearance (wears the rattiest pajamas, non-matching under garment EVERYDAY; where before she wore sexy pajamas and lingerie.), won't cook but once a week ( where before it's like 3 -4 times a week) , Stops looking out for her man ( Example: going to the grocery store, but won't offer to pick you up anything at the grocery store), her nurturing ability (affection) is cut way down along with the "Special Attention"!

Women say they want a great man, but don't know how to treat a great man because they are used to junk-minded men!

2007-01-24 15:21:06 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3

I have been seeing the same guy for 3 years now and when we first met I told him I wanted to be in a relationship with him and he said he would be a bad boyfriend for me but lately he has been acting like he wants to be with me. For example when I told him I might be moving out of state he said" No dont go stay here with me" and it has just been little things like that. I still want to be with him, should I tell him or should I ignore the clues he is throughing out there to me and leave him alone.

2007-01-24 15:18:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-24 15:18:44 · 13 answers · asked by Mysterious 4

my ex-girl broke up with me last week. i said some really mean things that i didn't mean. we spoke today on the phone and i apologized. but, she said she still doesn't want to be with me because i will never change. every chance i get to talk to her on the phone i try to see if we can work things out but i keep getting the "no its not going to work." should i just move and and let things be? or should i continue to try and try? i love her so much and i don't want to lose her.

2007-01-24 15:17:46 · 12 answers · asked by Blake 3

i met this guy in school and he invited me to his friends party so i went that friday night....we werent really dancing because we were outside the party ....after that he used to call me evryday and talk to me and look for me during school used to come over an dgive rides. i made friends with hid friends. and then i started to like him alot! he told he had a girlfriend but she didnt go to the same school . he used to flirt with me alot and now he doesnt talk to me that much i really dont know what happened and its really sad to love someone that you cannot have....1day i told that we wed meet up at the mall he said it was cool the next hour he texted me saying he couldnt cuz he was at his ladies house an dhe said "leave us alone *****"..dont get it ..so y the **** he made fallinlove with him i dont get guys! they changed fast

2007-01-24 15:16:51 · 6 answers · asked by katherineesquivel_nasa 1

2007-01-24 15:16:50 · 13 answers · asked by daydream♥believer 4

We were really looking forwards to having a baby, but ive gained some weight and i decided id rather put off having a baby and get more in touch with myself. So i started losing weight and now my husband who wanted me to lose the weight is telling me he doesnt want me to and i started tanning two days ago and hes saying that i think i look like hot shi@ and i dont i really dont. I mean im glad its coming off hella fast..and i do wanna look better hell who dont its almost summer! but i think hes really taking it out of context and now he doesnt want me to be on the diet anymore or tan. Hes wanting more now then ever to get pregnant and i dont want to no more...is it wrong if i dont tell him and i just go get an iud put in? i mean i really wana do this for me and hes making it all about him? We're both 21 and now hes saying we only have til hes 25 and then he dont want any kids...i really dont think hes being fair..?

2007-01-24 15:15:58 · 34 answers · asked by cutenwild1769 5

So i've heard that you can't really experience "love" and know the "real" meaning of love until you're in your mid 20's - an adult (out of college and in the real world) soo do you think that's true? What do you think? Define "love" in your mid 20's.

2007-01-24 15:15:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 18 and just starting out at college. I'm in the nursing program and a lot of my classmates are female. When I try to talk to some of the girls they completely ignore me or lose interest in me. On the other hand, older women in the class will talk to me (ones that look like they are my age, but they are 20-26) and they think that I am an older man too. When they find out that I am 18 they (and I am turning 19 this year) just say that I seem very mature, for my age, have a good head on my shoulders, but that I am too young to really do anything inappropriate with. I still stay friends with these women but the girls my age blow me off completely. What should I do? Just wait until I can date a more mature woman or what?

2007-01-24 15:15:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am falling in love why does it feel so good at times. And at other times make me feel so bad? Is it fear that she will not feel the same way?

2007-01-24 15:14:22 · 14 answers · asked by stevencaman 1

how come? i mean how can two cushions of fat be sexy? should i eat more donuts in that case?

2007-01-24 15:12:39 · 14 answers · asked by ♥♥♫ 3

Okay lets say a group of your friends asked you to go to a school dance,but your boyfriend isn't going should you still go or do you not go cause your boyfriend can't make it?

2007-01-24 15:11:19 · 9 answers · asked by Blue eyed girl 2

Today my ex keept asking me how i felt. Like how i felt about us. Why would she keep asking me that even after we are done? She was the one who ended it but why would she wanna know how i felt? I dont get girls, i donno if she is just messing or she is for real. Please help!!

2007-01-24 15:08:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been going out with my boyfreind for about 2 weeks now and i really want to kiss him. I am ready, but just I am a bit nervous about all the "ifs", do you have any tips?

2007-01-24 15:07:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

In college...We went to the movies just us...we talked on im allll the time....i felt like we were getting along and flirting and maybe heading toward dateing/relationship....didn't talk to her much over break we she got back we went to the movies again...but always felt like she just thought we were doing friend stuff by ourselves?? I started to like her so one night after work I took some roses over that was left over at a wedding and gave them to her....she was real surprised...I was real nervous....when i got home she im me and basically told me she wanted to be friends....kinda sucked...should i just give up or still try to go after her...if so how do i go about it?? we just went to lunch today and things are normal and not awkward but still in friend mode......

2007-01-24 15:06:58 · 14 answers · asked by jonez 1

I dont even really know this guy, he asked if he could borrow a pencil and then we just started talking. He has the cutest smile. Plus he has the really sexy intensity just hovering over him. Heres the crux, people think hes kind of wierd, and my social status is right on the edge. I caused a bit of social unrest. Should I keep talking to him or try and rebuild my dignity in the drama department?

2007-01-24 15:06:39 · 13 answers · asked by inquest 1

what's the best way to be happy - make money - have a great social life - time management - work - eat right - work out - meet someone nice?

2007-01-24 15:05:08 · 7 answers · asked by Lou 1

Alright...so here's my situation:
So first off, there's my best friend, let's call him Sam. Sam and I have been friends for years, and I've kinda been crushing on him for a while. But he was dealing with a lot of depression, and I was helping him through it, so he rejected me when I asked him out, because he wanted to work out his life before he got involved with anybody. We tell each other everything, and we share alot of common interests - like we love to ski together. Problem - he's 18, I'm 16, so he's graduated.

Second guy, let's call him Ben. I went out with him for 3 months, then we broke up, and now we're back together. He's my age and goes to my school. I love to hang out with him - I write songs, he plays the guitar, it's so much fun.

Right now I'm being torn apart. Sam just admitted that he likes me alot and is ready to be in a relationship (which is something I've dreamed of for years) but I'm with Ben right now, and I do feel a connection with him. How do I choose?

2007-01-24 15:04:31 · 9 answers · asked by skiers_dominate 1

okay so I'm in the musical at my school and in the show, my character makes out with this girl who in real life I kinda have a thing for. Rehearsal just started so we haven't gotten up to the kiss scene yet, but when it happens, what should I do?...if I kiss her lamely then she wouldn't wanna hook up outside the play, but if I go to much into it, she might think i'm taking advantage of the situation...where do I draw the line?

2007-01-24 15:04:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

she is just like me in many aspects and way of being... and i still dont know if she likes me...

2007-01-24 15:04:13 · 9 answers · asked by alonnso_00 1

At least 3 girls that I know of (one he cheated on me with when we first got 2gether 2 yrs ago) come into his work (he works at a music store) and they buy him stuff for christmas and he says they are just friends. He knows how I feel about it and I found out that the one he cheated on me with came in to visit him at work yesterday. I went a bit crazy and contacted her and the other girls too and told them basically that I would appreciate them staying away from him. He always used the excuse that he couldn't be rude and tell them they werent welcome so I actually did the dirty work for him by telling them 2 stay away.. Well, he wants to break up now and says I have no right telling him who he can and can't be friends with.. I understand that. However, no woman would allow their man to be friends with the girl they cheated on them with. The others he used to date also. Am I wrong in thinking that he ultimately chose them over me?? Was I wrong in contacting them?

2007-01-24 15:03:40 · 9 answers · asked by Misti C 1

do you guys like athletic build women? if not what do you prefer?

2007-01-24 15:02:36 · 12 answers · asked by Lauren_Ann20 5

my friends have been saying this guy has been hitting on me. if a guy is hitting on me is he most likely going to ask me out sooner or later?

2007-01-24 15:01:26 · 26 answers · asked by punkchickatheart54 2

My girlfriend for our first 5 and a 1/2 years of dating never saw her friends. I went away to college and hung out with my friends and she just sat in her house and waited for me to call. I never made her do this she just did. Anyway now she sees her friends 3 or 4 times a week and sometimes ditches me for them. I did that to her and didn't think anything of it. Now its starting to make me worry should i?

2007-01-24 15:00:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, so i been with her for a few months and i really love her and she really loves me. she wants a "break" from me to think about our relationship. she tells me i was rushing things about getting really serious, which i was, but she also says she dosent want a relationship right now. i try and give her space but she gets sad when im not with her. i think i should let her miss me and come back to me but im not sure. i love her so much. please help. thanx

2007-01-24 15:00:26 · 4 answers · asked by cubantiger23 1

2007-01-24 14:57:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend met my best friend, and said he thought she was SEXY. I got the impression that he was flirting with her, but I wasn't really sure, Then he told me that. Im scared to bring her around. What does he mean by sexy? Does that mean he is attracted to her, or would like to have sex with her? Should I just dump him and avoid being hurt? GUYS out there: would u tell your girl if you thought one of her friends was hot? or SEXY????

2007-01-24 14:57:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it me or are the boyfriend/girlfriend relationships you have in college are just soo "high school"? - they seem soo similar...It's like, "let's have lunch after class...we'll go get crunk at the party together..." i don't know...what do you think?

2007-01-24 14:57:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous