In college...We went to the movies just us...we talked on im allll the time....i felt like we were getting along and flirting and maybe heading toward dateing/relationship....didn't talk to her much over break we she got back we went to the movies again...but always felt like she just thought we were doing friend stuff by ourselves?? I started to like her so one night after work I took some roses over that was left over at a wedding and gave them to her....she was real surprised...I was real nervous....when i got home she im me and basically told me she wanted to be friends....kinda sucked...should i just give up or still try to go after her...if so how do i go about it?? we just went to lunch today and things are normal and not awkward but still in friend mode......
2007-01-24 15:06:58 · 14 answers · asked by jonez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Respect her decision in not wanting to date. Maybe she will later on. But, remain in friend-mode. You never know.
2007-01-24 15:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by Stormee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do right now is move ahead. You can still love someone or want to be with someone from afar. Let her see that you are ok with being friends and that you are moving on. For some reason women like men who are more of a challenge. Next time she wants to meet tell her you have other plans but take a raincheck. Soon she will start to wonder what is up. It's all a game and as much as it sucks ya gotta play it. Women want what they can't have. I have learned that from my own experiences. Become unavailable to her.
2007-01-24 23:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by littleredd1003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Still go after her but you need to ease into it because you have to make her like you. Just be her friend for now and then drop hints every so often letting her know you like her. Yeah she knows but after a while she may begin to like you back in the same way. Take her out on romantic dates that she could not refuse and woo her into liking you if that doesn't work then she ain't worth it. I hope it works out for you and her!!!!!
2007-01-24 23:17:27 · answer #3 · answered by pretty_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your worried about it being awkward talk to her and see how she feels now too ask her if the flowers seemed to much for a "friend" Mwe and my friends do nice things for each other all the time ...but the bottom line here is communication
2007-01-24 23:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by Christy Davies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go after her more, take small steps to show your affection towards her, im sure it'll work. If not, just confront her and tell her how you feel about her. If that doesn't, just stay very close friends and see what comes your way, Good Luck!
2007-01-24 23:14:09 · answer #5 · answered by FriskyPotato 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it as friends, maybe one day she'll see you in a different light. Until that day comes there's no reason you should sit around and wait for it to happen get out there and find a nice girl.
2007-01-24 23:13:55 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her discion even though it irritates u. Be a friend sometimes freinds become more if it is meant u will get closer again. Maybe she's trying to figure out what she wants to do.
2007-01-24 23:14:28 · answer #7 · answered by pammybear1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she said she just wanted to be friends you have to respect that dont try to be with someone who does not want to be with you.
2007-01-24 23:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should remain friends because if you keep trying, chances are you'll ruin the friendship......
2007-01-24 23:20:42 · answer #9 · answered by ez_livin2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love, i wouldnt give up on friendship .but i would back off in trien to be more. make it noticable that you have backed off. and see what happens.
2007-01-24 23:17:29 · answer #10 · answered by suzann c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋