i met this guy in school and he invited me to his friends party so i went that friday night....we werent really dancing because we were outside the party ....after that he used to call me evryday and talk to me and look for me during school used to come over an dgive rides. i made friends with hid friends. and then i started to like him alot! he told he had a girlfriend but she didnt go to the same school . he used to flirt with me alot and now he doesnt talk to me that much i really dont know what happened and its really sad to love someone that you cannot have....1day i told that we wed meet up at the mall he said it was cool the next hour he texted me saying he couldnt cuz he was at his ladies house an dhe said "leave us alone *****"..dont get it ..so y the **** he made fallinlove with him i dont get guys! they changed fast
2007-01-24 15:16:51 · 6 answers · asked by katherineesquivel_nasa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course. DUH.
2007-01-24 15:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you are young . He is just using you as a toy when she is not around . This is one of those lessons you learn from the school of hard knocks.
Yes a guy and a girl can love 2 people at the same time . I have done it but shame on the person who plays the 2 others. Hearts are nothing to mess with. You can love them both but there is always the one you love more than the other.Don't let him play you and more than that don't let yourself be played.
2007-01-24 15:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, eventually that guy is going to do something that gets either himself or someone that he does actually care about hurt. then he will wise up. maybe he did with you. but you are still very very young. experiencing these things for the first time. you learn your manners and etiquette to avoid such confusion in the future. it wouldnt hurt to let him know how you feel. but also be careful because hes just a dumb kid too. If you are discipllined in your stance and telling him off then he will learn a valuable lesson. Trust me, a guy his age needs it and the sooner the better. That is the most love you can give him. Not to indulge. And grow a bit. It doesnt have to be all negative. A guy that age would fall in love with a knot hole in a fence.
2016-05-24 06:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi katherineesquivel_nasa,
It sounds sort of like he was just being friends with you, Katherine. How about talking to one of his friends to find out what's going on? If they are now your friends, maybe they can tell you what's going on.
It sounds like this guy was up front with you about the other girl friend. Was he making any moves on you? You didn't say. Maybe you need to fall in love with someone else.
Best of luck to you, and happy hunting.
--Rick
2007-01-24 15:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he had a GF. He shouldn't have been flirting with you in the first place.
He lead you on...he wanted his cake and to eat it too.
Find another man, if he would do that to his current GF, than he will do it to you, if you are together.
Look for a more respectable man.
2007-01-24 15:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, already
2007-01-26 10:19:23 · answer #6 · answered by Homayoun D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋