my ex-girl broke up with me last week. i said some really mean things that i didn't mean. we spoke today on the phone and i apologized. but, she said she still doesn't want to be with me because i will never change. every chance i get to talk to her on the phone i try to see if we can work things out but i keep getting the "no its not going to work." should i just move and and let things be? or should i continue to try and try? i love her so much and i don't want to lose her.
2007-01-24 15:17:46 · 12 answers · asked by Blake 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you try too hard, she will continue to push away.. She knows she has you if she wants you back at her terms. So give her some air. Tell her you miss her and your sorry, but you understand her decision to separate from you. She will be back with you if your a stand up guy. Just don't abuse her anymore with words if you really care about her. You won't get too many chances. Good luck
2007-01-24 15:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by Vindicatedfather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur sweet to can trying. But u have done all u can do and said all u can say to her, so just leave it alone, and move on. The next time u talk with her tell her that ur not gonna bug her anymore about trying to get back with her and that ur just gonna move on with your life and wish her well in hers. Once she hears this it's gonna eithr make her realize that she has lose u and that might make her feel hurt and she'll come around or she will continue to act the way she's acting and thats not good. So move on sweetie, she's not the only girl.
She might like that face that ur trying to get her back, so with that u should not keep trying so once she know ur moving on it will bug her that ur not trying anymore.
What do u want sweetie? do u want to move on to a happy relationship or stay with someone who keeps turning u down and hurting u
2007-01-24 15:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i admire that you actually tried to make things better, unlike most guys! lol but if she doesn't even want to try, then what's the point of even trying to get her back. Like if you do get back together, she's just going to do the same thing, or just lose interest. If she is so determined to not be with you, you shouldn't want to be with her. I hope things work out, or you move on and find a girl you love even more, that loves you back!! GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-01-24 15:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by fun-lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how your feeling. I'm just getting over my girl and we've been dating for over a year. I didn't do anything wrong for her to want a break up. She just took a three week vacation to california and came back sending me an e-mail saying she wanted to break up. I didn't get a reason or anything and she really doesn't have to give one although i think she should but there's nowhere in the law saying she has to. So i tried calling her or seeing her like twice then she hits me with a restraining order. Just cut your lost and move on. If she wants you she'll come to you. Just keep that in mind.
2007-01-24 15:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by jedm87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone for now. Nothing is worse than having someone pester you about getting back together. In the mean time you might want to send flowers just to let her know you are thinking of her. But don't call her. Let her call you. She's going to be wondering why you haven't called her and be honest. Tell her you don't want to push her but it hurts to talk to her because you can't be with her. But leave it at that. NO BEGGING!!!!!
2007-01-24 15:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by littleredd1003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, trust me. Been there before. I know it seems like she means the world to you, we've all had that. The hard part is letting go. Try to just leave it be, she might miss you, she might not. But your going to have to let her go, sooner or later, but better sooner. She needs some time alone. To let things cool. People change, its just us. She liked you before, she might like you again. In the mean time let her go, its for whats best, sorry to say it man.
- The Date Doctor Robert
2007-01-24 15:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by Robinhood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should stop trying for now and reflect on the reason(s) you broke up. She's not listening to your words. Actions speak louder. Learn your lessons. Respect yourself enough to behave in a way you feel is respectable whether or not you win your girl back. Do it for you and others (perhaps she) will respect you too.
2007-01-24 15:28:47 · answer #7 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please provide greater advice, like what's between the justifications that she is getitng mad at you. I ask this by way of fact she could be attempting to get your attension. If she does not have all people, she thinks your going to leave her, so she is only attempting to make it greater effective to your leaving. She might experience deep down that she needs you to stay, yet by way of subjects she is having, she feels that it extremely is protecting you back by way of fact your having to placed up along with her ****. provide it a while, how long has this been happening? How long have you ever all properly-known one yet another? wish this helps slightly mike
2016-12-16 12:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, she's not interested any more. You will find someone else. I know it hurts right now, but it will get better once you find someone new and see their beautiful smiling face.
2007-01-24 15:22:12 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got it on yourself. Just let it go. If you love her just let it go.
2007-01-24 15:21:33 · answer #10 · answered by evanesheaven1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋