I have been seeing the same guy for 3 years now and when we first met I told him I wanted to be in a relationship with him and he said he would be a bad boyfriend for me but lately he has been acting like he wants to be with me. For example when I told him I might be moving out of state he said" No dont go stay here with me" and it has just been little things like that. I still want to be with him, should I tell him or should I ignore the clues he is throughing out there to me and leave him alone.
2007-01-24 15:18:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to tell him that you are in the midst of making a HUGE decision and him playing with your mind isn't helping that matter. Tell him that he needs to be honest right away, because you don't have the time to play games!
If he said he wouldn't be a good boyfriend, it sounds like a cop out on a relationship... Like it was an excuse if he wanted to be butt**** whenever he felt like it. Do you really want someone like that, or has he changed?! Best of luck, girl!
2007-01-24 15:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by Heidi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him at all? I mean if you do then dont ignore him. Let him in your heart. He obviousley likes you. When I guy begs you not to leave the state, he likes you... lol... Just see what happens after you guys hang out for a while. Good Luck!
2007-01-24 23:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by FriskyPotato 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
after three years....looks like he just want to be friends. A friend would say something like..dont leave me. that does not necessarily mean he likes you. Looks like just friends with him.
2007-01-24 23:23:03 · answer #3 · answered by justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After three years he should know..it shouldn't take him losing you for him to see what he has.. oh Lord
2007-01-24 23:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 years and he doesnt want you...wow...what a waste of time girl.
2007-01-24 23:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by evanesheaven1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya man tell him. what you want out of life. if he loves you he will go for it. so go on tell him
2007-01-24 23:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him
2007-01-24 23:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he can't have his cake and eat it too.
2007-01-24 23:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by Sheena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel dont hide it no matter how scared you may be because you just might find wat you are looking for but i say you should tell him
2007-01-24 23:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by megan_wtrs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM NOW!!!!!!!!
2007-01-24 23:22:27 · answer #10 · answered by doctorhector 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋