Singles & Dating - 23 January 2007

I have only slept with one person and that was my ex fiance who i was with for 6 years. i ended the relationship 8 months ago for a number of reasons.

i am now going out and having fun.

this may sound silly, but im too scared to get intimate with any other guy as ive only been with my ex. its not that i dont want too but its cause ive only been with one guy.

what can i do to get over this??

2007-01-23 01:41:10 · 24 answers · asked by XCuteX 1

I think it's knowing yourself and who you are as I feel you can't really achieve anything else important without that under you.
What do you think?

2007-01-23 01:39:14 · 39 answers · asked by T M 3

but I haven't been able to find it!!!

2007-01-23 01:36:38 · 11 answers · asked by annabanana 2

2007-01-23 01:35:37 · 15 answers · asked by Trish S 3

2007-01-23 01:35:25 · 1 answers · asked by christy 5

was with a guy who wouldnt settle for the title but we did everything as a bf and gf k inda we were together but not i was "off limits but not taken" quote on quote of him. we had some serious fire and when things were good with us they were great. when they were bad they were miserable.
So one night when things were bad I went out with some girls and met this guy that was seriously instantaneous attractiion and every night we have sat and had tea and talk for hours i can see a huge future with this man possibly THE man.
and the old guy comes around this morning saying how much he loves me and that he will settle for commitment as long as I come back....?

go back to an old flame
or hurt the old flame and stay with the new?

mind you I know I love him. But i know my gut and everyone around me has been telling me to get away from him for months now that he is going to never change.

but thing is i have seen him change over months when i met him he was an alcoholic...

2007-01-23 01:33:28 · 12 answers · asked by canthearu12 1

2007-01-23 01:32:37 · 24 answers · asked by big D 1

2007-01-23 01:32:18 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1

2007-01-23 01:29:44 · 10 answers · asked by remonraziz 1

Am 22 n lived in the same town all my life, i have visited all places all over the uk and also a few different countrys... I have family in Cornwall, Falmouth and of all the places iv ever been when am there i feel complete.. I no it sounds cheesey but am ssooo happy when am there for all sorts of reasons.. Iv thought of moving down there but i have a full time job,lovely flat, friends and family here that u just cant risk losing.. I dont have a boyfriend at the moment and id love to meet a nice cornish man so he could wisk me away... lol.. just feel like am incomplete and in the wrong place...

2007-01-23 01:29:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-23 01:28:20 · 23 answers · asked by Queen of the Stone Age 3

she is a year older than me. Smile at me,talk with me on the phone and send me sms. But i have not ever asked her out!! :) Does she love me?

2007-01-23 01:26:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

what would you do if you found out your man was talking to other woman. and trying to get iwth them and you are pergnet. someone please help me. We been together for 3 years.

2007-01-23 01:26:44 · 16 answers · asked by Babygirl 1

I have this lesbian stalking me..by the name of LINKI and she's going through my Q's and A's..insulting me..
doesn't she have better things to do than go through my private stuff!
how do I tell her to FU CK off?

2007-01-23 01:26:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-23 01:26:16 · 7 answers · asked by icy_cool 1

A drop dead gorgeous female who is lazy in bed.

A plain female who is just o-k in bed.

OR

A not so attractive female who can do things to you that blows your mind.

2007-01-23 01:25:21 · 4 answers · asked by firefly 5

im 14 1/2 and he is 18 (he a good one) we been together since november 16 2006 and every since that day i been happy and confused about alot.i asked him a very important question about sex before marriage and he gave da anwser i wanted and meant it.he tell me he loves me and i defintley do love him to but sometimes i dont know wat to do really because im afraid that when my mom finds out we are together and age differnce.then he say he want me but im to slow idk wat exactly he mean.then he say i dont show i care about him but i do really what should i do because this boy has my heart and i must say i love help me plz guide me through a good path thank you in advance

2007-01-23 01:21:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

...if u didnt really mean it?

2007-01-23 01:21:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Your brain controls everything you do... eat, sleep, read, watch tv, etc, right? Why can't we control what we are thinking. I like this guy so much, and I really miss him. I found out a week ago that I will never see or hear from him, ever again! It hurts so bad to think about. I have to tell myself over and over... never, never, never, because it is so hard for me to even grasp. I try not to think about him, because I am sure he doesn't think about me, but I can't! I feel pathetically obsessed, and I am not usually the type of person obsess over someone like this. Why can't I just push it out of my mind?

2007-01-23 01:20:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i met this guy last weekend and we ahve been chatting throught the week. I like him and he has asked me to meet him at the pub. Iam really nervous as like i said i really like him..... so i was wondering if u guys could give me any hints as to wat to wear, how to act etc to win him over!

2007-01-23 01:20:20 · 13 answers · asked by minkpink88 1

2007-01-23 01:18:16 · 17 answers · asked by Bianca 1

I'm kinda enduring an awkward situation at work. One of my closest guy friends works at the same place as I do and I began to develop feelings for him though he has a gf. I told him I liked him and I felt it was best that we ignore each other for awhile so I can get over him. Anyway he asked me if I wanted to hook up with him, i said i did, but then he said i should do it with another guy I like. Anyway during all of this, I got mad at him for jerking my feelings around and I ended up calling him a dog, but then I apologized. The thing is I said all of this via text. The next day I wrote him a letter saying how sorry I was for how I acted, and that it was better that we treat each other as professionals since he has a gf and I need to move on. The thing is that he ignored me. So far, we've been ignoring each other for the past 3 weeks and now it is awkward and i miss talking to him sometimes. Whenever we pass each other it is awkward. What should I do?

2007-01-23 01:17:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

How long should a guy bleed for a lady's Love.What is the best way to make her see reality of things,

I feel I am losing out my chances After 7 years of my trust

2007-01-23 01:16:16 · 4 answers · asked by Tangle 1

I met her two days ago. My good friend introduced me to his girlfrend end her friend (the ONE!) i one coffe shop. I was sitting beside her and my friend was occupied with his new love...So we started to talk. And.... We talked for two hours. We could stop watching each other and everybody notised that, even the people around us. That kind of things are not so hard to tell, you agree? This girl is the most beautiful thing that happened to me for years. I was smiling so long that i had pain in my face.... Of course there is "BUT".

But.... She has a relationship since highschool. I will talk to her, i must do that because I felt something very strong betwenn us. I think she also felt that, because, she left without saying me "Goodbuy" or "nice to meet you", even she told that to my friend. I was confused. What do you think?

2007-01-23 01:16:10 · 5 answers · asked by johnny 1

2007-01-23 01:16:09 · 17 answers · asked by Bianca 1

2007-01-23 01:15:11 · 2 answers · asked by fattybread_252 1

im taking me ex back after he left me after 3 yrs together, we been apart for almost 2 mnths and has said he made a terrible mistake and wants me back, i worshiped him wen we were together but im confused beacuse i know i want to be with him, and it would kill me to see him with someone else, but i cant help feeling as tho im making a mistake and everytime i see him and he dont say something lovini feel he aint trying hard enough and makes me feel i should forget the whole thing, but i cant because i want to be with him. how do you decide what is what i really feel??

2007-01-23 01:14:05 · 25 answers · asked by sweetness 3

Yesterday morning me and my bf argued.But it wasn't so long.Then he said 'My maths exam was bad because of our fight.'..Then he started to say 'leave me alone, be away from me etc. etc. etc.' And he said 'I was always alone, now I need to be alone too' I really hurt.They were so unfair and mean words..Now he doesn't phone me..No, we didn't break up but..I don't know what to do..I can't stand it..I never wanted to hurt him or make him bad at his lessons..

Now, what do u recommend?..Should I phone him or wait? If he says sorry, should I forgive him after all that mean words?

2007-01-23 01:13:25 · 6 answers · asked by Irmak 7

2007-01-23 01:12:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

iv been dating my bf for about 5 months now and for the past week hes been being a major prick. iv not been in the best mood because of personal problems but he would flip out on me for really no reason. he always used 2 care about what was wrong w/ me but now he just cares about himself. i love him 2 death and i dont want 2 break up with him but everytime we fight it kills me and i come closer and closer 2 doing something stupid and life threatoning. idk wut to do anymore.

2007-01-23 01:10:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous