iv been dating my bf for about 5 months now and for the past week hes been being a major prick. iv not been in the best mood because of personal problems but he would flip out on me for really no reason. he always used 2 care about what was wrong w/ me but now he just cares about himself. i love him 2 death and i dont want 2 break up with him but everytime we fight it kills me and i come closer and closer 2 doing something stupid and life threatoning. idk wut to do anymore.
2007-01-23 01:10:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because you love him to death doesn't mean he feels the same about you. You need to break up with this guy 'cause he's not making you feel good about yourself. You don't need help for that. I'd say get rid of him and let him do whatever he wants with someone else. What are you holding on to if he doesn't love you?
2007-01-23 01:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath in, then breathe out real slow. Do it again a couple of times.
Now, -- you are an individual human being, not a planet around this guy. Develop your own existence and self respect, and your relationship with other people (including him) should improve.
Be curious about the world and take an interest in school, put personal relationships on the back burner for a month or two, and you'll feel a lot better about yourself.
Good luck!
2007-01-23 01:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by Sophie G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"i come closer and closer 2 doing something stupid and life threatoning" Does this mean he is so bad he is driving you to suicide or are you thinking of doing something to him? Obviously despite how you feel about him this relationship is doing neither of you any good and is quite self-destructive. Either get him to shape up or ship him out. Why put up with a relationship which is making you feel like this?
2007-01-23 01:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See... If you are in an idea to have a long term relationship then do select a person who love for you and who care for you.. Don't select a person who tries to avoid you.. Cuz now he has changed his mind it seems.. There might be some reason for that too.. So be careful and cautious. If you don't really wanna miss him then make sure that he loves you and try to bring the feel in him what you have.. All the best..
2007-01-23 01:16:51 · answer #4 · answered by prince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should confront him about it. Take him somewhere nice and try to work things out. Don't just blurt out something like, "why are you being such a prick?" but more along the lines of, "I've noticed you haven't been in a very good mood lately, what's wrong?" Be nice, and maybe he'll come around!
2007-01-23 01:16:00 · answer #5 · answered by Arya T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try talking to him about the problems you are facing and tell him that you love him and need his support right now. If he doesn't understand that, then it may be time to move on to some one who will listen but, please by all means don't take the life threating route.
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2007-01-23 01:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by YSP 2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you will let him cross your line to make you feel that way. You should not. Push him away from your line and give it more space and start to think if your life is that important to you. I think you are not in health relationship with him. Its not that worth to you. Now dump him and be single for a while, who knows someone will come in your life and make you happy ever.
2007-01-23 01:15:44 · answer #7 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop being a ***** to him and maybe give him more in the relationship like sex u havent given him anything. I know this because im ur best friend. He should stop flippin on u after that.
2007-01-23 01:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy Blonde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave his sorry ***......You'll be much Happier in life* Who needs someone to put you down and not care what you're feeling or going through........IF he only cares for himself........let him be with "himself".
You may think* you love him........but love is a two way street.....give and take.......equally* this sounds One Sided to me*
Eventually he'll leave you in the dust .......don't allow him to have his cake and eat it to. MOVE ON WITHOUT HIM*
2007-01-23 01:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to call a therapist. You also need to sit down with
you boyfriend and talk sensibly about the situation. It may be
time for the two of you to call it quits.
2007-01-23 01:17:29 · answer #10 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋