Yesterday morning me and my bf argued.But it wasn't so long.Then he said 'My maths exam was bad because of our fight.'..Then he started to say 'leave me alone, be away from me etc. etc. etc.' And he said 'I was always alone, now I need to be alone too' I really hurt.They were so unfair and mean words..Now he doesn't phone me..No, we didn't break up but..I don't know what to do..I can't stand it..I never wanted to hurt him or make him bad at his lessons..
Now, what do u recommend?..Should I phone him or wait? If he says sorry, should I forgive him after all that mean words?
2007-01-23 01:13:25 · 6 answers · asked by Irmak 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want him, then you have to wait till he realize that you were been waiting for him, but hey try make it limitied, like if you been waiting for him a week then you have to inform him as serious way that you were leavin him alone as he wanted that. But he should know better that you are part of his life and he should not say that to you. If you have email, great, type everything how you felt about what he said to you then send to him after a week if he didnt contact you. You have to be serious about it or you just let it flow and pull you down badly.
2007-01-23 01:18:11 · answer #1 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he says sorry, forgive him. But I think you should phone him and apologize. Even if you didn't do anything wrong. Tell him how much you love and miss him, and how sorry you are. Maybe buy him something he's wanted for a while, or something you know he would like. Guys are alittle confusing sometimes, but if you give them time, and let them cool off, it will go nicely. Give him a couple days, and call him!
2007-01-23 09:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by Arya T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like both of you could use a little time out. For the moment, concentrate on yourself and give him the space he is requesting. Set him free...if he comes back yada yada yada. I'd say about a week. If he doesn't call you in a week then he moved on. Good Luck - hope it works out the way you want it to.
2007-01-23 09:19:25 · answer #3 · answered by flsuave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EVERYTHING we do in life is a LESSON! Learn and understand that everything you do has reactions.....some good some bad. I know you hurt. How would you handle this situation if you had a husband and 3 kids?
Please understand to choose your battles WISELY yes, I would forgive him while seeing how he responds to your forgiveness.
We have all said stupid stuff.....SO WHAT WORD is left except I'm sorry.
2007-01-23 09:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by BKN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should leave this guy and let him do his studies if they mean more to him then you, tell him you will leave him alone permanently in order for him to study if he tries to stop and work things out then you can go from there if not then its better that way
2007-01-23 09:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by tiny g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he can say these mean things to someone he suppose to care about what else could he do. i would worry about my school and forget him and sometime in your life you will find the right one who can treat you good and respect you and is able to talk instead of say mean and hatefull things to you. just move on he may someday get mad and hit you
2007-01-23 09:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋