I met her two days ago. My good friend introduced me to his girlfrend end her friend (the ONE!) i one coffe shop. I was sitting beside her and my friend was occupied with his new love...So we started to talk. And.... We talked for two hours. We could stop watching each other and everybody notised that, even the people around us. That kind of things are not so hard to tell, you agree? This girl is the most beautiful thing that happened to me for years. I was smiling so long that i had pain in my face.... Of course there is "BUT".
But.... She has a relationship since highschool. I will talk to her, i must do that because I felt something very strong betwenn us. I think she also felt that, because, she left without saying me "Goodbuy" or "nice to meet you", even she told that to my friend. I was confused. What do you think?
2007-01-23 01:16:10 · 5 answers · asked by johnny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Our conversation was very wide. We talked about our families, our jobs about everything. We were strangers talking about very intimate things. We talked about our biggest mistakes, and everything that you normally dont say to a totally strange person. She also said something like :" I normally dont speak so much, I must be boring". But she isnt.
2007-01-23 01:47:38 · update #1
You said she's had a relationship since high school. So, is she still in high school, college, out of school? How long they've been together is going to count for a lot here. I've they've together for years then she's going to feel more invested in her relationship and may be less willing to give him to take a chance on a new relationship that might not work. I say, be honest with her about how you feel. Tell her you would like to be more than friends, but would settle on friends if she's comfortable with that. Aside from that, be patient. Things might work out for you or you might end up meeting someone else. You never know!
2007-01-23 01:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How are you so sure she was not trying to impress you for her friends sake? Since she has a boyfriend, chances of her getting to you are pretty bleak. Did she give you a hint about her liking you or something? Why do you think she mentioned about her boyfriend to you? any clue? Stay with her for as log as possible. Girls get pretty confused with boys when they are with her. so maybe you should keep seeing her for long , which would make her understand your strong feelings and make her question herself if she can afford to leave her boyfriend for you. Wait till you meet each other again. you will know if she is there for you are her friend.
2007-01-23 09:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by vengayu_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She left without a word to you because she already realized that she likes you but she has a boyfriend and it made her really bad. So leave her to be because it will kill her. She didnt want that way, i am sure she feels bad for you because she can't leave him for you. There are nothing for you to do and don't try to do something.
2007-01-23 09:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most of the time high school relationships do not work out. But tell her how you feel, I mean nothing may come of it, but at least she knows it is out there.
2007-01-23 09:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by H-Dizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk 2 her more and find out more about her and let her get 2 know u more, then if u 2 r really right for eachother shell leave her hs bf and find u
2007-01-23 09:23:49 · answer #5 · answered by dumb brunette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋