I'm kinda enduring an awkward situation at work. One of my closest guy friends works at the same place as I do and I began to develop feelings for him though he has a gf. I told him I liked him and I felt it was best that we ignore each other for awhile so I can get over him. Anyway he asked me if I wanted to hook up with him, i said i did, but then he said i should do it with another guy I like. Anyway during all of this, I got mad at him for jerking my feelings around and I ended up calling him a dog, but then I apologized. The thing is I said all of this via text. The next day I wrote him a letter saying how sorry I was for how I acted, and that it was better that we treat each other as professionals since he has a gf and I need to move on. The thing is that he ignored me. So far, we've been ignoring each other for the past 3 weeks and now it is awkward and i miss talking to him sometimes. Whenever we pass each other it is awkward. What should I do?
2007-01-23 01:17:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep ignoring him. I think his feelings are clear by ignoring you. It'll just get messy if you keep trying. Cut your losses. Surely there is someone more deserving of your attention out there. Good luck.
2007-01-23 01:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by doggiemom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple stratedgy. Next time you pass him in the halls tell him exactly that. Say, "Iam sorry you feel the need to ignore me, but I suppose you needed your time too." Let me know when you are ready to re-establish a freindship, take all the time you need."
Give it a few days for him to respond, if that, if you do reestablish a relationship let him know that the past is the past and your conversations need to be about present events, not what happened 3 wks ago. But stay at arms length and proceed with caution. Do not get caught in the trap again, it will eventually cost one or both of you your jobs.
2007-01-23 01:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by LisaLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play his card and ignore him as well and make more friends not to get at him, just genuine friends and after a while ask him a simple question u wld anyone else if he still ignores u then let him go hung all da best.
2007-01-23 01:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by Naughty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to move on b/c he is not the only person on Earth just get over him and live yo life don't be goin around wastin yo time on folks like that
2007-01-23 01:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by Cherri09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go, you are just making yourself miserable.
2007-01-23 01:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by barb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋