Singles & Dating - 16 January 2007

If there is mutual respect and honor?

2007-01-16 22:33:58 · 1 answers · asked by itry007 4

I'm 16 and I've been sleeping wiht my mums ex boyfriend who is 46 but its all very hush hush as he has children older than me. Now my period is 2 weeks late, I feel sick and my boobs hurt so I can only assume I am pregnant.
I have a really good job starting soon at the end of january and if I am I might have to turn it down and its a really good opportunity.
I have started renting a house off a relative with my friend and I'm not going o be able to pay for it.
I can't tell my mum or dad as if they find out who the baby's is they will kill me.
He's not a pervert sex is legal in this country at 16. I really love him and want to be with him but I can't as he would leave round here if I am pregnant. I really don't know what to do please help.

2007-01-16 22:32:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

this my freind wanna ask this ?
she marreid and have one dughter (age 10month)
on her 1st night of marrieg she said about her past love life to her hubby he has been behaved very understandingway n said to her that past is gone so he have no prob with that but he loves her want live happily his marreid life with her but know he started douting on her and he use to beat her up for no reason like when her mom or sis or any of her family member use to visit to see her he beats her up thinking that may be they might brought any message of her past lover she said her hubby that she dont even look at that guy but he cant trust her
he didnt even let her go to her fathers funeral
know her pas lover is willing to marry her but she is saying no to him as she wanna take care of her dsughter
her hubby is not bothed to ask her to come bake home when she left his house when his mother was touchering her
everyone is saying her to go to her hubby but her hubby dont even care for her or daughter

2007-01-16 22:29:46 · 4 answers · asked by shabana o 2

I've liked a guy for over a yr now...finally got him to go out with me to the movies last time...and during the movie i held his hand but he didn't really respond by holdin my hand back neither did he let go...he agreed to go to another movie with me...this is gonna b second movie...would it be too early to ask him how he feel about me? i've told him i've liked him a few months ago... should i wait for him to make a move this time? i dunno if he likes me...but if he knows i like him and he's still agreein to go out to the movies with me, does that mean he likes me a bit at least?

2007-01-16 22:29:16 · 6 answers · asked by Forever happy 3

I LOVE HAVING A BOY FRIEND, BUT NOT FROM MY COUNTRY.PERSONEL DETAIL;HEIGHT 6.1FT ,CHOCOLATE IN COMPLETION,UNDERGRADUATE. WHAT SHALL I DO TO MAKE MY DREAMS COME TO PASS. I NEED SUGESTIONS, PLS HELP .I DON'T HAVE ACCESS TO TRAVEL OUT NOW.

2007-01-16 22:26:31 · 6 answers · asked by Obioma E 1

I'm 30+ and he's 20+ older than me. I live here in Philippines and he's from U.S.A.. we used to talked(thru computer/with cam) 2 times a day, after a year become once a day coz he said i shouldn't be tired bec i'm studying, so i understand him, but then after a year and 8months things have change.. i know he loves me coz he's always there even were miles and miles apart. i asked him if theres someone new atleast letme know, but he said hes not looking, theres nothing to worry about, ilet him know that not seeing him one day seems to me forever.. and not seeing him a week seems the end of the world...he change for awhile and there here we go again... not seeing him again.. he was tired i undersand that bec of the time diffrent... i dont know what to do... gezzz.. i don't even know what i wanna asked here....

2007-01-16 22:24:49 · 3 answers · asked by the choosen1 2

Is my relationship ending? I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we live together. I'm not sure he was ready for the move because it wasn't something we talked about, it was because of a situation I was having at home. Anyway, I constantly catch him on craigslist looking at their personals site and I've confronted him about it. He tells me that he just wants to see what's out there. I told him that if he continues looking at the site then I was leaving. Recently, I caught him looking again. Does he even care? He tells me he loves me but he does stuff like look at personal sites and stuff. Then when I talk about our future, he starts "joking around" saying we're not getting married or having kids. what should I do? I love him but i'm looking for someone I can have a future with. Someone please help!

2007-01-16 22:24:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think my boyfriend got a bad attidude with me
lst night i could reach the cats biscuits so i asked him to help me
he was talking on skype with i don't mind it gives me some peace from him
and he said you just called me up just to get these buscuits what are you jeaulous or some thing
then his aunty was around and i thought he was asking me and he said what do you want to go town for
i said i need to go bank
and he said i not just talking to you all the time
what should i do
he says i got a bad attidude and i am selfish
it the way he speaks to me he talks to me like **** and i getting sick of he family coming round and he think he is mr superman or something please help
and some kids was outside getting drunk i was alsleep at the time and he said they was drunk but he said your mates was drunk
but i only know there brother so someone who i know and mates are a differnt thing right ?
sorry about my grammer

2007-01-16 22:21:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently I have been given the opportunity to work things out with my childs mother. We have both been trying hard and we are very close to being together. I told her that I didn't want to have sex with her until we are together as Im afraid my emotions will run wild and I don't want to get hurt if something happens in which we don't end up being with eachother. I know she wants to have sex with me but I honestly want to build our relationship so that its unbreakable...what should I do? What do you think?

2007-01-16 22:20:53 · 10 answers · asked by Ghost 2

Why is it a guy can sleep with as many women/girls they like but when a women/girl does it she is called a s**t? The reason I ask is I have a friend who likes me more then a friend and he asked how many guys I have slept with, when I told him he said I was a s**t. Its only 2 guys!! Any way he has slept with over 15 women/girls and he thinks thats ok....what the hell? Please explain!!

2007-01-16 22:18:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im having trouble thinking straight at the mo and Im regreting a lot of things already and Im only 19! I wanted to go away to uni, but I stayed here becuase of a boyfriend which I have now split from. I cant afford to go now so im stuck somewhere I dont want to be. I also wanted to move away to make new mates. My mates have different interests to me and I feel as if I want to make new ones and Im frustrated becuase I dont live in halls. This is probably so rediculas but its how im feeling. I need to geta life I think and wake up beucase there are plenty of people worse off then me.

2007-01-16 22:17:59 · 4 answers · asked by lozziebach 1

This happened some six years ago. I always ate over noon with this girl who was from the same rural area as me (we went to school in the bigger city). Her friend joined us regularly and one day she said she had feelings for me. Now of course I know what she meant, but back then I didn't. I was just seventeen-eighteen years old back then. So I told her I didn't understood and all that, and a little later she said those feelings were gone because she said she heard something about me (people thought i was racist back then, but they were wrong, I am a socialist and hate racists, but that's beside the point) but the only mutual friend we had was that girl we ate with. A little later I sent her friend an email stating I was looking for her (the one that had feelings for me) and I got a reply from her that she was felt good about me not having forgotten her, and she thought I'd never look for her that way and thought I'd forgot her. What would you've done when you had the chance ?

2007-01-16 22:15:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let's say you ladies hook up with a guy and want to see him again. Do you make the call the next day to let him know this was not just a one night stand or wait for him to call?

What if he doesn't call you?

2007-01-16 22:13:35 · 6 answers · asked by Jamal J 1

beauty is in teh eye of the beholder....you find someone attractive no one else does it's just something about them that you really like and you really cant explain it?

2007-01-16 22:10:45 · 9 answers · asked by CJL18 1

say I meet some guys on the net and then start to going out with a couple of them, up to what stage I should say "ok, this is getting further ahead in a relationship so I can only date one person" ??? I mean prior to kissing .
having a very conservative background and now knowing I have to be open-minded about certain things, am not sure where is the boundary. most my friends married to the their first love so cant ask them. I really need to know and want to do the right thing, before I start have drinks with them, so I can be relaxed and not worry too much again.

I guess some people aware and probably seeing a few at the same time as well. I dont know what to say when someone shows strong interest after the first drink but am not though dont mind just be friends. but I feel so bad when later he realise am not interested in relationships at all.

2007-01-16 22:08:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

during an arguement with my boyfriend I suddenly blurted out that I wanted us to take a break, I immediatly regretted it but to my surprise he said he wanted one too now im freaking out and scared he'll break up with me, how do I fix this??

2007-01-16 22:06:32 · 14 answers · asked by Alicia 1

so there's a new girl at my church. she is so beautiful that that night i couldn't sleep at all because all i could think about was her.

so then i find out she's a transfer student, and will only be here for a month or two...

i'm feel devasated because i know there's no point in starting anything...

what should i do? did i just fall for her too easily?

2007-01-16 22:04:44 · 4 answers · asked by peter 1

Let's say you sleep together and she calls u the next day. What does that mean?

Does it mean she wants to see u again?

Does it mean she wants a relationship?

Does it mean she doesn't want u to think it was a one night stand?

2007-01-16 22:03:39 · 9 answers · asked by Jamal J 1

2007-01-16 21:59:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating an older gentlemen for about 8 months now. There's a nine year difference in our ages. He has been married and divorced twice. He says that he loves me but he also love both of his ex-wives. I became upset when he told me that. He tried to reassure me that he is in love with me and does not love them the same way he loves me. He says I am overreacting and being insecure about the whole thing. I say love is love no way around it there is no difference in being in love and loving someone. If there is a difference I would like to know what the diffference is. I am beginning to think that perhaps he may decide to go back to one of them. I really don't know if I am blowing this out of apportion and overreacting. I need some solid advice from someone mature enough to understand where I am is coming from?

2007-01-16 21:55:48 · 18 answers · asked by Denese 2

Im in my job for a year and a half .. Im a sectary ..

no one gives me a face, im nice , quite.
Does everything for anybody..

I dont know wheres the problem .. they all invite each other to thier offciec make an order from restrunts eat together will neve include me and if they do i will be the last one to know about it so i tell them no thanks.
i feel very bad .. I really cant get on with them i find it very hard they are the kind that will geer , say bad things behind your back .. do things to put you in trouble .. what do i do ??

2007-01-16 21:55:03 · 6 answers · asked by amyhamad 1

Hi, I have a dilemma about getting married, waiting, or not getting married at all. Im 22 my girlfriend is 21 and we've been together for 3 years and everyday I feel more and more pressure from her to get on my knees. Verbally she's mentioned it a few times but this past month she's been dropping more and more hints like 'it would be nice to get married in 2007'. I want to be with her but im not sure im ready for marriage, thats not to say I wont in the future. But im scared to say anything because she's likely to reconsider our relationship as she's a very fiery person. I've over heard her saying to her friend that she's with me to get married and has no intension of staying gf and bf any longer. To me that sounds like an ultimatume. Im just scared that if I say im not ready she'll want to leave. What do you think people? (especially girls).

2007-01-16 21:54:51 · 22 answers · asked by Max 1

My girlfriend and I broke up about three months ago. We dated for about nine months(We started dating last valentines day). We still see each other a lot, talk on the phone, kiss, and still say I love you to each other. We both want to get back together, but she doesn't think it is what God wants right now. What can I do on Valentines day to help her want to date me again? Any ideas??

2007-01-16 21:51:41 · 9 answers · asked by Chris 2

does indian girls like taller guys like me.How tall my partner should be to match me ?

2007-01-16 21:51:37 · 10 answers · asked by !!Love Is GOD!! 1

who dumped you after promising you the earth and lied about not going back to his x girlfiend. How would you phrase the email to get him to sort out the address change? Should I keep it to the point and just say sort your post out or add shame you couldn't have been honest with me. (I want his name off my address otherwise I wouldn't bother).

2007-01-16 21:50:33 · 15 answers · asked by farleyjackmaster 5

OK, when I couldn't figure out what turned women on. There was women everywhere. Now that I know how to attract them, they ain't nowhere to be found. LOL What kind of game is this? I can't no females anywhere hardly. Females that are my age and single. I'm 29.

2007-01-16 21:49:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

when you came home at 6am from working 12 hours on a forklift... if your girlfriend was wearing nothing but your big t-shirt some short shorts and socks.. and had a big plate of food for you... would you actually appreciate it? What would you do? i want to do this for my guy ;) hehe
and... i only have 1 hour and 15 minutes till he gets home... )|(

2007-01-16 21:48:48 · 14 answers · asked by Chef Mommy 2

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2007-01-16 21:44:25 · 9 answers · asked by Zakirova D 1

we ended up by november2005 and he got a new gf after that... then a year after (Nov2006), we got communication again and it so happened that we have contact. he told me he still loved me.

but just today he told me that they had contact with his gf last november 2006 and the girl is claiming to be 2mos. preggy. but he wanted me to be preggy also so that he can escape with his responsilibity with that girl becaus e according to him its me that he love..

2007-01-16 21:44:19 · 7 answers · asked by gaga-oly 2