this my freind wanna ask this ?
she marreid and have one dughter (age 10month)
on her 1st night of marrieg she said about her past love life to her hubby he has been behaved very understandingway n said to her that past is gone so he have no prob with that but he loves her want live happily his marreid life with her but know he started douting on her and he use to beat her up for no reason like when her mom or sis or any of her family member use to visit to see her he beats her up thinking that may be they might brought any message of her past lover she said her hubby that she dont even look at that guy but he cant trust her
he didnt even let her go to her fathers funeral
know her pas lover is willing to marry her but she is saying no to him as she wanna take care of her dsughter
her hubby is not bothed to ask her to come bake home when she left his house when his mother was touchering her
everyone is saying her to go to her hubby but her hubby dont even care for her or daughter
2007-01-16 22:29:46 · 4 answers · asked by shabana o 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is in india mumbai what she can do to get divorce as her hubby or any of his or her family member r not allowing her to get divoorce any women welfare society contact no please?
2007-01-17 17:58:53 · update #1
I think she shld divorce her husband and shld work. If she wants any security and his ex BF is good and ready to accept her as the way she is with her daughter, she shld marry him. B'coz a person who can not trust u, will try to be good for some time but again in future he will start doing those abd things. Be practical, its her daughter;s life's question. Tell her to go and work and with that get married to her ex.BF.
If she will left for her husband's house, and if he will again beat her, no body who today is telling her to go bak, will not come to give her support. She shld fight for her rights and leave her husband.
2007-01-16 23:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by sanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to sort out her feelings first..she has to sort out who she loves.IF she really loves her husband then she should have a talk with him...he needs to realise what he's doing is totally wrong..a man's hands are made to love a woman..not to beat her up.If he understands and changes(which, i don't think is possible) then they may start fresh. If not,your friend can go back to her ex lover if she still loves him.But if she loves neither, then she should divorce her hubby and lead a life of her own independently.She must not let anyone raise hand on her and degrade her like that.May god bless her...
2007-01-16 22:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it is your friends mistake bcoz she should have told about her love life before her marriage to her hubby.
Ok anyway now the problem has occured; so to solve it she should go to her husband and try pleading him and try making things understand about what really occured. She should also try to express her feelings and prove how much she loves her husband still beyond his beating & rough behaviour. Beyond trying all this and still her hubby do not accept her then it is better for her to stay with her parents and serve them.
2007-01-16 23:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by PH 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is really in a bad situation.......... its really waste goin back to that stupid.
2007-01-17 00:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by Ramya R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋